Aw hell.
 

I've never known my dad, save from mum telling me of his alcoholic and aggrssive ways. He found out she was pregnant and did a runner.
So tonight I decided it was high time I tried to trace him down, with the help of my beloved interwebz. Well I found him alright. He was murdered last September.

http://www.theboltonnews.co.uk/displ...er_m usic.php

How should I feel? Should I care?
... All I can think is, 'Thank god I don't look like him.' I feel awful.

Don't really know what to say I'm sorry. I can't imagine what it feels like.

I think you should just feel whatever comes naturally and I don't think you should feel awful or guilty for not feeling a certain way. I imagine it's upsetting because even though you didn't know him he is still your dad and now you wont get to know him but don't dwell on that fact.

Try to remain positive. Feel however you want and take care.

Sorry I'm not much use, just wanted to offer my opinion and let you know I'm thinking of you x

This sounds like a really difficult situation *hugs*
Is there someone you could talk to about this with?
I'm sorry i can't help, i just wanted to let you know that i'm here if you want to talk.
Please take care xxxx

Im so sorry this has happened to you *hugs* I don't think theres any way your 'meant' to feel, you need to grieve whether you knew him or not n i think this means just feeling however you do not trying to feel something else. Is there anyone you could talk to about this? Im thinking of you x

*hugs* hun, i'm so sorry...
I don't really know what to say
xx