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fragiledollface 05-04-2008 03:45 AM

Possibly Pregnant after all...
 
Days before my PCOS test, me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex. I made some calculations and that day I might have been ovulating. There's a slim chance that I might be in my early stages of pregnancy right now. Freaking out? Just a little. I don't have such a bad age issue in my hands since I am 22, but I barely have money, my bf is 19 and without a job, college and then... my parents are in the middle too. Some help here?

What an irony, I was all scared of being infertile at first, now I am scared that I might be pregnant.

xoxo,
Ellie

monket 05-04-2008 07:08 AM

Ahh, I've been in your place before, and it sucks. All you can do is get a test ASAP. If you can't get to a doctor, get one from a drug store. No use living in agony waiting to find out! The sooner you know, the sooner you can get on with it.

Raven 05-04-2008 12:24 PM

i agree. you gotta take the test. its best to wait until you miss your period though, as before might show up a false negative.

OutOfTheWoods11 05-04-2008 12:47 PM

Try getting and taking a test ASAP... its the only way to set your fear at bay....

*Hugs*

Ami 05-04-2008 08:46 PM

hope it goes okay for you..

update us yeh? xx

fragiledollface 05-04-2008 10:51 PM

Like I said in another forum, I'm waiting until the 7th of this month (Monday). If it doesn't show up before, then or after, by the 21st I'll take a test. I'll be happy with any result. I'm not that extremely young to have a kid, so everything and I know, everyone will be happy and OK with whatever happens. I don't call a pregnancy right now as unwanted one. I can prove to everyone that I can be a great mom.

xoxo,
Ellie

fragiledollface 11-04-2008 03:02 AM

Update:

I'm 3 days late, my breasts are a bit tender, and I've been a little nauseous and having a bit of mood swings. Me and my boyfriend are really thinking that yes, I am pregnant. I'm thinking of taking a last pregnancy test at the end of the month. Do you all think that's wise? Should I really take it at the end of the month?

Ellie

daisy* 11-04-2008 03:08 AM

you should take it now, you already missed your period right?
so the test shouldn't come out false, cuz theres thos tests that can tell like a week b4 right?
you should take it so you know yes or no.
good luck!!
<33

fragiledollface 11-04-2008 03:37 AM

I already missed 4 days of my period. I'm going to just wait a little more and see if it shows up. Maybe I'll wait until the end of the month and see what happens.

xo,
Ellie

BeautyFiend 11-04-2008 01:03 PM

What's stopping you?
You might as well take it now. Better than worrying for another few weeks.

Jellihejj 12-04-2008 12:21 AM

as others have said already, you're better off taking a test now since by now your hcg levels wil high enough to be detected (assuming you are) however at the risk of bursting your bubble (i don't want to) don't read too much symptoms just yet.... but then again having said that the signs do seem to be pointing towards pregnancy.

hope it goes okay :)

monket 12-04-2008 08:15 AM

Like Pin Cushion Queen said, the symptoms can be misleading. Actually if you look them up, most of the early signs are exactly the same things that happen to you when you're about to get your period. Only getting tested is going to tell you for sure. Good luck!

fragiledollface 12-04-2008 11:48 PM

exactly why I want to get tested in the beginning of May. In case I do have my period now in April. But, I've never gotten nauseous when I get my period. :notsure:

fragiledollface 12-04-2008 11:52 PM

also, thanks to all the people who has hugged me on this thread!

fragiledollface 14-04-2008 11:58 PM

Update:

I usually get my period at the beginning of the month. We are already in the middle of April. I will be taking the test this week as soon as me and my boyfriend hang out again. Wish me luck!

xoxo,
Ellie

PS. At this point I am 75% sure that I am. It's just a matter of what the test says.

Raven 15-04-2008 11:00 PM

so why bother waiting til may then? lets just presume (as i dont know) your last period was on march 1st. that would make you approx 6 weeks pregnant. all pregnancy tests would pick this up, as there will be plenty of hCG, which is the hormone that is only present when you are pregnant, in your system. i found out i was pregnant around 6 weeks and it was the missing period and nausea that alerted me to it.
waiting until may just seems daft. it wont change the outcome, it will only leave you wondering for longer.
i say, be brave, bite the bullet and take the test!

fragiledollface 16-04-2008 02:10 AM

Thanks Raven! I am taking the test tomorrow morning for sure!

XxXflowerfairyXxX 16-04-2008 08:16 AM

Hope you're ok =]
What does the test say?
Remember you have three options: abort it, have it adopted, keep it.
It's your decision.
x

youngatheart 16-04-2008 12:22 PM

hope everything goes okxxx

fragiledollface 16-04-2008 01:29 PM

Maybe the test is right this time. It's a negative and little did I know, I am spotting. Then again, in the first days of pregnancy, spotting is a common thing. I'm actually going to be happy with whatever happens in the next few weeks.

xoxo,
Ellie


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