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SugarKane 12-06-2007 05:59 PM

Do you ever feel like..
 
You should have a sign stamped on your forehead saying 'LIKE ME!'

What I guess I mean is, do you constantly seek the approval of others, and worry whether or not they like you? Or do you genuinely not care, they can take you as you are?

:ermm:

inkyspider 12-06-2007 06:01 PM

I am exactly the same.
I'm always seeking approval and am extremely over-sensitive about anything.
I always say i don't really care, but, yeah.
Anyway, i've been told it has to do with low self-esteem.

_plastic 12-06-2007 06:15 PM

^Same and i keep saying also screw all as if i acer But deep inside i care!
Thats no good

tweety pie 84 12-06-2007 08:13 PM

yeah completely. I go to extrodinary lengths to get people to like me. Its so exhausting and stressful so i sympathise

Starless 12-06-2007 08:17 PM

For me it depends on the people . For the most part I genuinely do not care what people think of me. I just am who I am and let people decide for themselves if they like me or not. The way I see it, they will either like me or they wont, and really unless I want to change myself, there is nothing much I can do about that. With people I know and care about though, I do care what they think, and can be pretty sensitive.

crazykat 12-06-2007 09:07 PM

Yeah I feel the same way. I am always forever seeking the approval of everyone else

Psiren 12-06-2007 10:07 PM

I constantly seek approval and reassurance.
Thing is, although I do that when someone picks me out to say something for example if I get an award in school I shrug it off and I don't like it.
It's weird, like I need the approval but I hate making a fuss of doing well.

I'm just strange though.

raistlin 12-06-2007 10:14 PM

There are a few people that I respect a lot and want them to like me. But anyone else, I don't care, they can take me how I am.

ChrisG 12-06-2007 10:17 PM

Yes yes yes yes YES!

sazybel 12-06-2007 10:23 PM

KatieFrank I definatly agree with you I hate people knowing that i've done something well but i need to know if i've done something properly and i always feel i failed if i did something wrong or if i don't have some random thing someone wanted and i should have thought might be needed like tissues.

Misanthropic Girl 13-06-2007 12:00 AM

i think there are very few people who dont care. even if theyact like they dont.

personally i strive for approval fom others. i want to please others more than i want to please myself.

SugarKane 13-06-2007 12:32 AM

I know what people mean about not liking it when you actually get positive attention! And never believing it when people tell you that they or someone else does like you. Not believing that you could ever possibly be likeable or liked! Hmmph, to it all, anyway, it sucks.

J.K 13-06-2007 01:22 AM

I'd agree, most of the time all I really want is for some one to like me and say it (or the much chased after "I love you").

Lex 13-06-2007 01:45 AM

I used to really need people's approval...but I guess it's gotten to the stage now where I know it's not too likely to happen so I am, turely, beyond caring! The stamp thing would be a good idea though...


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