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hey everyone, im not really sure how it works, but here i am!

i was just woundering if any one could help me?

i stoped SH about 6 months ago and as expected i still wasnt to do it some times. but the thing is, sicnce i stoped my life seems really dull! i never want to go out any more and i have completly lost my libido!!!:sad:

i was woundering wether it was common after you stop to feel unforfilled, and whether any one has any tips on how to get my life back!!

help much appreciated

lofty

xx

Um... i never really had that when i stopped. I stopped for about 18 months and was ok, although i did urge quite often. I've started again though now.

It's probably because whatever was making you want to SH in the first place hasn't been resolved or dealth with and so now that you don't SH you're not letting those feelings out. Maybe you need to find a healthy coping mechanism to deal with your feelings rather than SH.

Do you or have you had any therapy that can help you deal with your thoughts and feelings?

cheers guys :)

yer i fink i need to get more excitment in my life.

i av never seen a counciler before but am thinking of it

thanx again

love

lofty xx