Bye RYL </3
 

I'm going to take a break from RYL. I'm getting really frustrated with things right now. It's no one's fault, just the support (or lack there of) for people. I guess I'm over analysing. It's not just support that I've asked for, but in general. People will try so hard to help someone, and then when they need help, they get nothing. I get that people don't know what to say in every situation, but when a thread sits there for many days without a single reply, and all the threads around it have 10+ replies, it makes me upset that people can't even say "it'll be okay<3". Or when there are 100 views on a thread, but only 1 reply? How some people will write the smae things to every single person. They don't really think. Just a script they write over and over again. I guess that's better than having no replies. I don't get it! I'm not bashing the site. It's a great place. Just, I think that people need to reach out to help others more. I've been told that my maturity level is way above my age, so maybe that has something to do with it. I don't know. I just need to sort things out in my head. Things just aren't so good right now...

My leaving probably won't take away a lot from the site, but I felt that I wanted to make sure that if anyone actually noticed, they knew I was okay. I hope I was able to help people here. I really appreciate the help I've gotten. I'll try to check in from time to time to see how everyone is doing. And, maybe someday I'll be back. But if not... You are all amazing people. You deserve the very best life has to offer! Please don't give up. You never know what tommorow will bring. It could be the very best day of your life. Just keep breathing. Keep fighting. Keep trying!!

If anyone ever needs a shoulder to cry on, or someone to vent to, or just someone to listen, I'll be there for you. I'm only a PM away<3

i'm really sorry you feel like this
i do kindof know what you mean, and worry i'm part of the problem

you will be missed
goodbye and goodluck xxx<3

*huggles* i hope you come back soon. but i also understand exactly where you're coming from.
if you need anything at all, im always more then happy to listen. =) <3

I know what your saying about replies. However - everyday I go into Serious looking to make a reply and I just can't often find anything that is answerable with more than just some token response. People just say something about a boyfriend and that they can't make it through. I'm not saying thats what your doing - that's just one aspect of the malaise I see. Be well.

I know a lot of the time all you can do is say that everything will be okay. I really don't want to name people, because I know they are trying their best, but when you can go to several different threads and what is written is exactly the same, like down to the tinniest thing. It just shows that people don't take the time to make a real connection. I know it's hard to reply to people, but a lot of people aren't even trying. And I don't mean the people who don't comment or post at all. That is different.

*Hugs* i'm really sorry that you feel that way...

I wish you good luck for the future; it's bound to get better. I'm not going to play teh annoying optimist but there are always little things which can make life improve dramatically. Meeting someone new, a fun event, a great memory that will stay with you forever. It's pointless letting yourself fall into the abyss and it's simply not worth it.

Good luck and take care Emily hun *Hugs*..... I hope that one day you'll come back to get all the help and supporwt from your friends here :-)

Mike
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im really sorry that you feel this way. take care of yourself and good luck with everything.xxx