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bob--says--hi 04-04-2008 12:43 AM

to be or not to be?
 
basicly i havent seen my ex since october when we broke up, he just broke up with his girlfriend and now he says he wants to meet up!
i think he might want to get back together with me.
he just said to me that he will always have feelings for me because i was his first true love and that us getting back together are not totally out of the question.
i still have some feelings for him i did when i was with my last boyfriend but can i really handle a long distance relationship again.
but i am so willing for it to happen
and i'll let it this time as well
dont know whether or not im ready for it though.

MrsNutkin 05-04-2008 01:21 PM

You should do what you feel is right. Perhaps you might want to meet up with him to see how you feel and catch up but he may just be in need of someone as he has recently broken up with his girlfriend and getting involved in that wouldn't be so great.

Manwathiel 05-04-2008 04:29 PM

You have to do what you think is the right thing to do.
I would say follow your heart, but sometimes it is your head you need to listen to.

Just be careful, it probably isn't the case but it sounds as though he may want to get back together with you simply because his previous relationship hasn't worked out.

But really only you can decide. If there's doubt in your mind then perhaps you shouldn't go ahead with it. Have a talk with him and think things through. Whatever you do, don't just rush into anything.

x-dying-inside-x 05-04-2008 06:04 PM

do what your heart says hunny.
if you feel it is right to get back with him then get back with him hunny.

bob--says--hi 06-04-2008 02:35 PM

i think it is right he was the only one who understood me and he loved me for me and thats really important to me! so i think i will get back with him and i feel really positive about it and all that :D
thankyou for the advice
xxxxxxx


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