Time to de stress
 

I need a relaxing bath to de stress an I've not even got out of bed and I don't what to go college today is gonna be a LONG drag ..

I'm sorry

Can you plan something relaxing for when you are back home (if you go to college)?

I will climb into bed when I'm home I don't finish till 3:00 and haw no money on my oyster so am havig to get buses today.

Having a bath when you get home sounds good <3

Sorry you are having such a stressful day, hope time speeds up a bit!

x

Did u go college today? I forgot what ur sudying? Im sure it will get better as u will know wether college is something u want to do or not. Maybe u need to go to get alot out of it for any reason ur thinking of.

Im sure other people feel the same as u do. Aslong as u have someone to talk to and ur not on ur own at anytime is a good thing to have. There are people who u can go to when u need support or advice. Do u have someone at ur college like a Counseller? That maybe something to look into.

If ur only feeling stressed now and again then thats normal. Going anywhere new is like that but its knowing wether ur having a bad say on a regular basis. Being to cope with the work and having people there for u will show that ur in the right place and theres nothing holding u back .

You know there is always someone to talk to on here :)

Im here two

Thanks I went to college it was boring people laughing at me Im going today I'm gonna try these 2 weeks and also go to the other interview cuz then I have the option to continue or change and neither will know ... I have my tutor today , and tommrow I have tutor head of subject and maths think today's less bad as I finish earlier too but dread it

I know u said theres no one u can talk to at college but surely there must be someone who can look out for u as the head teacher of the college. They will hopefully be able to have a Word with ur teachers and say u are going through a bad time at the moment and need so me support from her teachers who can see if shes ok. You are struggling here and the least thing u can do is have a word with the heaa teacher as its his job to look after the students. Cant ignore it as theres no way he can.

I think u tried everything and i think the only way u will get listened to is to go to the person whos in charge cuz there will be a better outcome. You should try that when u go to college next and let them sort it. What do u think? Thats what will changes things hopefully.

Maybe also when u go to that meeting about wether ur gonna stay on ur course what ur doing now that u say u have been feeling not urself and spoken to the head teacher about things and need some support in ur classes and see if they can help u. I think its best mentioning.

You need to think wether or not the courses ur doing or if its one that u want to stick with it or not. You need to feel happy in urself so u dont have to think later ahead wether u made a mistake. I dont know what courses u do Run With Scissors?

What do u think?

I would try and see a Counseller out of college time to time so u can the support with how ur feeling inside and out. There are a range of services out there who u can get in contact with and make an appointment to see someone when the counseller can speak to u. Im not sure where u live but if ur in the UK most Counselling sessions are free. Have a look on the internet. Its up to u if u think seeing them will help or doctor etc.

If u need anyone to speak to in the mean time then u know that this website is avaliable and The Smartians are avaliable two. Day and Night everytime. They will listen and wont judge. What u find on here. I would also try to either speak to a family member or a good friend about how ur feeling two.

You could maybe spend so me time with them outside of college and go for a walk or to watch a film. Could even start a group if u wanted to oneday in ur spare time. Anything u like doing. Music, Watching Filmas, Reading, Cooking or Voulnteering what would be good to do two. Its up to u. Do what u think.

Think about it from everything i have said and try it when u next go to college and see if it has helped. You shouldnt have to feel alone Run With Scissors and there are people who u can talk to.

Worth a try i think :)

Im here if u wanna talk or whatever,

Talk Soon,

JusC x

This course is suppose to mean that I can try and he a job after cuz I will have the knowledge and I'mtrying to get into
Volunteering work as well , if this college and course isn't right
For me then my only other option is childcare , I gonna wait and see if my tour talks to my worker .

Ok. Sorry forgot what course ur doing now? I keep forgetting. Sorry. Thats good that once the course is completed hopefully u will find employment as u would of gained ur qualfication in what ur studying. Is it just the one course ur doing. I know u said ur doing maths and something else?

Yh the college should hopefully get u into employment as thats there job to get u into something else before u leave. They can try and look for options as u said about the voulnteering or going onto another course as u said with childcare. That what u wanna do?

Sometimes it will be hard to look for work once u have finished education. I did two. I did college but wasnt right for me at the time and went onto other training providers and looked for work. Thats the trouble. Work is hard to find as Im still looking for work and on scholarship but still there. Will be hard for u if u havent any work in a while. Maybe voulnteering will be best for u at start.

You can try and look for voulnteering work in child care. That would be good. You could do an apprenticeship cuz they will be able to train u up so u can gain qualifications whilst ur there and they will have to keep u on as they will have no choice as thats what an apprenticeship is all about. Would be good.

You have to think about whats best. I dont know when u finish college but u seem to not have that long to be there. Would be good to speak to ur teachers and see where to go. Are u changing courses or not?

I think try that and see what happens. You said u got the meeting next week or something and see how it goes. Tell them what u would want after and they will help u from there. You said what u wanted. Thats good that ur nearly finished with it. Know now what to do.

Do u get ESA or JSA? I think u said ESA so thats alright. You wouldnt of had to pay to do the course then. Could be that u may want to go on another course. That would be good two. Whst do u think? I think the National Careers Service would help. You can visit them on website etc.

Would u still be able to claim ESA? You could go onto JSA but depends if u dont find work or something. I dont know.

Your doing well.

