My father.
 

Was, just, erm, a bit heavy handed with me, because I locked the door when I went to the loo.

And I have noone I can talk to about it.

People have exams, or are in another country, and for once I want something more than just interweb speak - I want a real cuddle - and I can't get it.

And my head hurts (headache) so I can't even stay on here for more than another minute or so.

I want to get out of here.
I need to get out of here.

Hunni sorry to say but your dad is an arse!!
Why cant you lock the bathroom door. Thats just crap!!!
Go set the shark from the pool on him!!
*hugs* Wish it was real one for you hun.
You know where i am i you want to talk.

You have a right to privacy and your own space. I'm angry and sad that your father doesn't accept that. It sounds like he has a lot of learning about boundaries to do. ((((((((((((((((((((((big hug))))))))))))))))))))))

I know its not quite what you want, but I am sitting with you in cyber-space.

Do you think this thing with the bathroom is to do with your SH? Do they do it to your sister too? Does he do it because hes paranoid you are going to cut yourself?

If this is the case then you need to talk to them both. If this is not because of the self harm then you still need to say something. what he is doing is NOT RIGHT!

Soon you will be free of this. xxx

.. i'm just thinking on the hoof here and it may be totally sucky but i just wonder if when he's losing it like that saying something like 'before you hurt me what would you want to say instead of hurting me?' unless of course he's just unable to be reasoned with.. please be safe as you can.. i prescribe one dose of ninjahugmeister per day

Chels
i offer you big caring hugs
please take care of yourself
i care about you

I never thought about this. My sister never locks the door. Noone does really. "Open family" **** that I can't wait to get rid of. I like my privacy. Maybe because I'm so used to it being violated.

Talking to him, or my mum, when they're in the kind of mood they've been in for the last couple of days/week is impossible.

I was going to write them a letter, even if I never sent it, but it always got put off. I can't be bothered, to be quite honest. I don't see the point at all. I'd rather concentrate on my exams and getting out of here.

Oh, and Kim, Katie, Hat, Dave and Matthew, thankyou. It means a lot.

I'm sorry hun
I hope you are feeling better and that the studying pays off
Good luck!

Man, that sucks. I totally get how you feel about the privacy thing being violated and not being able to talk to them about it. I wish I had anything useful to say, but I don't.

Good luck on your exams.

build a tunnel from the loo to your room - no cornering you when you comeo ut.

sorry that was ****.

erm
you have a right to your own privacy. buy a bilt for oyur bedroom door maybe to get your point across?