thinking about going to the police .......:/
 

hi...so i have been thinking about going to the police about what has happend ,i thought about telling my worker and asking for her support with it and going through it ....but ....im scared to ...i really want to go and tell them so that he doesnt do it to someone else but i dont know what to say ? will i feel even worse ?is this my fault?am i making a mistake in going to them ?
sooo...i was raped and i know who it was ...but if i tell someone i dont want to make things worse or anything ,what if they dont belive me?....what if they think im stupid ?.....im scared i just dont know how to get through this ....
someone help me please ?
any ideas on how to make it easier or anything
sorry if this dont make any sence:crying:
could use a little support or an hug please

Tell your worker and the situation and ask her if she thinks you have a good case. If she does then I'm sure you could be helped telling the police and with the case. I think you're being really brave even thinking about that and you should be congratulated for that. *hugs* It's not your fault, and I'm sure your worker will believe you. Just tell her what happened. Maybe write it down first and give it to her because it's often easier to do than say verbally. Good luck.

I think you're very brave to even consider voicing what happened just to prevent it from happening to someone else.. That's incredibly selfless and just amazing... <3

I think you should tell someone. It truly doesn't make you a bad person at all, if anything it makes you a true hero. To prevent something so awful from happening again is heroic and brave...

Thanks a lot guys , I guess I'm just scared of what will happen if I tell them and all that xx

thankyou annie *hugs* xxxx

I think she meant "selfless". *hugs*

oh i wondered about that :/ thanks

I definitelyyyy meant selfLESS. <3 I'm going to go up and edit my original post. <3

thanks alot healingangel ....today is a pretty bad day :'(

So when I see my worker next week I am going to try and tell her I feel like if I don't tell her or anyone and if something happens to someone else it's my fault :(
I'm just really scared to tell her
Don't no how to tell her
I don't even no what to say to start of the meeting ;(

:( ....

Just wanted to remind you that whatever you decide is upto you... I hope that you find the courage to speak to your worker and that she supports you in whatever decision you make! You're being very brave, it might not be easy, and might cause more hurt at first having to talk about things that happened, but hopefully the end result will help with healing? No matter what you decide, you know what happened was the truth and that's what's important. You're certainly not stupid, and cannot control the persons actions, therefore it wasn't your fault.

I really hope things work out for you, fingers crossed!

thanks alot for commenting means alot and thanks for saying im brave ,i really dont feel like it right now