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hello...im new here...i have bpd...dont have no friends that really undesrtand..well actually i dont even understand myself...i need to find people who cn relate/understand me and my bpd
I do self harm as well...recently i have had horrible thoughts in my head of my family dying and silly little things...i just cant cope....please get in touch if ya think u can help or support me...thanks xx:eyeroll:

Welcome to RYL, i'm sorry that you're finding things difficult. Do you have any support? Have you told anyone about the thoughts you have been having about your family? That sounds distressing, I can relate to that a bit because I worry a lot about bad things happening to my family because I have OCD. I hope you find it helpful here. Please get in touch at any time. Take care.

Hey Hope - yeah I can completely relate to what you are saying. BPD can be quite scary, were you diagnosed by a doctor, and what support/meds they helping you out with?

Self harm is deffo common in those who have bpd, so you ae not on your own here hunni. I can deffo relate to what you are saying too, the BPD thread here is good, it allows you to talk to others who have bpd and get support from them, which is good

Feel free to pm me anytime if you want any support/advice

*hugs* welcome to RYL. you'll find a lot of people here with BPD. and everyone here is really supportive. pm me if you ever wanna talk about anything. i'm sorry you're having those thoughts. i've had them before too and they're really scary.

hey there! welcome to RYL *hugs* sorry to hear you are struggling atm, i just recently got diagnosed with BPD so in a similar situation

as other have said theres a big BPD thread here: http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...ad.php?t=42676

There's a fair few of us here on RYL with BPD so please don't feel like you're alone, cos you're not. We're always here to listen if you need to vent or just ask questions etc.

Wish i could offer advice on the BPD but like i said have only recently been diagnosed so don't know that much myself! Am haiving some problems too in helping friends/family understand it but im sure there are ways

anyway i wont waffle on, just wanted to welcome you to RYL :) feel free to PM me! xx

hey hun and welcome to ryl:)

I also have bpd so your not alone. Feel free to pm if you ever wana chat/need support/advice

hang in there hun and just like you put in your sig... bpd will make you a lot stronger:)

Welcome to ryl :) I have bpd too. You might find the Vets board a good place to look around and post (board for the older members) xx

Heya,
I have BPD aswell. I'm sorry you are having a rough time. I get horrible thoughts about people close to me dying aswell. Earlier i was sure my girlfriend had died and had a panic attack. What are the specific worries you are having?
I hope you find this forum helpful
xx

Just wanted to add there is a specific BPD support thread- http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...ad.php?t=42676 that you might find helpful.
xx

Hi, welcome to RYL!
i am still under examination for my mental issues, i dont even know if i fit any criteria ! but still, you are not alone here as many of the members have BPD, a different mental illness, self harm, or other psyc issues! This is place where you can be yourself:) everybody is so nice and nonjudgemental from all of my experience!
sorry you are going through such a rough time, and i hope things get better for you soon. hope you find the support here that you need! feel free to give me a pm if you ever need to :)
ox

ps if your friends are having trouble understanding bpd, perhaps print off some information, or get a pamphlet from the doctors.. or even write a little note about your own thoughts\experiences\feelings about bpd and that may help them understand you\bpd a bit more! goodluck!

Hey there, welcome to RYL.
I have traits of BPD so may be able to relate if you ever want to PM me about anything.
x