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22-05-2012 07:12 PM |
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Originally Posted by Steel Maiden
(Post 3232135)
The OP joined in February. Worrying that s/he is leaving so quick.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Steel Maiden
(Post 3232138)
The OP's posts in other forums are worrying. I hope the OP is not planning a suicide attempt. I am not sure what to say or do now except that it's worrying.
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Oli having seen this type of post one heck of a lot of times (if it is intended in to imply suicidal feelings or whatever, not simply leaving ryl) generally I have found that if people post this sort of thread, they are not actually suicidal, they just really want/crave/need the attention this sort of claim produces. This is not necessarily wrong in and of itself, when people are in deep distress they resort to all sorts of methods to gain the attention/care/validation they feel they need, HOWEVER using manipulation techniques such as this is a bad coping mechanism which causes other people to be hurt and worry, so these people need help to find other, more constructive mechanisms. In the meantime I wouldn't worry too much. If this is a suicide type thread, the person is reaching out for help, albeit badly, which says to me they aren't seriously wanting to die, just wanting help with a lot of emotional pain and asking in the wrong way.
Original poster if just leaving RYL good luck with everything and all the best. If this is a 'suicide note' type post maybe think about why you felt the need to post it and maybe think of more constructive ways to ask for help?
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