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StephenDay1998 18-12-2014 03:30 PM

Crush or a feeling of loneliness?
 
So, basically..I was dumped 2 weeks ago, but I already have a "crush" on someone else...I don't know if its a real crush or just a feeling of loneliness....Advice wanted on this...thanks...

phoenix_M 19-12-2014 08:00 PM

i'd say give it some time and if in say 4-6 weeks you still have that crush then yes its real. with how close it is to you being dumped then like you say it could just be loneliness and latching on to someone who is being nice to you

wearethesea 21-12-2014 11:02 PM

Yea, I had that problem...and it only added to my need to SH.
I mean, I had the need to CONSTANTLY be with someone, and I've put myself into numerous shitty situations. It's very easy to "crush" on someone who is being nice to us in our weak and vulnerable and needy moments. I agree with Phoenix, wait for an amount of time.


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