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It's just me... 21-05-2012 11:23 PM

saying goodbye
 
Thought I'd say goodbye to everyone, and every one stay stong and keep there heads high you can pull though anything just keep your head up and keep smiling bye everyone x

squirrelspit 22-05-2012 12:22 AM

You leaving RYL or planning to off yourself?

Pi.R^2 22-05-2012 12:24 AM

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Originally Posted by squirrelspit (Post 3231983)
You leaving RYL or planning to off yourself?

couldn't of put it better myself.

OP, if you are leaving RYL, you might want to phrase your post a little more clearly. I was on the verge of reporting your post because it seemed like a suicide note :-/

Steel Maiden 22-05-2012 06:49 AM

The OP joined in February. Worrying that s/he is leaving so quick.

Steel Maiden 22-05-2012 07:05 AM

The OP's posts in other forums are worrying. I hope the OP is not planning a suicide attempt. I am not sure what to say or do now except that it's worrying.

Soviette 22-05-2012 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Steel Maiden (Post 3232138)
The OP's posts in other forums are worrying. I hope the OP is not planning a suicide attempt. I am not sure what to say or do now except that it's worrying.

Yeah, I agree with this ....

Vanished-point 22-05-2012 08:14 AM

Goodbye.

Stay strong as well.

Synthetisk 22-05-2012 02:25 PM

OP, can you please be clearer? Are you leaving or is it...?

snowflake 22-05-2012 03:39 PM

... this sounds like a suicide note
I'm really hoping it isn't

FabulousMike 22-05-2012 04:09 PM

I want to say goodbye but i'm not totally sure if I should...

Louise 22-05-2012 07:06 PM

agrees with above.

Buttons. 22-05-2012 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Steel Maiden (Post 3232135)
The OP joined in February. Worrying that s/he is leaving so quick.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steel Maiden (Post 3232138)
The OP's posts in other forums are worrying. I hope the OP is not planning a suicide attempt. I am not sure what to say or do now except that it's worrying.

Oli having seen this type of post one heck of a lot of times (if it is intended in to imply suicidal feelings or whatever, not simply leaving ryl) generally I have found that if people post this sort of thread, they are not actually suicidal, they just really want/crave/need the attention this sort of claim produces. This is not necessarily wrong in and of itself, when people are in deep distress they resort to all sorts of methods to gain the attention/care/validation they feel they need, HOWEVER using manipulation techniques such as this is a bad coping mechanism which causes other people to be hurt and worry, so these people need help to find other, more constructive mechanisms. In the meantime I wouldn't worry too much. If this is a suicide type thread, the person is reaching out for help, albeit badly, which says to me they aren't seriously wanting to die, just wanting help with a lot of emotional pain and asking in the wrong way.

Original poster if just leaving RYL good luck with everything and all the best. If this is a 'suicide note' type post maybe think about why you felt the need to post it and maybe think of more constructive ways to ask for help?

Steel Maiden 22-05-2012 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Buttons. (Post 3232573)
Oli having seen this type of post one heck of a lot of times (if it is intended in to imply suicidal feelings or whatever, not simply leaving ryl) generally I have found that if people post this sort of thread, they are not actually suicidal, they just really want/crave/need the attention this sort of claim produces. This is not necessarily wrong in and of itself, when people are in deep distress they resort to all sorts of methods to gain the attention/care/validation they feel they need, HOWEVER using manipulation techniques such as this is a bad coping mechanism which causes other people to be hurt and worry, so these people need help to find other, more constructive mechanisms. In the meantime I wouldn't worry too much. If this is a suicide type thread, the person is reaching out for help, albeit badly, which says to me they aren't seriously wanting to die, just wanting help with a lot of emotional pain and asking in the wrong way.

Sorry, I didn't know. I took it literally. Thanks.

Leo Pard 24-05-2012 12:41 AM

Why in general though?

Fry 24-05-2012 06:29 AM

Good luck

Cacoethes 24-05-2012 05:30 PM

i hate to sound stalkerish, but the OP has visited the site yesterday and the day before that (i noticed)

so i hope he/she will be able to come back and be a bit clearer rather than people worrying about them.

OP, if you have just left RYL, good luck.

otherwise, please talk to someone

Ze Muffin Queen 24-05-2012 06:06 PM

Good luck... I really hope this isn't a suicide note...

Buttons. 24-05-2012 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Steel Maiden (Post 3232618)
Sorry, I didn't know. I took it literally. Thanks.

No problem, it is completely understandable that you did, many people autistic or not would. Please do note though that I am not saying this person is or isn't genuinely suicidal but my instinct given this thread is that they are really craving attention rather than wanting to die.

It's just me... 25-05-2012 01:32 AM

To stop all you lot arguuing and shiz no I'm leaving the site and no its not the fact I'm killing myself I'm getting off this site because to many people say the wrong things and do the wrong things on here trust no one because one day they will turn it back on you or tell people what you've been saying... Not mentioning anyone... Its ment to be a site when people help each other but no they don't help you they just push you even more don't they... So I'm off this site... Ill rather be on my own again... I don't need anyone or anything ill just got back to being the way I was before... So yeah that's why I said bye so yeah bye keep your chin up nothings all as bad as it seams...

<(O_O<) (>O_O)> 25-05-2012 02:34 AM

...so am i the only one who -DIDN'T- get a suicide note vibe from the op? thanks for the clarification though, and goodbye. keep strong~


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