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Rogalsgirl 30-12-2007 05:49 PM

Cuts and Sex *adult*
 
I was wondering, like, does anyone or would anyone here get really sexually aroused if they cut in front of someone, or heard/saw someone else cutting?

You can just write an answer 'yes' or 'no', or you can elaborate if you want.

Thanks, and I hope everyone is doing well :)

squirrelspit 30-12-2007 06:07 PM

me and my partner sometimes cut each other during sex, or as kind of foreplay.
its mostly me that cuts her.
i dont know if its the blood or what but it makes me really horny.

zowie 30-12-2007 06:16 PM

/\ Me and my boyfriend do that too.

Ami 30-12-2007 06:27 PM

no not at all, i find that really weird

but each to their own and whatnot... :)

Scumbelina 30-12-2007 06:44 PM

No - for my self-harm is about pain & suffering. Sex is about love, trust & pleasure

Dan 30-12-2007 07:19 PM

I think there's a very thin line between pleasure and pain, especially in people in our kind of situation. Just my 0.2p.

Rogalsgirl 30-12-2007 07:22 PM

^^ Yeah. I find pleasure in pain :$

surprising mystery 30-12-2007 07:25 PM

I cant say I would be aroused at all, but I know pleasure and pain are linked, and I spose I might try it,, but I doubt it,, it just doesnt fit my ideas of lurve-making :P xx

y a s m i n 30-12-2007 11:14 PM

i agree - i think there's a thin line between pleasure and plain..

x

Benjibum 01-01-2008 02:17 PM

i definitely agree... that and really really hard biting

Louise 01-01-2008 03:40 PM

no i also feel self injury is about pain and suffering

Benjibum 01-01-2008 04:11 PM

If you get cut by someone else willingly, is that self harm? i consider it as self harm, but i ask for it a hell of alot =S

xfallenangelx 01-01-2008 04:19 PM

i would never let the 2 cross over. self harm is a private, punishing thing for me, and has nothing to do with sex or love for me.

Race The Dream 02-01-2008 01:46 AM

^^ I agree, but I can understand where other people are coming from.

crazykat 02-01-2008 01:52 AM

No....

sixsixes 02-01-2008 03:32 AM

well ive had a real lust for blod but cant ever say i have done anything like that, bu.t dunno why i like and have a lust for blood so bad, meh, wierd

purexcocaine 02-01-2008 05:06 AM

nope nope.
i haven't had sex, but i would never let the two cross.
my cutting is private and tbh i would want blood over me while i was having sex anyway. =/

scarlett1 02-01-2008 04:51 PM

whilst I'm into the whole pleasure pain thing the cutting itself is associated with hurting myself. Plus I like the pain to be something sensual, ie them touching me with themselves rather than an instrument (erm...make sense??), so it's have to be the hitting and biting method for me :P

Rogalsgirl 02-01-2008 04:56 PM

I didn't necessarily mean the other person cutting you during sex, or the other person cutting you at all for that matter.

I meant, if you saw your partner or someone cutting themselves, would it turn you on? (You can continue to give your thoughts on the matter of cutting DURING sex, but that isn't what I meant)

Thanks :)

scarlett1 02-01-2008 05:15 PM

nah...even if I saw them cutting themselves I still have those associations in my mind. I couldn't get turned on by that. The only time I get lusty around blood is if there's a rare beef roast in front of me :P


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