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loopy-lass 02-04-2008 11:54 PM

ever get the feeling you just dont fit in??
 
hi, i was wondering if you ever feel like this?

i dont fit in anywhere

i hate my home but cant go back to my parents
i dont have a mainstream look but not alternative either
you have all been so supportive but i dont even feel like i belong on here
i have no one
im to embarressed to admit im in an abusive relationship
i dont do drung nor do i drink much
i just dont fit in on this planet

......and i have no idea what i can do about it?

joyous broken thing 03-04-2008 12:38 AM

*nods*
i couldn't agree more

when ime in one of those rare good,positive moods, i like to think its the best place to be ^_^

but as i am in the same position as you,feel ill-qualified to recommend a course of action :$

big grin tho for the outsiders!!! wOoT

blissfully_forgotten 03-04-2008 12:46 AM

i feel the same

what i've found is that i make something out of what appears to everyone else as nothing.

I've found that i need to just step back and say 'so what' or 'tomorrow'

but I totally understand how you're feeling.

Squiffie_1 03-04-2008 01:56 AM

Oh dear,
Yes i totally know what you mean.
From what you have said, ( i mean obviously i dont know you personally, so correct me if i am wrong) but it doesnt sound like you have an awful lot of self esteem. Being in an abusive relationship makes this a lot worse. Also, very low self esteem could create an identity disturbance..(i think, well from what i have experienced anyway) Are you seeing a doctor/psych about your problems? I think the first step to take would be to seek help, maybe from a GP or ask to get reffered to a councillor.. and also seek help for the relationship problems.
*BIG HUGS* for you, im sorry if i didnt help much, but thinking of you :)
xxx

Shatterproof 03-04-2008 02:20 AM

I can totally relate! I'm a total outcast and have no real friends :'( Can't relate to the abusive relationship thing though, but everthing else I totally understand.

trina1723 03-04-2008 04:29 PM

^ im the same as above.
*hugs*
trina x

amberzak 03-04-2008 05:11 PM

Hey.

I have always felt like a missing jigsaw piece, that doesn't fit with the jigsaw at all.

Fitzwilliam 03-04-2008 07:20 PM

Hey.
I don't fit in either. I have no friends really and no-one likes sort of the same stuff as me. I completely don't fit in with anyone or anywhere.
I can't relate to the relationship bit, so sorry no use there, but I just wanted to let you know you're not alone in feeling like you don't fit in.

lydia. 03-04-2008 08:37 PM

I can relate very muchly so. You're never alone chuck.

Everyone is different. Embrace the things that make you unique. Just because you're different doesn't mean you're a freak or you don't deserve to feel as if you don't belong anywhere.

*squishes*


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