Oh dear again
 

*Adult* (Can't get it in the subject header)


So I'm in a pickle and want some advice.

Right on Saturday night I went to a brilliant party, and I've met this guy (lets call him David) before, he's one of my friends friends. We'd chatted and stuff before but never anything that much.

Anyway after the party we continued it at my friends Shaun's, and David came. I was staying there as I couldn't drive because I was over the limit. Anyway David was staying too as he lived to far away to walk home.

Anyone after Shaun went to bed and everyone else left me and David were laying in the conservatory on a make shift bed thing and there was kissing and sex. Then afterwards I went to go to sleep as it was about 2am and I had work at 10 and needed to sober up and sleep.

He wouldn't let me sleep as "It would be boring if I went to sleep". So I proceeded to tease him about being young and sweet (I'm 18 he's 16 almost 17). He got in a strop and said I should make it up to him - by the means of sex/blowjob. I laughed and told him no. Anyway we spent pretty much the whole night talking and a little bit of kissing.

when I sobered up I drove home and then went to work. Except now I've decided I really like him. He's a nice boy, I'm not quite sure when I'm seeing him next.

I was going to arrange for Shaun to have a BBQ so that I could see David tonight, but I don't want to seem scary. So I gave up and I'm going to the pub instead I think.

I've been told (by another mutual friend) that since he split up with his ex I've been the closest person to him in that physical sense and maybe even slightly mentally. I jokingly said that I was proud of myself and was told I should be.

So the question I pose to you is....

whats the next step?

I don't want to scare him, but I like him a lot and would like to have a relaxed relationship with him.

Any advice happily received.

Hmmm i've never been in this situation before. suprisingly. ha!

But what i would do is speak to him a little more, but whilst your speaking drop in questions you would like to know. i can totally understand you don't want to scare him so just drop in something like "have you ever thought about having a relationship with anyone else" or " is there anyone you have your eye on at the minute". Obvisouly i don't know what stuff you would like to know, so ask him what your interested in knowing. This way, you would find out the answers you want to know, and not have the worry of scaring him off.

I'm not sure if any of that makes any sense atall, but i hope i helped a little.

Hope you find out whats best soon =]

Caz x

Fistly i think this topic needs *adult* added t the title.

Personaly i'd invite this guy out a few times (maybe as a group of you) so you get to know each other a littl moe before talking to him about being in a relationship

I'd say just get to know him, spend some more time with him, and then see how that goes. Hope something works out!

Unfortunately patience has never been a virtue of mine....

Thanks though =)