Support For Dave (bleedingdragon)
 

Hi guys, technically I'm not a Vet buut....

You may have noticed our favourite dragon, Dave, hasn't been posting so much recently, this is because he's having a real hard time, as you may have noticed from his (amazing) computer art thread in creative, and it'd be great if we could all show him some love and support so he knows he's not alone in this, and that we're all behind him.


Dave honey, I wish I could be of more help to you, you're an amazing friend who's always been there for me, and offered great advice. I know you can beat this, keep battling on, we're all right here behind you. You'll make it, just try and stay strong. *Big hugs*

Lotsa love, xxxx

Hey Dave,
I send lots of hugs to you. We miss you. Take care of yourself.
Miriam xxx

*hugs for Dave*
Take care of yourself hun.
Much love and more hugs.
xxxx
Alyssa

Hi Dave,
*hugs*
Thinking of you, take care.
Siobhán Xx

Dave sweetie sending you *massive hugs* I know you are struggling right now and I know its so very hard to see past all the pain you are feeling but know that you are a survivor and will win this battle you are fighting. Don't lose hope and Don't give up we are all here to support you.

will look for you later on IM if you want to talk.
huggies

BUMPETH

i too have missed you, *big hugs* mand x

dave rocks

Dave-i'm here if you ever need to chat hun.x

*hugs*

Dave how are you doing????? worried about ya hun sent ya a pm and IM'd ya please let me know how you are

I'm here always if you need me
huggies

*snuggles you*
been missing you around Dave.
please stay safe.
will be thinking of you.
much love.
xx

Dave .... Sorry that I havent been in touch with you recently, but I'm taking a bit of a break from RYL right now. But seeing this thread made me want to come back so I could post some words of support for you in this thread.

I'm very sorry to hear that you are struggling, and that things are bad in your world right now. You spend so much of your time supporting and caring for the other members here at RYL, but I rarely see you reaching out for help for yourself .... so I'm glad that you've got a friend in Amy and that she made this support thread just for you - coz you really do DESERVE some help and support for yourself Dave!

You are a wonderful friend to so many people here .... so its very sad to hear that such a caring person like yourself is struggling to try to keep his head above water right now. But its good for other people to have the opportunuity to give back all of that care, support and friendship that you've been giving selflessly to so many people here at RYL ..... its your turn to sit back and be on the receiving end of some support for a change, so we can hold your hand and help you through this very rough time in your life.

Please dont give up fighting or give up hope that things will be better for you soon. I know its difficult to see any light at the end of the tunnel when you are caught up in depression, hopelessness, and having painful memories of traumatic events from the past. Its tough ... believe me I know .... but you are tough too! You survived those awful times from the past, and you can also survive these moments in the present that also try to drag you down and give you grief.

Dont let those bullies win! Inside of you Dave, there is a part of you that is untouched by past traumas ... and this part will help you to survive and triumph in the long run, despite these difficult dark moments that you expereicne now. And each time you manage to cope and survive these difficult feelings, you will get stronger and stronger .... so much stronger than ANY of the bullies that you've ever faced!

I know that it doesnt feel like it right now, but you are a strong person Dave, and you can get through this rough time. You've managed to survive some really awful moments in the past, and also the resulting depression and trauma ..... and not only have you survived, but you've gone on to help others in similar situations! You've not let these past events or your depression beat you, but you've continue to fight it with all of your strength ... and that makes you a much stronger person than all of the bullies in the world!

Unfortuntely though, these tough moments in your life are all a part of the healing process .... some days it will be worse than others, but Dave ... you MUST hang on! Dont ever give up fighting! Right now you might need to lean on your friends a little more than usual, but hun - that's totally okay! How many times have you been there for other people? Well - now its time to let your friends be there for YOU! We all have times where we need just a little more help from our friends, and at RYL, we can all stick together and help each other get through these bad times ..... coz together we can be strong.

Take care Dave ..... you are such a caring, sensitive person who doesnt deserve this pain. Please let us help you. xxx

Take care, Dave =)
*massive hugs*

bumps for Dave.....

Hey hun thinking about you hope you are ok...will look for you on messenger soon.

lots of hugs

xxxooo

Me again, we're all here for ya dave, have been lookin out for you on MSN and RYL but I understand that you've been hiding. Let us know you're okay somehow. We're all here for you.

Lotsa Lovexxx

*snuggles and hugs*

take care hun
Cindy

Hey, sorry you're having a tough time Dave. Hope to see you around again.

I'm not around much anymore, for various reasons. But you were one of the members that made me feel comfortable here.

You are a wonderful person. Anything you need, just ask.

Hello my friends
i just wanted to quickly post a reply
im gonna read through your replies
im overwelmed by your wonderfull support for me
im so sorry ive not been here to reply to your replies ifeel bad for that
i will try and reply to everyone

ive been in a horrible place and this is the first chance ive felt ok to be on ryl again.
im so sorry for worrying everyone i would never want to do thaat

ive got to survive 4 months before i see a psychologist without support, other than everyones amazing support here of course
you all mean so much to me
youve all helped me hang in there, words cannot describe my thanks