Bribary works
 

My counselllor who i see twice weekly has turned to bribary and its worked for a week so far. I have a very good relationship with her and appreciate my time with her, she has developed a contract between us that if i self harm in any extreme manner like i have been doing until recently, then she will drop my second session that week. I have managed to find the will power to not self harm at all! One week free!!:jumpin:

its good that you are not cutting, but it doesnt sound right if she drops the other meeting, i mean what if you really needed to talk about it or something?

congrats thou

Fantastic!
Good you're taking the blackmail/bribery so well and that it serves you so positively.
Keep up the good work

Congratulations on the one week :) that's really brilliant!
xxxxx

That sounds strange to me but if it's working thats good.

hey
its really good u can talk to her like that
and that she can help u in that way
keep it up, you're doing really well
*hugs*

Well done