Please show Tamobhuuta how much we care - shes feeling really unsafe
 

i have been talking to Tamobhuuta tonight.

And eventually she has bravely and courageously told me she has quite a serious suicide method planned for tomorrow which she has thought of for a while but now is determined she will carry out this time.

i wont go into details.

Being the caring person she is she has also been talking about how she wants to say goodbye to some people not least on RYL [though she knows the rules which is why she hasnt] and im very concerned about this.Also where she has responsibilities she feels she should let people know 'she wont be around'.

i think it shows just how desperate she feels that she is thinking and feeling the need to do such things and im worried it means she will act on her thoughts.

She has been a really ace friend to me as im sure she has also to many of us here.

She says nobody would miss her but i know we all would.

Please can we all try and give her some support to try and keep her safe and reduce the possibility she will do this tomorrow.

Tamobhuuta - i am very worried about you and care for you a lot.You have been there for me and now i want to be there for you too.Please dont do this.i am so worried for you.im selfish but i dont want to lose you and think your a great person.

Thanks everyone.

xx xx

OMG HUNNI I LOVE YOU and would miss you LOADS
i hope things get better
please dont do anything
your wonderful kind and caring and always supporting others
losing you would be devastating xx *holds safe*

Hi, I am new to the site but even so I am thinking about you and hoping that you are safe and that you will be given the strength to carry on--

Please find someone to talk to and get support, go to hospital and ask to see the on call phycologist, or talk to us.

Hey - I see you around a lot and I would miss you if anything were to happen so I can imagine how much that must apply to the people you're close to. I can understand feeling that suicide is the only way out but please please don't ever feel like you wouldn't be missed, because it would affect so many people.

Without knowing what's going on for you I don't really know what to say other than please reach out for help. I know you must be feeling incredibly desperate but people can help and there is nothing that can't be sorted or made easier to deal with. Try to let someone there know how bad you're feeling, go to A&E if you have to, whatever it takes.

I really hope that you're alright and stay safe. I'm around if you need someone to talk to or anything.

Sleepless, I hope you're okay too.

sweetie you have been so amazing to me as of late and I'd hate for you to be fighting alone

look at those who have already posted
look at me

you mean so much to so many and we are all here for you no matter what

thinking of you and love you heaps xx

Mim, sweetie, I am sorry to hear you are feeling so desparate right now. I am glad Kath has made this thread - as I think you need to hear how much people care about you here, and how much we hope you are able to reach out for help.

I know you spend a lot of time supporting people here. I have never seen you have a thread of your own though. I hope you are able to use this one. Please, do let us know what is going on for you - as we want to help you.

Can you contact any of your care team? or go to a&e to seek help there? It sounds like you are feeling very desparate, and that is the time to speak to these people. A&E would much rather you speak to the duty psych before you carry out any plans - So, please do so. For us, if not for yourself.

*safe cuddles*
If there is anything you feel you cant say here on a thread, my PM box is always open for you.

Thinking of you, and sending my love your way.

Roiben x

*****

*cuddles*

Miriam, I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling so bad right now. It sounds as if things must have completely come to a head for you to have a planned suicide method and to be considering things so seriously. Is it anything to do with results/university, as well as other issues occurring?

You can always PM or text me. I don't mind listening to you. You've been so amazing to me, I always feel I should give you lots and lots back.

I think that if you are considering killing yourself then you do need support. You deserve it, even if you disagree with me. Yes, sometimes talking does make things more complicated (a lot of the time, actually) but isn't it better having those complications out of your mind instead of bottled up, torturing it?

Take care. Here if you need to talk.

Mim, we care about you. So, so much.

You do need help. No one should have to feel like this. No one should have to have these thoughts. Least of all a person so wonderful and caring as you.

Take care of yourself, think about the consequences of any actions. x

hiya, you have been so kind and helpful to me! you are really an amazing person! you need to look after yourself aswell!!!

take care if you ever need to talk just pm me!
xxx

We've never really spoken before but I have noticed you leaving hugs on my rant thread and they never went unnoticed. I've also seen you about to say hello on chat before and I've thought you were a lovely person, seen you trying to give helpful advice to others - so please try let people do the same for you now in return. You deserve the support and you are not alone

Take care xxx

Im new but I care. I hate to think that you're feeling that hopeless. If you can't think of yourself, think of all the people who you've helped & how they'd feel without you.

Please try to stay safe. Lots of hugs for you

I know that we have never spoke but I have seen you around and I know you have left hugs for me on my threads and like already said they have never gone unnoticed.

I see that you are a wonderful caring warm kind person and I would hate for anything to happen to you and I am sorry that you are feeling so bad right now.

Use us all here if you need to you are loved and cared for so much. Even if you don't talk just to sit with us or sit with someone.

Take care xx

Please talk to someone. Someone you trust. Do you have any support at all? I don't know you that well but I've seen you help a lot of people. You are the one replying to my posts most of the time. I care about you. Please don't do this!

*****

Please don't go through with yoru plans Mim, we all love you a lot on here and everyone would miss you. You have been an amazing suppolrt to me lately and I couldn't bear to lose you.
Please get help, however scary it is you need it.

I don't know what to say really. I feel the way you do now. Sorry I've run out of words. Just wanted to say you can PM me anytime. I'll try to support you as much as I can. *hugs*

I am sorry you do not feel you can trust your support team, Mim. Do you think you can explain a little about why that is here?

I do not want to pressure you into talking, if you really do not want to. I do want you to know that we are here for you and we will listen and support any way we can. It is what this forum is for. I am sorry you still feel as though you should not be talking here, or that you somehow do not deserve our messages - I can only think that that is part of your illness talking.

You are an amazing person, Miriam, whether you believe that or not. I see your soul shine through repeatedly on these forums in your replies to other people. I think it is time you received some of that support for yourself.

I know you must be tired of talking things through with some people. Please, though, do not feel as though you shouldn't or that you do not need help - As you do, and you should.

I think the very fact that you are counting down shows that you need support right now. Any way you can find it, be that here, or by going to a&e and braving the services. Or maybe be seeing your GP or a Psych?

I am thinking of you and sending hugs your way.

Roiben x