JusC x

Ido health and social care I only hair started so would have till next September left im really not sure if I'm changing or not tbh I currently get ESA and
Have to give sick notes I just went on it

I thought u only had a couple of months of what u said on ur post. I didnt know that. I suppose u will know what happens next year and things will be different for u. It will be a new year etc.

I thought u had a meeting with ur teacher and counseller or something? When was that? You said some meeting u had. What did they say at the meeting u had with them before or

Decide now what u wanna do cuz may regret ur desion. I know u dont want that. Have to do whats best for u. What did they say when u were there? Need to think about what ur gonna do. I dont think carrying on with the course ur on Health and Social Care. That would be good if u stayed on it. Dont think theres much point changing when ur half way through now.

I know u said the students who are in ur class might still be in there but u know what the course is like and u seem to be doing ok. Maybe things will be different next year and u will get on better. You can try and make an effort on the course ur on cuz u know u wanna get on there and not be left alone.

You should speak to ur teacher about this. Think about what she says and what to do about it. I know she would want u to get on and u said she hasnt said ur not doing good on the course. Thats a good thing isnt it. I think changing courses wouldnt be ideal. You should stay on it. Your there only a couple of days and u go on ur work placement so whats the problem?

Got a while yet untill u think about what u wanna do after ur course but u want to do voulnteering or find a job. Thats what u should do.

Good that ur getting ESA which will support u at college. I dont know how old u are but the ESA must carry on till u finish college next year. Though i think u can only carry on with having ESA at college if ur under 20 i think. Could have changed when i was there but i think its only for students who are under that age who can still recieve it. Do u think u may get JSA once college is over for further support once u leave college? Depends what happens.

Good that ur doing well. When u next there?

Let me know x

I got to be there Monday and I got email yesterday summoning me to see the head of subjectnkonday before class to discuss the incident am afraid I also got to go to the welfare thing before we'd and that's scary too

I was looking at a support and recovery time worker on nhs I might aim that one bit higher hut I want to get into the field first and work my way up and I want to sort all my problems whist I study and not put my life on hold

Thats good. I hope it goes well for u. You know u will be able to talk to them about some of things what ur worrying about. I know u are worried about ur course, the support in the class, the students and being on ur own. You can tell them this when ur there. What is it ur discussing? What about ur course u may change? Sorry what was that? Something about taking up

I dont know what issues u got on the course. Whats happened? I dont know whats happened but u did say about the students on ur course not liking u and u werent happy. You spoke do ur teacher and they said u are overthinking it. You know if its happening to u or not. The teacher is the teacher so they wont know whats going on.

Its good that ur going to the meeting on Monday. How many times in week do u go college? Not said

Atleast u got ur placement to go to. How many times is that?

Im not sure if ur seeing a counseller or not but be a good idea if u do. The NHS u said u might see someone? When will that be? Have to find out i think

Im here if u wanna talk

JusC

Let me know how tomorrow goes. What time is it? Im sure ur be alright. Dont worry.

You got people on here to support you.

Im here if u wanna talk

JusC

I got to be in college for lesson at 11:30ish and I'm meant to find the head of subject before I'm only there Monday's Tuesdays and Wednesdays but I'm afraid of the head of subject she doesn't seem lke the easiest person to talk to i kind of want to bump into my personal tutor in the corridor so that I can have. A quick word I'm terrified of getting upset I hate getting upset I feel
Out of control and I hate people seeing me that way makes me feel even more vunerable and I feel that all the time

Placement will be a week in nov and a week in March
I have a mh worker and support worker and housing worker

I got to go to the counciling at college otherwise I got a feeling I'll get thrown off she wanted that done end of wed or by this wed at latest scared to go to the main building as it is huge

I'm just afraid Cuz of the way the email said to discuss this incident ..

Thanks I always feel no one cares and I don't deserve support x

You shouldnt have to suffer alone. Its good that u can see ur counseller later and they will be able to try and help. You dont have anyone there and for them to is good. Thats what u need. You know.

Ok. I hope the meeting went well. What are u discussing? Would be good if u asked about staying on the course ur doing or not. They should hopefully help u know what to do. I think u should stay on there as u know the course and ur getting support now. Thats what u wanna do aswell and u should. Maths also u said.

Whats happened? Is it the students who u dont get on with? Best if u talk to ur teacher and u proberly did. Something needs to be sorted out. Not right. You dont need to feel alone. Im not sure if u said if u got a friend there?

Good that u got ur work placement and ur not there all the time. Your doing well and u dont need to feel like this as its not right.

Im here if u wanna talk x

The head of subject doesn't want to throw me off but she's worried I won't cope or I will drop out cuz I jave a lot on but it's my choice but I need to show her I can stay in the class room she said I
Could
Find her after college or on breaks to talk I also need to go to the welfare thingy as when I spoke to my other tutor he said my peorsnal tutor wouldn't of suggested it if It wouldn't help and he thinks I should do well ..

Thats good though. Anything else? You said about the students in the class? Worth saying that to her.

Yh I think u should stay on the course. Your half way and don't think there's any point u changing but something needs to be sorted out. You like the course but it's the people. You don't know if there gonna be there. How u doing on it?

I think it's good u got the counsellor as u need someone to talk to. It's good to have that. You need someone to talk to. Have u got a friend there?

What's the welfare?

Jus C

Hmm both my threads are getting similar now ah lol

Welfare is the support team with the counsellors at college they might even be able to help with the bursaries

What does I got my eye on you mean ? Should I
Be worried the head of subject said this