jeez.
 

People here are kinda bullyish i went into the chat rooms and it was just like being in school...everyone has there lil "cliqe" well thats just depressing im not accepted anywhre i guess

i have notice that aswell it is kinda pathetic really.

if you wanna chat or anything feel free to pm me.

Chat tends to be like that, but there are many people on the forums who are willing to support and listen to you. You can also use live help if you'd like to talk one to one with a supporter. I hope that you find the support that you need and deserve. Please get in touch any time. Take care. xxx

i know what you mean
you are accepted, you're accepted here
pm me if you want =)
xxxx

I find it quite insulting to be called a bully personally. I went out of chat for fifteen minutes to make dinner, and so missed you come in, and so I missed you, which, no offence, tells me you weren't really in long enough to make friends. No one intentionalley ignores anyone and I don't think you've really made much effort. I have been in chat most of today and have constantly seen people new and old being suppotive. Please don't be so quick to judge us, or to call people you don't knwo names.

*shrugs*

Im still fairly new aswell

Yet ive made amazing friends

All you need to do is put yourself out there a bit more

Dont expect everyone to say Hi to you when you come into a room and people have never seen you before.....we all talk to eachother and do other stuff online at the same time

(Also a small tip if it says (Idle) beside a persons name....they arent there)

So yeah....thats my 10 cents worth

I dont mean to be harsh but it does take time to get to know other people and to get a to a point when u are widely known.

I still feel like im not included at times when im in a room with some of the regulars but at least I make an attempt to fit in and because of that my time on chat has been great :-)

When I first started on Ryl it took me bout two months before I felt part of somethin on chat and its the effort thats required. If u put effort into it then u will be accepted and therefore will be included. It just takes time and if someone were to come into chat askin for support they would not get ignored cos there is always someone there willing to help out.

Just felt like sayin that, sorry u had a bad experience but its not all like that.

reward often reflects effort

Just because you had one bad experience with something on here doesn't mean that all the other people are "bullyish". Did they even do anything to you? What makes you say they are bullyish? The first time I ever went into chat, I was welcomed, I said hi, asked how everyone was...and voila. It's really not that difficult.

:) I've been here two years and haven't really made many friends.. But that's because I've allways been quite quiet.

You just have to talk to people here. We're a lovely bunch really.