Kinda depressed...lonely :(
 

I've been away for a while, but I find, before I get started , this site has stayed the only true friend I've had my entire adult life, so Ty to whomever reads this.

I am 32 and feel so lonely. I only have had horrible relationships and now I'm alone, no friends , no lover. I hate this. It's making me very sad.i feel like I will always be by myself. I want someone to put their arms around me and love me...but I just feel like it will never happen...

Hi I'm Lorraine. Sending hugs your way.:hug::hug::hug:

Hugs Hi, I`m here for you , Yes being lonely sux , What doesnt help either is when people in life dont understand . There is hope . theres some out there for you take care .

*Hugee hugsss* know how you feel i'm pretty lonely and alone at the moment.. I don't have any "real" friends or family (except Mum) always here if you want someone to talk to only a message away!

The world can be a pretty lonely and horrible place boo x

I don't have a lot to offer. But I know how awful loneliness is, as I am currently struggling with it too. *hugs*

*hugs* It sounds like you are going through a lot of difficult things right now. If you need to vent or someone to talk to, I'm here.
-Izzy

Bad relationships can certainly shake your faith in humanity and make it massively difficult to trust others.

How can you reach out IRL to other people? Like Wonderwall suggested, are there clubs or anything near you? Aerobics classes? Choirs? Photography classes? Knitting? Anything like that?

I can certainly sympathize. I am 34 and haven't had a relationship for a logn time - I don't trust people, especially not to talk about my past.
I have come to terms and accept being single for now. I have learned that to be happy in a relationship I have to be happy to be alone first. I have found joy outside of a relationship in the horses I ride and my two dogs - they give me more than any person.
You need to find something beyond people to make you happy.