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Dreaming. 01-02-2008 04:07 PM

"Am-Dram"
 
I was having a debate with somebody in my house last night, about the class system. He was saying that I'm very obviously middle class. I was saying that I wasn't. That lead on to a conversation about where I come from, my home-town, and so on.

I mentioned that my dad was in an "Am-dram" group, and my friend laughed at me. Apparently just the fact that I call it Am-dram is 'middle-classed'. Well, it's easier than saying Amateur Dramatics the whole time!

Today, he's continuing to take the piss of me about it.

Do you think it's strange? Is it just him being, well, annoying, or is it a strange thing to say?

Opinionsssss.
Lots of love.

limey. 01-02-2008 04:14 PM

I've never really heard anyone say either, but I think it's fair enough, it's just an abbreviation really.

Also, I know how annoying the whole "you're posh" because of where you come from thing is.

88shelz 01-02-2008 04:17 PM

totally confused

Kittyne 01-02-2008 04:24 PM

i tihnk thewhole am-dram thing is quite middle classed i wouldnt say calling it that would be middle classed

Zedebee 01-02-2008 04:26 PM

I've never heard it called that untill now........

Voldemort 01-02-2008 04:27 PM

Never heard of Am-dram and I'm 'posh' apparently.

I'm not. You've met me. But yes. Not a clueee. =]

linder surprise 01-02-2008 04:54 PM

i think the majority of the people on this site are middle-class.
if you don't think youre middle-class, what class do you think you are? or do you prefer to not class yourself, in general?

atropine 01-02-2008 04:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zedmeister (Post 521907)
I've never heard it called that untill now........

likewise.

Zedebee 01-02-2008 04:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mister linda. (Post 521970)
i think the majority of the people on this site are middle-class.
if you don't think youre middle-class, what class do you think you are? or do you prefer to not class yourself, in general?


I prefer not to class myself

Mrs Sam 01-02-2008 05:02 PM

no idea what am-dram means, well until you said.

Accidentally Abstract 01-02-2008 05:15 PM

Does sound quite posh, to be honest.. =P

Tears and Rain 01-02-2008 05:20 PM

Nvere heard of ittt.

Ash* 01-02-2008 05:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mister linda. (Post 521970)
i think the majority of the people on this site are middle-class.
if you don't think youre middle-class, what class do you think you are? or do you prefer to not class yourself, in general?

I second this.


"I prefer not to class myself"
Why?

griddlebone 01-02-2008 05:25 PM

Ive called it am dram before.and yeh im probably in the middle class category....not bothered by it tbh.

Spoons 01-02-2008 05:36 PM

even if you are middle class, is that a problem?
there is nothing wrong with being well spoken
he's only having a joke around.

linder surprise 01-02-2008 05:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ash* (Post 522028)
"I prefer not to class myself"
Why?

yes.
i was going to say the same thing.
i don't think being middle class is such a terrible thing (or a terrible thing at all). just be thankful you're not working class, ha.

this reminds me of an article we had to read for sociology once called "nobody likes the middle classes!" &my friend was like "awhh. i feel really sorry for them now."
&i said to her: "uh, you are middle class, you idiot."

Dreaming. 01-02-2008 05:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spoons (Post 522057)
even if you are middle class, is that a problem?
there is nothing wrong with being well spoken
he's only having a joke around.

There's nothing wrong with it, per-ce, but it's the fact that he's using it as a negative thing.
And it was more to do with the fact that, as sheltered as this sounds, I just didn't realise that calling it that wasn't some mainstream thing.

& yeah, I prefer not to class myself. Technically, I probably would be classed as middle-class, but there are a lot of connotations and stereotypes related to that, and some people who are around like to use that to my disadvantage :P

It's like, I don't mind the joke, but when it's all the time - with things that aren't even accurate, anyway - it's just rather annoying.

But yeh, I didn't realise that it wasn't some mainstream thing!

Puppet Strings 01-02-2008 05:59 PM

Some people are so quick to say people are of a certain class sometimes, and base what they're saying on a few very select things. That really does my head in. Plus, everyone tends to have different views on who's in what class, depending on where they come from, what they're used to, and so forth.

They all come with negative stereotypes, you can't seem to win! Best to avoid it as much as possible, haha.

"Am-dram", can't say I've ever heard of it either - not that "amateur dramatics" comes up much for me anyway.

xx

griddlebone 01-02-2008 06:57 PM

I think Am-Dram is more used if you or someone you know is in the business, like if you or someone you know does amatuer dramatics then theyre more than likely to know.use the phrase.

gypsyroselee 01-02-2008 07:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mister linda. (Post 522083)
yes.
i was going to say the same thing.
i don't think being middle class is such a terrible thing (or a terrible thing at all). just be thankful you're not working class, ha.

this reminds me of an article we had to read for sociology once called "nobody likes the middle classes!" &my friend was like "awhh. i feel really sorry for them now."
&i said to her: "uh, you are middle class, you idiot."

i think i read that.

the best sociology thing i read though was called "putting the FUNK in functionalism"

i laughed so much.


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