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eeyore86 14-10-2007 07:44 PM

younger abusers??
 
i just wondered if anyone out there has been sexually abused by someone younger than them??
i was abused by my brother who was 2 years younger than me and i never really got believed because i was older and should have stopped it and taken responsibility, it would really help me if anyone else had experience of a younger abuser.

Devia_Angelus87 14-10-2007 07:49 PM

I once woke up one night at a party and....a guy was doing stuff to me while I was asleep

He assured me that I'd given concent and even like egged him on but...I was asleep...how could I?

He was 2 years younger than me and I kinda never told people about it....it sounds somewhat stupid for a guy to admit he was assaulted sexually

Sorry if this aint much help....but it does happen certainly

If you ever want to talk give me a PM or something

P x

Kallisti 15-10-2007 02:39 AM

I was abused by a boy only a year older than me when I was 7 (and for a few years afterwards).

I totally went along with it, because I thought it was okay.

Yep.
You're not alone at all.

Day Tripper 15-10-2007 04:01 AM

I'm sure it happens.

My person wasn't younger but she was only two years older than I was. I was seven and she was nine.

Victim+Of+Hate 15-10-2007 06:11 PM

one was 5 years older
and one was a year younger..
people don't tend to believe you as much if you abuser is younger true :(

Psychedelic Doodle Pop 15-10-2007 08:58 PM

I wasn't abused per sae, but I was bullied by people younger than me at one point, which was very embarassing and humiliating and it does make you feel stupid, but that's not how it is in real life (that yo're stupid I mean), that's one of the horrible tricks they use to get at you and it's not true.

I hope people start to take you seriously.

Love Roby

ghosts in the machine 18-10-2007 09:43 PM

When I was about 6 I was "bullied" by kids 2 /3 years below me in school, and it was so embarrassing standing in front of this reception class with the teacher talkign to the kids.

And the guy who r*ped me is a few months younger than me. You're not alone in it.

Take care of you sweetie xxx


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