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Ahimsa 21-04-2025 10:33 PM

Hey all,

Yay for petrol sitch being sorted Beckie!

I'm just home from work (I'm still doing 1 or 2 pub shifts each week on top of actual full time job, luckily as it's bank holiday I've only done the pub tonight, not both jobs)

Ahimsa 22-04-2025 07:01 AM

Good morning everyone! I'm just getting ready for work (I start at 7:30).

Hope everyone has a good day and has some fun things planned!

Cacoethes 22-04-2025 07:47 AM

Morning beth!
Hope you have a decent day at work!

I'm going to see my nanny today :)
Longish drive, about 2 hours, but i love a long drive! And it's definitely worth it!

Elmer 22-04-2025 08:46 AM

Morning :)
I hope work is going OK Beth, and that you have a good time with your nanny Beckie!

I need motivation to get out of bed and do some productive things. Currently have a cat on my feet which is making it even harder :wow:

one_step_closer 22-04-2025 11:04 AM

Morning everyone.

I hope work goes as well as it can, Beth.

I hope you and your Nanny have a nice time together, Beckie.

Have you made it out of bed yet, Lio? It's so hard to do things when cats are around!

not_so_insig 22-04-2025 12:17 PM

Afternoon all. I have had my tesco shopping order receipt. 3 substitutions, 3 unavailable items and 1 short dated item. Unfortunately one of the unavailable items was pretty crucial and I am going to have to reject the short dated item. So yep I am not 100% happy. But all being well I have my doughnuts and milkshake.

Ahimsa 22-04-2025 01:21 PM

Oh no, that's pretty annoying! What were they Insig?

Im just home for lunch, it's been a LONG morning!

not_so_insig 22-04-2025 01:30 PM

One of the unavailable items was gravy which when you plan on having a roast is pretty crucial. So yep. I am off to Morrisons on Thursday so will see if they have any gravy there. Otherwise it's a dry roast for me.

Ahimsa 22-04-2025 01:37 PM

Oh yeah you will definitely need that then!!

not_so_insig 22-04-2025 03:46 PM

The short dated item was blueberries which I rejected and received an email stating that I would be refunded. Trouble is that the tesco man said I could keep them. They were going in muffins anyway so I guess it doesn't matter if they are a bit soft.

The tesco man came nice and early. Put the majority away just got the pop left. Thankfully it doesn't need refrigerating so it doesn't matter so much if I take my time.

Elmer 22-04-2025 04:10 PM

It's always a bit sad when things aren't in stock!

I got out of bed and now there is a cat on my lap while I try to study

I hope you guys are all having good afternoons. I can't believe it's nearly May!

not_so_insig 22-04-2025 04:32 PM

Well done for getting out of bed Lio. Yes I am having a good afternoon. Haven't done much since dealing with my tesco shopping order though. Have a busy week this week so it's nice to have some time to myself.

Cacoethes 22-04-2025 04:57 PM

Hi everyone!
Back from Norwich :)

Hope everyone's day's are going well

Ahimsa 22-04-2025 04:59 PM

Ooh blueberry muffins, yum!

Hey Beckie, did you have a good time?

I'm home from work, so I'm thinking a nap before the quiz. I worked out, I need to do 67 extra hours of work to afford a block of 10 therapy sessions. (well, it'd be 54, but then I get taxed on it so once tax is taken off, I actually need to do 67 to earn enough).

Cacoethes 22-04-2025 05:40 PM

I did thank you :)
It's hard in some ways, my nanny is 84 and not in overly great health. But she keeps positive!

That's insane beth. Honestly the system is so broken

Ahimsa 22-04-2025 05:46 PM

I'm glad you get to see her regularly, even though it's hard.

Yeah the system isn't great, but I've had my NHS 10 sessions, (that took 3 years on a waiting list to get anything, and they said I have to wait 12 months before they'll even refer me to go back on the waiting list - and I've got my court trial in 5 months time. I can't wait another 4 years for any support, to have to start again with someone new).

one_step_closer 22-04-2025 05:50 PM

I hope your busy week goes ok, Dawn.

I hope you get some studying done, Lio.

I'm glad you enjoyed seeing your Nanny, Beckie.

Sorry you're having to do so much to try and get support, Beth.

Cacoethes 22-04-2025 06:11 PM

Thanks guys

Sounds like such a struggle beth
I do admire you for keeping going despite all the hurdles

How are you lindsay?

Cacoethes 23-04-2025 08:24 AM

Morning everyone!
We got up very late, 7:52!
And S missed the bus.
The one time he doesn't get us up early *facepalm*
L must have forgotten to set her alarm.

How is everyone?

Ahimsa 23-04-2025 12:25 PM

Hey Beckie,

Oh how annoying, hope the rest of your morning has gone a bit more to plan?

Cacoethes 23-04-2025 12:33 PM

Hey beth!
It has thanks.
Got all my morning things done, plus some extra bits and a shower. And I made a carrot and walnut cake!

How are you?

Ahimsa 23-04-2025 12:38 PM

Ooh that cake sounds lovely!!

I'm okay, just tired as I'm on 7:30am starts this week. I'm off tomorrow which is good, but I'm only off as I'm working all weekend (you get a day off the week before and after in replacement).

