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Doikers 11-05-2011 11:46 AM

****, The Job Centre wants me to go to a "Work Focused interview" that wants to get me into word , and I quote ,"At Once" I am not ready to work , *FREAKED OUT* I do Not know what to do , am scared.

one_step_closer 11-05-2011 12:33 PM

I know what you mean, Mark. I'm being forced to look for a job although I don't feel ready. Just be honest with them about how you are feeling. Maybe there is something that they can put in place to make it easier for you to consider work.

Doikers 11-05-2011 12:57 PM

I have called my social worker , she is coming over tomorrow morning to read the letter and call them up
*Hugs Lindsay*

ljmeep 11-05-2011 01:53 PM

*shuffles in still sleepy* This may turn out to be one of those very long days. I woke up to my 5 yr old throwing up this morning, my 3 yr old is home from school b/c the dr. put him on a laxative, and hubby is prolly still going to be sleeping 'till at least noon... *sigh... yawn*

*hugs all* How is everyone?

Doikers 11-05-2011 02:27 PM

*Hugs Kelly*

ljmeep 11-05-2011 02:36 PM

thanks, Mark :) ... *returns hug*

dontwantyoutoknow 11-05-2011 02:52 PM

Hello everyone, not been around lately. Well I have, just not posting. I've read every single word though, I promise.

Mark - please don't panic; I had to have a work-focused interview thingie when I first got my Incapacity Benefit and they make out it's like "go-back-to-work" in the letter, and I was so scared, but it wasn't like that. I had to then go somewhere else for work-focused discussions every month for five months, but they guy was really nice and I wasn't forced to do anything. They just talked about what would I like to do, and helped me set targets for myself.

Lindsay - *hugs* Concerned about you at the moment hon. x

Kelly - *hugs*

Laura (Mute.Scream) - how are you now? It worries me that you have a plan. Can you not talk to your dad about the horse? Or move with him?

Crimson - *hugs* How are you?

BWchick - You are normal; we all are. Normal is different for everyone, and everyone is different!

Unicorn Tears - *hugs*

Oliver - how've you been?

I've been pretty rubbishy lately. Just, want to give up. :crying:

Doikers 11-05-2011 02:57 PM

*Hugs MJ*

tifflehan 11-05-2011 03:34 PM

*hugs for everybody*

one_step_closer 11-05-2011 04:31 PM

Kelly, that sounds a bit stressful. I hope you get some quality time to yourself.

MJ and Tiffany, how are you both?

Doikers 11-05-2011 05:21 PM

*Hugs Tiffany*

*Hugs Lindsay*

one_step_closer 11-05-2011 05:45 PM

What's everyone up to this evening/whatever time it is where you are?

Doikers 11-05-2011 06:55 PM

quiet night in Lindsay , what are you up to?

one_step_closer 11-05-2011 08:23 PM

Same. Just watching some TV and then off to bed.

SoMuchMore 11-05-2011 09:17 PM

*hugs everyone * sorry so many are struggling right now.

For some good news:

I am officially a uni graduate!

symbol5405 11-05-2011 09:39 PM

I checked in....then i dissappeared.......so...i've just been hiding in a corner.....can someone come give me a hug and let me know i'm not being ignored............i know i'm not, but my brain is saying i am........so.........yah....can someone give me a hug???

PoisonedApple 11-05-2011 09:45 PM

*hugs Michelle* no worries... I feel that way too sometimes.

In theory I should close on my house Thursday or Friday... wish me luck guys.

vegemite 11-05-2011 10:17 PM

gentle hi, iodine dressings on bad cuts and anti biotics at the mo, i still work (although they know they situ and am on sick leave) and the adoption sw today who is finally providing help for us said what i put up with is unsustainable, it is very hard when you are on the other side of the world to your family. i cannot go back unless for hols which i am in the summer, i generally only sh through alcohol or pills when my daughter is not around am trying to build up a local support network of friends. last week after an od three weeks before i sliced myself pretty bad, i was too ashamed to go to a and e, strange place to be in, need to go into chat xxx

Antebellum 11-05-2011 10:34 PM

*hugs everyone*

Laura2.0 12-05-2011 12:15 AM

*hugs mark*
*hugs lindsay*
*hugs fallen star laura* congratulations! do you already have plans for the future?
*hugs crimson*
*hugs vegemite* here if you want to talk
*hugs rhi*
*hugs michelle*
*hugs Kelly* how are your kids?
*hugs MJ* I don't want to move with my dad. He is the bad guy in my life. And I want to go to university and don't know where I'm going to move. I just don't want him to move with the horse, because then he's going to abuse the horse (instead of me, but he's already doing that anyway.) It's so complicated.
*hugs tiffany*

only 2 days left at work... that's 16 hours. Then I'm done with that job. Psych appointment on Monday. Then what? What am I supposed to do the whole day till I start uni in October?
Cant get another job, or I wont get money from the government (strange system in germany).

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