? so embarssing please dont laught ........
 

oh as i said this i s highly embarissing it hshappened a few times in a few months but was commen when i was younger as it was commen when we were all little but im 18 now nearly 19 it shouldnt be happening


i mean could it be todo with beeing dignosed with anorexia?
i do take laxatives abuse them is it because of them ? i havent took them for 2days as i had a 2day break from them?

i always make sure i dont have drinks before bed , i always go toliet before bed to try and prevent this from happening .............im so ashamed

im too embarrssed to see the dr
as my notes arent 100%confidential because my dr speaks to my other workers and she is actually allowed to share some ,


i dont know what todo , what the cause is can anyone relate to this or exprienced in this or anyne who can just help or have some sorta support please

i do exercise to try and keep my muscles stronger arounda that area also

I would guess it is to do with your anorexia, even though you do exercises the anorexia will cause your muscles to waste and become weaker.

I hope you can see your doctor about it, there's no reason to think she would share the information with anyone unless she needed some advice on how best to help you.

One thing that might really help is drinking a litre of water before lunch time. I went to the doctors and thats what they told me to do. It actully worked. It's supposed to strech the bladder or something. Also try making sure you are warm enough at night, if you get cold during your sleep it's more likly to happen. I know it can seem really embarrasing, but it's more common than you think. Your doctor can also percribe medicine that you take at night which stops it happerning.

I used to wet myself in my early 20's. The hospital diagnosed an overactive bladder - a bladder that went into involuntary spasms at any time. They gave me tablets for it and provided I take them I don't wet myself.

I'm trying to say not to feel too embarrassed, these things happen sometimes and you really need to get your bladder problem investigated so that the doctors can find out whats wrong and treat you. Its less embarassing to see the doctor than to wet yourself, honest.

Hope you go to the doc. Wetting yourself as an adult has a reason behind it.

Good luck.

Oh don't know if this is any good information but I rember waking up early hours of the morning well half awake violently shaking and ended up going back to sleep , I wasn't fully awake thou and woke up to a wet bed, ..........,.,,,,.... I know but it's so embarrsing I didn't think it was that commen in adults I'm glad I don't feel so alone ......thank u for ur advice guys means a lot thank u for sharing ........ and I will take into account what u said just very ashamed which i guess is normal

Also forgot to say that anorexia can do it too due to your muscles wasting away. The solution? Gain weight and start eating more. Tough but true.

Okay I understand that but gaining weight is a no no ATM thank u for ur advice, jw was my above post information any indication to y .? Or maybe anything todo with it

okey. fair do's. I couldn't put weight on either so I couldn't be a hypocrite and lecture you. just gave you the facts thats all :)

I just wanted to say that I would suggest going to a doctor about this. The GPs are used to this kind of thing especially in women (and yes, it's not that uncommon for women to wet the bed occasionally, though it isn't the norm) and also, only the notes that are relevant to your worker will go to them, not them all as they aren't allowed to do that as there has to remain as much confidentiality as possible so in the vast majority of cases if you are above 16 then your notes can only be given out with your signed permission and that is only for notes about SPECIFIC things so I don't know what your worker is for but if they're not for a physical health problem where you need support for things and this would directly relate to it then they would not be able to give the information out to them. They can select when they print notes out the ones that get sent and ones that don't and often GPs just send info out in the form of a letter with just the main general info they need rather than something which contains possibly quite a few random things.

This could be a couple of things. Sometimes dreams, particularly night terrors or bad nightmares can cause this after. The fact you woke up in the way that you did may suggest this and as you were in a state then it may potentially be possible that you didn't notice or that it happened when you went to sleep or you had similar happen again.

If you've got any history of epilepsy then this can cause you to wet yourself in bed. If you jus have them in your sleep (or it may be that you've only had a couple) then it may be you don't know and as well fits can just affect certain areas of the body not the full blown tonic clonic (AKA grand mal) seizures most people think when people are on the floor shaking and unconscious, so that is something else so it could be no-one else including your partner has noticed.

However, I think it is more likely to be one of the more usual causes such as your bladder muscles being too active and not being able to hold in enough urine before you pass it, or the bladder itself being relaxed but also there is a problem with the muscles where it meets your urethra (the tube that goes from your bladder to the outside) that squashes them to stop urine coming out. If these are relaxed they won't function as well and so you can leak urine or wet the bed and even if you're not incontinent at all during the day then these can manifest themselves more at night. The same thing can occur where the nerves to these muscles, or the types of signal they are getting, make the muscles act in the ways I've said above and so may occur more at night when you're unable to stop it consciously. For problems such as these then meds can be helpful or other things such as managing when you drink etc but it depends how bad it is. More serious cases often require more tests and maybe more things to be done which I won't go in to here as it doesn't sound like one of those by what you've written and it could cause more problems/ worry me mentioning them.

