Help Please! Losing my mind!
 

Ok, so usually I go to family about these types of things, but I don't think I can regarding the circumstances. I need advice on what to do! My stepmother's father, my step grandfather who has been in my life since I was 9, made a pass at me the other day on facebook. Or at least I think he did. He just downloaded the messenger app for facebook on his phone and would send me those little funny stickers and I sent one or two back, I mean it was innocent really, he is like my grandfather. I have screenshots that I don't mind sharing to let you see that it was truly innocent and then turned creepy really fast! So anyway, he sent me a message saying "you know you could cause this old man to get in trouble." Like how am I supposed to read that except for creepy!?!??! I am so confused on what to do because I don't know if I should go to my parents and tell them or if I should just tell him that he is like my grandfather and to seriously back off?? I don't want to cause any family drama because this has seriously creeped me out. So what should I do??

Hi, this does really sound like a difficult situation.

Can you talk to your birth mother about it, seeing as she's not in that side of the family?

I wouldn't get too abrupt with your grandad yet - if I were you I would avoid replying and only see him when you're with other family members. Just so he knows you have noticed how he is behaving. If he gets any more "creepy" could you show your dad and/or stepmum the messages, or another trusted family member?

If he forces you into anything at all, make sure you tell somebody.

Hugs, this sounds really tough.