Is he playing me? Should i cut him out of my life? Maybe he just wants sex?
 

So there is this guy friend i have that i have known about 5 years now, and we both had crushes on each other at the beginning that we both admitted, but a relationship never developed and nothing ever happened between us and we lost touch. We got in touch again recently, and he was flirting with me via text, being suggestive, and he told me he wanted me and we have always had a connection. I took it he meant he wanted me in every way. Anyway, i told him my feelings about him, and he just basically said he liked our friendship too much and that was one of a few reasons he couldn't see us ending up together, but he is sexually attracted to me. To be honest i found the whole too good a friend thing a lame excuse and an easy way to let me down, but he does know i have no intentions of just meeting up for sex, i have made that very clear, but he says he still wants to hang out with me as friends. Should i cut this guy out of my life? Does he really see me as a friend or does he want to meet to just try and sleep with me? I am very confused by his behavior, and i am really let down he led me on and then seemed to just flip on me. I don't plan on contacting him seems i don't want to seem like an annoying admirer or something, but if he contacts me idk what to do really. I am wondering if he now realizes i won't be sleeping with him, so he has given up the pursuing, and the friend thing was just him thinking he was putting it across in a nice way. Thoughts? He also has not responded to me a few times. Maybe now he knows my feelings he won't contact again anyway. He doesn't have to contact me regularly seems we aren't together or anything, but i really miss talking to him. I am just wondering if people think based off the story that he is not going to contact me again and i should just forget him?

I'm not sure wether u should think more about the friendship that what it seems. You said hes wanting more then friends but not actually wanting to spend time with u then more then friends.

I dont see why he would want to see u more if he's only after one thing. It seems like it to me and that's not good if u want more then that. This is the way it seems to be going. You not said he's texted u since u haven't spoke to him if u want him spend time with u at urs. It shows he only wants that.

Good that u known him before and there is a chance for u two remain friends if it don't work out but what it sounds like to me is there's only one thing he wants and that's why he hasn't texted u cuz u not said yes u can come round.

I would see how it goes from now with u and him and wether he will text back and ask how u are but u know that he not text u then I would leave it and not carry on the way it's going. I know u want more but I don't think he does. I'm not sure wether u need to speak to him about this. Could u do that and text him and say about meeting up? See how it goes.

I know there will be someone out there who would want what u want and that's all what matters right now. You will meet someone whenever that is so don't worry. You see im like a nice person who wants someone to make u happy and thats understandable. You dont need someone like him in ur life.

Not sure if this is true but could he be asking for Friends and Benefits? I've had it before and I don't like it as its only asking for one thing and nothing more so from what ur thinking about wether he likes u or not it could be that he does but only for sex.

I think u need to ask urself that and it seems likely that he would be asking for that. It's understandable to know everything u said is what he wants. Wouldn't say anything right now but maybe ask about meeting up and talking.

I hope that's helps.