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nicole94 02-01-2011 06:06 PM

Yeah. *Hugs*
How are you?

SoMuchMore 02-01-2011 06:47 PM

*hugs helen, mark, and nicole tightly*

I hate being at home for longer than a few days. I feel awful.

Doikers 02-01-2011 06:55 PM

Me too Laura *Hugs* I guess you mean your parents by Home and not where you stay at uni?

nicole94 02-01-2011 06:59 PM

*Hugs Mark and Laura*
I really wanna SH but I have made a deal with a boy on another forum that we will both try not to cut until our birthdays (His is april 14th, mine is april 16th)

SoMuchMore 02-01-2011 07:03 PM

*hugs mark* yea thats what i mean. my hometown in general - my parents place, the city i am in, just gah! everything... i explained a little more in my r/v. but my mother again, just asked if I wanted to get my scars removed/lessened by laser surgery. I hate when she asks, and she always does eventually. Plus is xmas here again b/c my dad's side is coming over and I just don't want to deal with holiday crap anymore.

Sorry that turned into a vent as well.

*hugs nicole* that would be awesome if you could make it until april 16th!! I know the urges can be almost unbearable, but please try! I think that is a great goal for yourself. Don't let it overwhelm you though, take it days, or even hours at a time if you need to.

Doikers 02-01-2011 07:03 PM

Thats a good deal Nicole :) It's good to have some incentive and to have someone to aim for that goal for with , good luck Nicole :)

nicole94 02-01-2011 07:08 PM

Thanks guys, It's harder because I know he has SI'ed today, so we've agreed that tomorrow is a fresh start, so my mind is trying to convince me to do it now to get rid of the urges, before tomorrow :(

Doikers 02-01-2011 07:09 PM

*Hugs Laura* I read your R/V thread , I'm sorry you're struggling with being at your parents , I hope that your other Christmas go's as stress free as it can possibly be .

Doikers 02-01-2011 07:10 PM

Hmm Hold on if you possibly can Nicole hun , I know it's hard but you can do it :)

xxjuliexx 02-01-2011 07:14 PM

might not be on for like a week we is going away to taupo to do holiday stuff

Doikers 02-01-2011 07:16 PM

*Hugs Amy* Where are you going Amy?

nicole94 02-01-2011 07:17 PM

*Hugs Mark* Thanks hun, i'm trying really hard, I just have really strong urges :(
*Hugs Amy* That sounds nice :) where are you going?

xxjuliexx 02-01-2011 07:17 PM

i gtg now love everyone in the ward coz ur all nice and awesome

Doikers 02-01-2011 07:19 PM

*Spot and Hugs Solo*

nicole94 02-01-2011 07:20 PM

Aww, you're very nice and awesome too Amy :) *hugs* Have fun!

ˈsäləˌterē 02-01-2011 07:24 PM

Thanks Mark! *hugs back*

SoMuchMore 02-01-2011 07:30 PM

*hugs amy* Even though u already left. Have fun on holiday!

*hugs mark* thanks. I hope its not too bad. I don't know. I didnt mean to go on ranty on you and ignore what you were saying earlier though.. I'm sorry that you are feeling triggered as well and that your parents were looking over your shoulder... mine do the same thing, which is why i am only online sporadically right now

*hugs nicole* you can make it! SI-ing today won't help urges that occur in the future, so don't do it so you can get rid of urges for the future. I used to do that all the time, and it never worked :-/

*hugs solo* i dont think i've introduced myself... if i have i'm sorry, there have been more people posting in here and since i can't be on much right now its hard to keep track.. but I'm Laura! How r u?

nicole94 02-01-2011 07:34 PM

*Hugs laura* Sorry I kinda ignored your post, How long until you go back to uni?
And I know it won't help future urges.....i'm just thinking it will get rid of the urges i'm already having so i can go into it without having any urges...Does that make any sense? :/

ˈsäləˌterē 02-01-2011 07:36 PM

Hi Laura, *hugs back* Thanks! I'm havin a hard time too. Sorry I'm not more chipper for our first meetin.

SoMuchMore 02-01-2011 07:42 PM

*hugs nicole* its alright :-) I go back in 11 days. I'm going to try to stay busy though b/c if i don't things are going to get rough for me... I just hate my family's little nitpicking of things and its always loud here.. which sounds stupid i know, but everyone is always yelling about something.

And yes that makes sense, but you know that urges might go away on their own over the course of minutes-hours. I dont think you should SI. The fact that you made this goal in the first place shows how strong you are and how strong you want to be, and if you can go into this beating an urge then I think thats a great starting point! (I hope that none of this sounds condescending, that is truly not my intention, sorry if it has)

*hugs solo* Its alright, i'm not extremely chipper either right now. Sorry that you are having a hard time. Here if you need to talk.

*spies felicia and hugs tight*

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