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-Shae-Lynn* 23-04-2008 07:10 PM

hypocritical?
 
Do any of you feel very hypocritical? I know I do. When you tell someone that it's okay to reach out and how everyone deserves the best in life and how life is worth living. I don't know, it makes me feel bad that I can't takr my w advice. I can help others with their problems, but when it come to my own, I got nothing! Maybe it just because with other people, it different.

Anyone else feel like that?

Porcelain Child 23-04-2008 07:17 PM

i feel like that too i often wonder why i give advice to others and not take my own advice to help myself, its weird

sparkle. 23-04-2008 07:32 PM

I feel the same, a lot of the time,

take care xx

CrazyChaoticMess 23-04-2008 10:37 PM

i kno exactly how you feel, im the biggest hypocrit of them all lol, i tell people to eat and its unhealthy to have but 1 meal a day, yet what i eat isn't even claed as a meal, i say life is worth and to hold on,stay strong, yet.......... you get the gist ^_^ but im here to help so pm me anytime hun x

Behind the Smile 23-04-2008 11:38 PM

I always feel like that!
But it's only because I care about others more than myself so they should take my advice but I don't have to :)
I think most people are like that

BarrelO'Crazy 23-04-2008 11:54 PM

yeah i feel like that, i have the advice but i take none of it. I'm so worthless

psychodarko 24-04-2008 01:04 AM

heh.. not just me then! i guess its coz some times u need to hear these things from others..conjoined with the fact that i at least i cant speak for the rest of you have rock bottom self esteem and am filled with self loathing so its all good so its hard to listen to myself. i mean if u hated some 1 at work would u eva listen to them?

deadstar 24-04-2008 10:29 AM

I know how you feel.
I often tell people that they're going to be ok and things to look forwards to, when it looks like an endless black tunnel.
Or i give people distraction techniques when i can hradly use them myself.
But then again, i always like hearing reassurance so i don't mind giving it to other people if i think it might help them.
Sorry, pointless post
xxx

TimesLikeThese 24-04-2008 05:44 PM

I've been told that I give good advice, but I can never seem to take it myself. I guess that it's good that there's other people to give us the advice we need for ourselves.


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