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suicidal~lullaby 22-10-2007 03:13 PM

is it?
 
Is it ok to live for someone else? Its just on opinion thread.

I ask this because the main reasin i am living because i have like teo friends one cousin and my bf that would kill themselves if i were to commit suicide. mind you, i dont feel suicidal right now.. but i was just wondering lol. but yah. they are the reasons i have been living do far.

BeautyFiend 22-10-2007 03:17 PM

No one is going to say no to this, because you've just said the only reason you're alive is because of someone else.

gypsyroselee 22-10-2007 03:17 PM

it's probably better to live for yourself...

suicidal~lullaby 22-10-2007 03:18 PM

idk... honestly. i have been told its not good to live for someone else...

gypsyroselee 22-10-2007 03:20 PM

maybe you should concentrate a bit more on making yourself happy then not killing yourself in case someone else does...

suicidal~lullaby 22-10-2007 03:23 PM

well... the problem is i like seeing other people happy. i could care less about being happy. besides... i mean if everyone else is happy around me then it kina rubs off. but there are a lot of things in my past that i am not proud of and dont think i can imporve upon myeslf unless i make up for it right now

Jelly Fairy 22-10-2007 03:30 PM

To be honest, at the moment I feel as though I am living for other people, but I really hope that one day I will be able to live for myself again.

suicidal~lullaby 22-10-2007 03:34 PM

i guess its a good way to start out before you move on to living for yourself....

gypsyroselee 22-10-2007 03:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suicidal~lullaby (Post 334628)
well... the problem is i like seeing other people happy. i could care less about being happy. besides... i mean if everyone else is happy around me then it kina rubs off. but there are a lot of things in my past that i am not proud of and dont think i can imporve upon myeslf unless i make up for it right now

everyone has a past.everyone has regrets & things they're not proud of. have you spoken to anyone about them?

of course you like seeing people you love happy, but equally they want to see you happy.

im in no way suggesting clickyourfingers&everythingwillbegreat but like...

squirrelspit 22-10-2007 10:21 PM

why would it matter if they killed themselves?
you would be dead, you wouldnt know.

Feel_Good_inc. 23-10-2007 02:11 PM

a reason to live is a reason to live.
maybe you'll find other reasons as you go on. but at least you have that reason to actually carry on.


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