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LittleVampp 28-08-2007 11:53 PM

Why Do Peopl Like Making Other People Feel Bad :( *Possible Trigger Of Everything*
 
OMFG I cant believe how people find it funny to rip the piss out of me and others.... Im having a bad time as it is I dont need them calling me names aswell...... I was walking to my mums today and this boy that dont like me called me a "Fat Bitch" I am not happy with the way I am I dont need then helping me to die..... Ive been cutting since I got home from my mums and I haven't really even stopped to write this.... I hate this world.... I hate me.... I hate the way I am..... Why does everyone have to pick on me.... Even the people I have told about my SI are giving me a ****ing hard time.... They are calling me names and things like that.... This all sound pathice but it the way I feel.... I feel like everyone is against me...... I world just want to turn its back on me and leave me to die.... Well I wish it would get a move on.... And stop giving me hope ever know and then...... One min I think everything is getting better then the next it gets worse..... WHY CANT IT STOP!!!!

guiltyinnocence 29-08-2007 12:07 AM

*hugs*
it doesnt sound pathetic
some people are just insensitive pricks
im here if you need me
xxxx

LittleVampp 29-08-2007 12:30 AM

Thank *Starts to Cry* Ive been very very stupid Im soo sortry

roxanne 29-08-2007 12:57 AM

sorry doll! well, you can't really control what total strangers say to you. all you can do is try to ignore them and not let them get to you. i know, this is hard. if your friends and family contributing to the problem, i would be direct with them about how it makes you feel. hopefully, they will stop it once they realize that it hurts your feelings. be brave. it will get better. don't give up.

btw, you not stupid. you are a person with hurt feelings. don't be hard on yourself. you didn't do anything wrong.

.ghost. 29-08-2007 04:44 PM

I can't add to what roxanne said, I think she's given some very good advice on how to deal with people, I just wanted to say that I'm sorry you have to put up with this and offer some *hugs*

You're better than they are hun, don't let them get to you.
xx

mclaren 29-08-2007 06:55 PM

If i were to have acted on everything ive heard - i'd be dead about 150 times.

Best way to work this, as siad is not to let htem get to you. Hard i know - ive been there, and i kno whow hard it is, but the thing you must learn is not to let it get to you.

Just think, if they call you a fat bitch - that atleast you can do something about your weight - they cant do anything about their life.... it must be Soooooo empty if they have to say nasty things to people like fat bitch.

They are just losers, you're a winner :)

BrokenHeartsNeverDie 02-09-2007 08:34 PM

I know EXACTLY how it feels to be shouted at in the street. it is not the nicest thing at all.
ive learnt not to let them get to you. They have no life.
I also agree with everything that everyone else said.
You can talk to me if you need anything =]
X

LittleVampp 03-09-2007 02:08 PM

I dont do anythin gto them when they say something I just walk past or say nothing..... Am I doing wrong???

Raindrop 04-09-2007 12:29 AM

I'm SO sorry that this is happening to you!! Some people are just so ignorant and stupid and they really just don't care. But not everyone is like that... MOST people actually have a heart!! *HUGS* It is good that you are ignoring tham. They don't know anything so just don't listen to them. You deserve to be loved!! If you ever need to talk, feel free to PM me.
Love you,
Courtney


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