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Doikers 31-12-2010 10:33 PM

Edited Thanks to Helen :)

MammaMia 31-12-2010 10:51 PM

1. There is a complete BAN on all numbers.
No numbers that refer to eating disordered behaviour or body size/shape will be allowed. This includes BMI, Weight, Calories, as well as numbers such as amount of purges, binges, laxatives taken, or days fasted.

The number aspect is only a small part of what an eating disorder is, and to move the board into a more positive spectrum of the disorder, we want to take the emphasis off numbers, and on to emotion.

Whilst numbers are no longer allowed, word categories are.
For example:
* "my weight is alot less than what is "average" for my height""
* "my BMI is considered underweight"
* "I ate heaps more than what is recommened for a daily requirement for someone my age, sex, and height"
* "I purged several times today"
* "i took alot more laxatives than what it says on the box/container" "


Sorry Mark, thought I should let you know so you can edit it without mods needing to. I know you don't have an ED, but I believe everyone has to follow this guideline and it's within the main rules aswell I believe x

Doikers 31-12-2010 10:55 PM

Thanks Helen:)

ljmeep 31-12-2010 10:57 PM

Thanks for the heads up, Helen... I don't know about anyone else, but I'm still learning all the rules and there are lots to keep up with :)

PsychoKitty2010 31-12-2010 11:11 PM

Sorry about the random disappearance. The hubby and I had to run to town. But we are back now.

-snuggles mark- I'm sorry to hear that you are depressed. But, you are so not worthless. You are awesome. You have helped me so much in the short amount of time that I have known you. I lubbles you. -snuggles and squishes more-

MammaMia 31-12-2010 11:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doikers (Post 2633540)
Thanks Helen:)

You're welcome :)

Quote:

Originally Posted by ljmeep (Post 2633544)
Thanks for the heads up, Helen... I don't know about anyone else, but I'm still learning all the rules and there are lots to keep up with :)

You're also welcome, it takes time to know them all :) So don't worry too much about it.

Quote:

Originally Posted by PsychoKitty2010 (Post 2633569)
Sorry about the random disappearance. The hubby and I had to run to town. But we are back now.

Yaaay :P

nicole94 31-12-2010 11:16 PM

*Hugs everyone*
I'm home, my family are all still at the pub, but after I broke down crying whilst having a massive panick attack, I gave up and came home with Kirsty (she is my cousin and she has aspergers so also finds crowds hard.)
I just wanna cut now :(

Doikers 31-12-2010 11:17 PM

Hugs ya'll
Night ward mate perhaps the fire works will awake me?

MammaMia 31-12-2010 11:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nicole94 (Post 2633576)
*Hugs everyone*
I'm home, my family are all still at the pub, but after I broke down crying whilst having a massive panick attack, I gave up and came home with Kirsty (she is my cousin and she has aspergers so also finds crowds hard.)
I just wanna cut now :(

*hugs lots and lots* Sorry you cried & had a massive panic attack. Please don't cut Nicole. It's not worth it or worth making yourself feel worse xx

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doikers (Post 2633577)
Hugs ya'll
Night ward mate perhaps the fire works will awake me?

Night Mark, see you in 2011 xxx

ljmeep 31-12-2010 11:23 PM

*hugs Nicole94* sorry hun. I wish I could make it better. :(

nicole94 31-12-2010 11:26 PM

*Hugs Mark* Night hun, Happy new year, speak Next year :P
*Hugs Helen* I can't cut cause Kirsty is here, I suppose thats kinda a good thing, but I still really want to :( What is the point in me being here? I mean, Why put myself through another year of this crap?
*Hugs Kelly* Thanks hun, it makes it better just knowing you're all here for me <3

ljmeep 31-12-2010 11:37 PM

I'm glad.. this place is my saving grace some days too :)

MammaMia 31-12-2010 11:38 PM

Babe I know it feels like it, but it hasn't all been crap & things WILL get better. *hugs Nicole* Glad you can't cut. Also you're an amazing friend & wardie to us all. I'd be devastated if anything happened to you x

PsychoKitty2010 31-12-2010 11:38 PM

-hugs nicole- I'm sorry you are down and had a panic attack and that you want to cut. -offers teddy-

-hugs mark- night night mark. happy new year!

-hugs helen- hehe didn't know I made people that happy around here.

nicole94 31-12-2010 11:43 PM

*Hugs Helen, Kelly and Kitty*
Thanks guys, i'm just finding it hard to think that theres gonna be another year or this.
And also...........................................No I can't say :l

MammaMia 31-12-2010 11:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PsychoKitty2010 (Post 2633598)
-hugs helen- hehe didn't know I made people that happy around here.

*hugs Kitty* You do :)

Quote:

Originally Posted by nicole94 (Post 2633608)
*Hugs Helen, Kelly and Kitty*
Thanks guys, i'm just finding it hard to think that theres gonna be another year or this.
And also...........................................No I can't say :l

*hugs Nicole* You can make it through. The other thing sounds worrying. Feel free to PM it me?

nicole94 31-12-2010 11:52 PM

It's not worrying Helen, just something presonal wich i'm not sure wether or not to say :/ *Hugs*

ljmeep 31-12-2010 11:57 PM

:( sorry ur struggling... *hugs tight*

PsychoKitty2010 31-12-2010 11:57 PM

-snuggles nicole- This next year could be better for you. I hope so anyway. All of us here in the ward love you and would miss you terribly if you were not around.

-snuggles helen- thanks

nicole94 31-12-2010 11:59 PM

*Hugs Kelly and Kitty*
I love you wardies-you know that?


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