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Stellata 09-11-2009 09:46 PM

Does anyone here respect me?
 
I'm feeling really insecure here right now, and need to know.

Thank you.

Katie's... Others.

Diamonds. 09-11-2009 09:59 PM

Ofc we do. Your a very helpful and amazing person.
Chin up.
x

Mrs Sam 09-11-2009 10:02 PM

I definitely respect you. I think you're an amazing woman :)

Loves

xxxx

Ami 09-11-2009 10:33 PM

Yep. I think you're great. x

MammaMia 09-11-2009 10:44 PM

I have lots of respect for you too =)

rockaroni 09-11-2009 10:44 PM

You've definately got great respect from me. And whenever I see your posts I feel nothing but confirmation for that. You are brilliant really.

Stellata 10-11-2009 08:45 AM

Thank you so much, it means a lot to me.

When I show vulnerability... and when I feel hurt, and when I try to protect myself... I can get afraid people no longer respect me, because of my past.

shebrolet 10-11-2009 09:00 AM

Now I know I am new here, but I believe absolutely everyone deserves love and respect.
I know I don't know you v. well yet, but I respect for you being you, and for having the tenacity to reach out to people when you really need to.

Take care and I send you loads of squishies.

xxx
Shebby

Heidi Tiger 10-11-2009 11:20 AM

I certainly respect you.
I think it's important to realise that people can be aware of your vulnerability and still have the greatest of respect for you. In some ways it probably commands more respect as to be fragile yet still be so empathic and to give so much support to others shows that you are a very caring person. Your advice and insight into other's situations has always struck me as very helpful and intelligent.

Revival 10-11-2009 11:33 AM

I definately respect you, I think you are intelligent, strong, kind and very courageous

crazykat 10-11-2009 11:39 AM

I Respect you. I think you are an incredibly strong woman who shows a great deal of insight in the support you give to others. *cuddles*

[Awakening] 10-11-2009 02:36 PM

I think you are utterly awe inspiring! I completely respect you. You are an incredible women x x

Stellata 10-11-2009 06:35 PM

Thank you so so much everyone.

I'm sensitive to feeling invalidated more than the 'average' person, and this is much more of a trigger to me than any amount of what others might see as 'triggering'. Does that make sense?

ThinkingofRecovery 10-11-2009 06:50 PM

I respect you and have grown to do so more lately because of your interactions/support of much younger members. Often, these younger members are angry and act out and aren't able to verbalise their feelings and I have seen quite a few examples recently where you have been able to acknowledge their intense feelings yet help them understand why it is they feel like it, what makes them so upset and thereby allowing others to provide support also.

I think you are incredibly wise and insightful hun!
xxx

I.Heart.And 10-11-2009 07:08 PM

I have a lot of respect for you.

Gone. 10-11-2009 08:15 PM

I have a lot of respect for you. I read your advice around the boards and admire the way you always sound so empathetic and are able to see what others are feeling so accurately.

Please don't put yourself down.

startingagain 10-11-2009 11:35 PM

I really value your opinion and you have always posted lovely, helpful answers.

Stellata 11-11-2009 08:30 AM

Thank you so so much everyone. This really means so so much to me.

Droplet 12-11-2009 02:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by no reason (Post 1978791)
I respect you and have grown to do so more lately because of your interactions/support of much younger members. Often, these younger members are angry and act out and aren't able to verbalise their feelings and I have seen quite a few examples recently where you have been able to acknowledge their intense feelings yet help them understand why it is they feel like it, what makes them so upset and thereby allowing others to provide support also.

Exactly this. I respect you.

Stellata 12-11-2009 09:10 PM

Thank you. :)


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