Tig (Lottie) needs our help.
 

Hello,
I've made this thread for support for Lottie (Tig). She's struggling a lot and won't let people know incase she burdens them- which isn't true. I am worried about our Lottie as she is one of the first people to help others out as she has a big heart but this time; I think Lottie needs a safe place to vent and seek help from others without her being able to delete thread as she's scared.

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Lottie,
You are so amazing and deserve to be loved. Things with G haven't been good but that isn't your fault it's his on away as he's very naive about mh. Things can and will get better. You've come so far in the amount of time I have known you. Please keep strong and I hope crisis team is okay tonight and maybe consider their proposal. Love you x

I know we talk a lot via text and I know the situation right now but please keep fighting my twinny xxxx

You can get through this I believe in you

I love you so so much
Always here xxxxx

(I hope you do manage to get a bed as you of all people deserve the support and help)
Much love all the love in the world and then some :)
Xxxxxxxx

Lottie you deserve to get support I hope you can use this space here to safely seek it. We are all here for you and cherish you very much xxxxx

Lottie, you easily go down as one of the most lovely, kind hearted and gentle people I know, and you deserve that kindness and care you show others so often too.

Take whatever support you need right now, and know we are right behind you *hugs*

Lottie,

You're amazing and so lovely. You're always supporting others and you deserve support as well <3

We all care about you here and I hope you're able to talk here when you feel ready.

x x x

We don't talk a lot, but I hope you're doing okay. The lyrics in my signature I've dedicated to everyone on RYL, even you. I hope those words will lift your spirits. <3

I don't no you but I hope you are ok -hugs-

Lottie it is okay to reach out to us for support. We are all here for when you feel ready to talk. Sending lots of love and hugs

Lottie, you are an amazingly beautiful person, and you have such a kind heart for everything. My signature... You are one of the angels people look or, and you help them more than you could ever know!

*hugs*

Lottie, you are amazing. You always help everyone on here. Please remember you need help yourself. If you ever need to talk feel free to PM me. Sending you much needed hugs.

Love from MEERA xx

Please let us be here for you, post here, anytime you like, I know it's difficult to reach out, especially since I know you hate doing so, but you DESERVE the support and help, more than anyone else I have ever known, and I've known you for so many years now, so please please please reach out and let us be there for you.
xxxxx

I love you my amazing twinny.
xxxxxxx

Lottie, I am really sorry things are so bad right now. You are such a kind and helpful person you really do deserve more kindness and support.

Thank you everybody for all your kind words and thank you very much Fire Fly for starting the thread <3 I'm so sorry I've only just seen it now. Had my head in the clouds today I think.

I really appreciate all your kind words and support.

I've been struggling a lot and finding it very difficult to open up. I'm not quite sure what stops me but it all feels very complicated. I feel ashamed of myself when I say I feel bad because lately people had been proud of me for doing well.

I'm waiting on the crisis team now but I'm terrified as it usually doesn't go too well.

xx

Oh Lottie, I'm so sorry things aren't going well for you.
I hope the crisis team are useful.
You are such an amazing, kind-hearted and caring person. We all want to be here for you.
You're in my thoughts lovely xx

Hi lottie it's been a few hours now how did the crisis team go?

Thinking of you xxxxx

It went very badly. They spent a lot of the time having a go at me because they had heard from my care co-ordinator that I had previously found them unhelpful. Everything I had said was taken out of context, for example I gave them compliments as well as saying they were issues but they were really awful with me tonight.

When I started crying, they laughed and said they'd be back tomorrow to make me cry again.

I didn't find that very funny at all but maybe I'm just being sensitive.

Thank you for asking and thank you Emma too for your message xx

I'm really sorry to hear that you are having a tough time. That sounds awful the way they spoke to you. Would it be possible to have someone with you – a friend or relative – the next time, who could make sure they don't talk in that way?
Big hugs xx

I'm sorry to hear they were so crap Lottie.

Not got many words, but I just wanted to let you know that I care about you very much, you're so strong and kind and lovely. Xxx

Ahhhh, that's really awful of them and as a support worker in disabilities it honestly makes me feel ashamed when I hear crisis teams and such not see the extreme effort it takes to get through each day let alone reach out for help. Perhaps in this, while you might be sensitive when so much is going on they should be understanding of this. Thinking of you Lottie and really hoping you can get some support- you deserve it so much and it's wrong of them not to consider you and the whole picture of what you've said. It should be your choice what you need

Hey honey,

That sounds absolutely awful of them! It's completely unfair for them to have said something like that to you. I think it's perfectly valid for you to have been upset and I don't think it's being too sensitive at all.

Is there anyone else you can speak to about things? Your CC or someone else from your team?

You are so very amazing Lottie and you deserve so much more than feeling like this <3

x x x