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Kame 05-04-2008 12:58 PM

Mum a little bit obsessive
 
Okay so i've been on Easter the past two weeks and I didn't really notice last week but since Monday my mum has vacuumed every day and the same rooms. It's a bit worrying. I know some people just like being tidy, I know my mother is one of those people (she goes crazy every time my room is untidy) but is this a bit far vacuuming every day? Obviously if I did vacuum i'd know if it was a bit obsessive, but, heh, I don't.
Any advice?
Thanks ^_^
Lan xx

Life Must Go On 05-04-2008 01:08 PM

have you spoken to her about it? if not you could try

Kame 05-04-2008 01:14 PM

I didn't really want to talk to her and say "mum don't you think this is a bit obsessive" for her just to turn around and say "no it's normal". I don't really want to jump to conclusions just yet you see.

Life Must Go On 05-04-2008 01:21 PM

fair enough, you could see if it changes. but if ur really worried it'd probably be best to, even if there is a reason, you'd at least be made aware of it, is there anyone else at home you could tell?

Kame 05-04-2008 04:22 PM

I'm not overly worried, just a bit concerned this is slightly OCDish. I could ask my brother what he thinks, but he's a very tidy person too and dad wouldn't really bat an eyelid.
Thanks for the advice =)
*Cuddles*
xx

Manwathiel 05-04-2008 04:25 PM

You could simply ask her why she's vacuumed everyday. In my apartment, I have to vacuum more than once everyday and that's not because I'm being obsessive; it just gets covered in stuff like hay.

Doesn't help that I have animals though.

TimesLikeThese 05-04-2008 06:13 PM

My mom's house proud too. She has spent 9 years decorating it o.O

Just leave her to it, I'd say. If she's anything like my mom, she'll get pissy with you if you ask.


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