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~SuNsHiNe~ 26-08-2015 11:22 AM

blended families
 
My ex bf and I broke up yesterday due to a few issues, but one of the main ones was that I was having difficulty with the fact that he has 2 kids to someone else and we may not be able to have kids due to fertility issues (his 2 were conceived with IVF). Has anyone been in a similar situation? We love each and want to be together but I really want a family and it's difficult knowing that he and his ex share that and we may never

Chia. 27-08-2015 03:35 PM

I haven't been in this situation personally :(

The issue of having children can be a deal breaker in relationships. Love and the maternal longing for children are very complicated feelings and no one but you knows what's right for you.

It takes courage to walk away from someone that you love, it sounds like you may already know what's right for you and have made your decision. It's very painful saying goodbye to someone you love.

If you want to try again then that's up to you. What do you want?
Have you considered adoption?


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