Cacoethes 23-04-2025 12:44 PM

I'm so hoping it will be!
It's cooling atm and then I can put the cream cheese icing on! It smells really good though!

Ugghhh that sounds so grim. What time do you have to get up for work?

Ahimsa 23-04-2025 12:47 PM

On this shift, 6:45am. It's gross in winter as the office has no windows so I don't see daylight until my days off as it's dark when I arrive and leave. At least the later shift is 10:15 start so you get a bit of daylight on the journey there!

When the snow was bad and you couldn't get cars out of the street, and I had to walk - I was setting off walking by 6:30am :/ (I "could" get a bus but there isn't a direct one so I'd have to get one into town (40 mins) and one back out (30 mins) and they're only 1 an hour starting from 6:30am, so I'd be very late!!)

Cacoethes 23-04-2025 12:58 PM

That's awful!
I usually get up at 6:45am but I don't start work until a lot later, so I have processing and doing stuff time!

Inadequate public transport also doesn't help!

one_step_closer 23-04-2025 02:11 PM

Afternoon everyone.

That cake sounds amazing, Beckie! I think carrot cake might be my favourite as long as it doesn't have raisins in it.

That sounds like such a huge task, Beth.

tamobhuuta 23-04-2025 02:11 PM

Afternoon everyone. I dragged myself out of bed after 1.

tamobhuuta 23-04-2025 02:12 PM

Also: ooo cake!

one_step_closer 23-04-2025 02:24 PM

Hi, Tamo. Well done for getting out of bed. I hope you at least slept ok. Do you have anyone visiting today? Maybe they could bring you some cake. :)

not_so_insig 23-04-2025 02:35 PM

Hello all. I have been to the city centre to meet a friend for coffee. I also did a small amount of shopping whilst I was there. Unfortunately my mh isn't so good today so struggled.

Cacoethes 23-04-2025 02:43 PM

The cake was a success!

How are you, lindsay and tamo?

Sorry you're not feeling great dawn

not_so_insig 23-04-2025 02:54 PM

Thanks Beckie.

tamobhuuta 23-04-2025 04:58 PM

L is coming after dinner and she will probably bring me a hot beverage :)

How are you osc?

Sorry you're struggling insig. Well done for doing things.

How's the cake Cacoethes?

Ahimsa 23-04-2025 05:18 PM

Yay on the cake!!

Tamo, what's your hot drink of choice? Also, sorry if I'm being daft, is L a family member or a friend?

one_step_closer 23-04-2025 05:43 PM

I hope your MH improves soon, Dawn.

I need a Beckie in my life to make me cakes!

I hope you have a nice time with L, Tamo.

How has your day been so far, Beth?

Ahimsa 23-04-2025 06:12 PM

Hey OSC, how're you doing?

My day has been long, work is a bit messy atm and so everything is so much more difficult that it needs to be.

How're you?

Cacoethes 23-04-2025 06:31 PM

Hope you have a nice visit tamo

The cake was a success!
L enjoyed it very much.

I'm happy to make anyone cake!
I love baking for people.

one_step_closer 23-04-2025 06:31 PM

Have you finished work for the day? Do you have plans for your day off?

I'm a bit more rubbish mentally and physically today.

one_step_closer 23-04-2025 06:32 PM

Ninja, Beckie!

I'm glad your cake was enjoyed although I'd be more surprised if it was a disaster!

Cacoethes 23-04-2025 07:34 PM

Thanks lindsay!
Tbh, nothing I've baked has ever turned out bad, but i get the anxiety regardless XD

tamobhuuta 23-04-2025 08:28 PM

Osc, I suppose technically L is a family friend but she has lived with us all my life so basically family.

Cacoethes 24-04-2025 08:20 AM

Morning guys

not_so_insig 24-04-2025 11:14 AM

Morning all. I am not going to be around much today as I'm going to the hearing voices group later. Also i am cleaning my flat later on so will be busy. Unfortunately my physical health complaint is playing up today so how long I will last in the hearing voices group is another thing...

tamobhuuta 24-04-2025 11:42 AM

I hope your day goes OK insig

Hi Cacoethes, how are you?

not_so_insig 24-04-2025 12:08 PM

Thanks tamobhuuta

Cacoethes 24-04-2025 01:38 PM

Hope everyone is ok

I am feeling rather ill, which sucks
But still managed to get my morning stuff done, go to asda and go to my psych appointment.

one_step_closer 24-04-2025 01:48 PM

Afternoon everyone.

I hope you have a good day, Dawn.

How are you, Tamo?

I'm sorry you're not feeling well, Beckie. I hope it went ok with your psych.

Cacoethes 24-04-2025 01:52 PM

Hey lindsay
How are you?

Thank you.
It went pretty well. She's leaving though, which sucks

one_step_closer 24-04-2025 02:00 PM

That's a shame. Have you been seeing her for long? I hope whoever replaces her is good. So many MH professionals don't stick around.

I'm maybe a bit better than yesterday in some ways.

Cacoethes 24-04-2025 02:38 PM

I'm not sure how long. Definitely over a year. She's lasted longer than most!

That's positive!


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