Also, definitely a main cause is a womens pelvic floor muscles (those that allow you to stop weeing half way through) are not strong enough. This can definitely be a cause in someone who is restricting heavily and are not getting the nutrients they need as the muscles will weaken as the body will break these down to get the energy the body needs to survive. There also other reasons for these being weak and they also often weaken as you ag or if you've had a child. A doctor may be able to help you further with exercises for these (sometimes they may even advise you to buy certain products to help to strengthen them) or refer you to a special physio to help work on the muscles around that area.

okay thank u for all the information im very greatful

hmm..ive had similar expierences in the past few mnths gone when asleep
i have only ever once when awake had like a fit apperently i collapsed at a work due and started shaking and my eyes rolled back but it hasnt happened again since so r found no need to investigate it any further .......

hmm......im sure its more likely to be somethink simple
guess im to embarssed to tel a dr i knw i shouldnt but i cant help feeling this way eeek

i have dr today for somethink eles debetting weather to say or not
and how to

Okay so I faced the music I thought to myself if I tell the dr I have a treat tomorrow as I'm going Thorpe park, anyways so I told the dr she was understanding and she said I will refer you to the hospital so I have to wait for a letter or call as my dr wants me to have more tests done to check if I have epilepsy , if it only occurs when I sleep I will have to stay over night to check brain activity with these weirs on ur head with sticky bad , as it's only occurring every once in awhile.....so just got to wait to hear from the hospital

Yeh, just to mention, if you have anything else that seems like it may be a fit or similar then you need to get checked out by a doctor straight away.

Sometimes if you are referred to the hospital for epilepsy then they will do a sleep study where you stay in there all night with wires attached to your head, other times they tell you not to sleep at all the night before and then you get there with the aim of falling asleep whilst you're there.

Hopefully though it's not that but it is something that as you've shown potential signs of before you need to have it at the back of your mind. I personally am epileptic though I've not had a fit for over 3yrs (however I am still on medication and will be going into the future) and I know when I first had proper fits it was hard but then you learn to cope with it and then it just becomes something that, as long as you're not having fits really often, you learn to cope with. But yep, there's more likely causes.
Glad you managed to see your doctor about it and hope the referral goes well.

are you on any regular medication?

i used to do this when i was on meds, my doctor prescribed me some sort of nasal spray, worked absolute wonders.

This might sound stupid, especially since you've seen the doctor already but sometimes urinary tract infections can cause you to wet the bed at night. If you were shaking it could also be because of an infection, especially if you've felt unwell and had a temperature at all. Did your GP get you to give them a urine sample at all?

Just got to wait for hospital referral the one medication I have is a blue and brown inhalers........ Oh rem nope I haven't felt at all unwell , it could be that or more natural cause don't know yet ......
But I do get really bad headaches some days/night apart from that been fine
No my gp didn't ask for a urine test...... She just asked me a few things about what happens or happened.......also if my tongue was sometimes tingly in the morning I said sometimes but I thought that was due to how much I smoke .....animal thank u for all that veery useful information thank you xxx

can u have a fit and ot now about it like when u go sleep

because i dont know if i had another one not tonight last night
i had a weird dream i dunno if i was half awake this time or not
but i thought i dreamt i had several fits and in the morning i felt s weak, tierd weird
...................................?


i mean unlike last time i kinda knew i was violently shaking


still waiting on the referall to hospitial
t0 get test done just to check if i have epliepsy just to be on the safe side

i only get weird styff happen to me few time in past month or once evey few months or not at all for ages ??????????????

Yes you definitely can have fits in the night and not know. Just because you had a dream where you had one and woke up tired doesn't mean you did. That may have been because you were thinking about it and if you have a disturbed sleep for several reasons then you often wake up feling tired. If you had a tonic-clonic (grand-mal) seizure you'd often have a cut or several on your tongue (or cheeks) though not always and you could wake up/ come around totally fine or you could be pretty ill with a total loss short term memory and such. But yeah, I'd try not to worry about that. It was only what you said about in the day that really made me hone in on seizuring more.

If you think you are having fits and your doctor also thinks you may be having them, even if it's just when you're asleep, you shouldn't drive (if this applies) since the last time of your definite one which it sounds like you had one once when you're awake and you actually lose a driving licence for a yr. The rules are different if you just show a pattern where you ONLY have them when you're asleep but yeh, in the meantime whilst you're being investigated I would strongly urge you to not drive and if you have got a license I would speak to your GP about the time when you were awake to see if they feel it was one and if so then really you definitely shouldn't. I know that's pretty crap (well worse than that) as I personally have epilepsy and ended up losing my driving license for 17months due to it which had a huge knock-on affect but it is to make sure you don't have one when driving to keep yourselves and others safe.

no of course im not saying i had another one , and jw if u could have them and be none the wiser the next morning
the next morning i just felt awful achey everwere ect.........
and thank you for that information hun also hvent learnt to drive yet so im okay with that xxxxxx

i also got told by the dr your tongue can be tingly like fuzzy after one not always i have had that but though na its nothink its due to smoking plus i
got bad habits of just generally biting my cheeck(gums)




thank u for taking the time to reply very greatful

go see ya gp