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PoisonedApple 05-07-2011 11:17 PM

*hugs Mrs. Pan, Mark, Lia, Laura, Lindsay*

Lia, I wouldn't even know what to say. Aside from feeling like I can't even hold it together I don't even know how I feel right now. Numbing out compared to earlier tho. Trying really hard not to injure.
I do know what caused it though and I hate that it is eating away at me and causing more problems than it's worth.
The following content has been hidden - Reason : the straw that broke the camel's back
Apparently D's friend (and father to my kid's friend) 'just doesn't talk to me because when he does I'm a bitch about it' Yeah well I'm sorry I don't like repeating myself, I'm sorry I don't like being lied to, I'm sorry if you don't think my feelings are valid and I'm sorry I call bullshit when necessary and think you are an arrogant ignorant ass when you tell me I'm wrong when I know I'm right
The following content has been hidden - Reason : related but sidetracked stories on that
-he actually told me there are no wolf spiders in AK when I've seen them and D's mom has been bitten by one; then after several months when D did research on the net and showed him they are up here he apologized to D not to me... but then he takes it personally that I referred to him poorly and he says I just think of him as a "know it all asshole"... well if the shoe fits.
He thinks that people who are trans aren't. He thinks it's all in their head and compared it to a person with agoraphobia. Figures they just need to know its all in their head and work on it so that it doesn't affect them anymore.
I have a ton of things that could be said here but I think those two examples sum it up just fine.
Well the more D hangs out with him the more he acts like him in some manners... B is always asking his wife what's wrong if she isn't all smiley and when she says nothing or that she's fine he starts... throwing a tantrum is what it looks like... saying if nothing was wrong she wouldn't be acting like that (seriously half the time he starts this she's just sitting there) and after a few rounds of this she does start to get pissed off. I would too. well yesterday D was telling B how the morning got all ****ed up and how I was just in a foul mood all day because of it and when I said I wasn't in a foul mood he started in on me... Well at one point I said okay fine if I'm in the kitchen because I'm in a foul mood I guess that means I'm not making this food for our dinner I guess I'll turn it off then so I can go sit with you while you tell me all about my foul mood. That wasn't appreciated either.
And all in all things just haven't been peachy since...
I want to injure but my options there are fairly limited and I don't see them as options but I also feel the need for them... I am all kinds of conflicted on the issue. Ok so I think that does count as talking about it after all. It leaves a lot out but gets the general idea out there.

Laura2.0 05-07-2011 11:44 PM

*hugs Lia and Crimson*

they all think it's best for me. T said that it would be good to go inpatient before I start uni. My mom thinks that I should go inpatient, because she watched some report about a girl who SHs on TV and she was in and out of hosp for years. She cares about me and she does understand that hosp wont work if I don't want it. I think my mom is really cool with everything, she didn't yell or go through my things. She just cried.

I'm sorry that your mom said something like that to you.

PoisonedApple 06-07-2011 12:07 AM

I want to move... You guys are all so far away. I think we should have RYL Island made for us...

frenchhorn 06-07-2011 01:27 AM

*hugs you all lots*

*waves to anyone who doesnt want hugs*

sorry I'm not doing individual replies, I'm a bit all over the place, I'm really low and want to OD badly, but can't cos I'm going home this weekend to see my sisters ballet show and found out something bad this morning.

PoisonedApple 06-07-2011 02:01 AM

*cuddles Oliver*

frenchhorn 06-07-2011 02:07 AM

*cuddles Crimson*

aklx 06-07-2011 03:53 AM

*hugs all*
Hugs are good for me Lia. I like your Glee avatar too :)

Well done for holding on Oliver.

Yay, an island! Better than a ward lol

frenchhorn 06-07-2011 03:57 AM

*hugs Mrs Pan* how are you?

aklx 06-07-2011 04:07 AM

*hugs Oliver*
I'm okay at the moment, thank you for asking. Had a strange night though, emotions up and down. I will hopefully get to sleep as soon as I go to bed so I don't have time to think about rubbish stuff.

frenchhorn 06-07-2011 04:19 AM

*hugs Mrs Pan* hope you sleep ok

Doikers 06-07-2011 11:02 AM

*Hugs Laura*

*Hugs Lia*

*Hugs Oliver*

*Hugs Mrs Pan*

Laura2.0 06-07-2011 11:19 AM

*hugs Oliver*
*hugs Lia*
*hugs Pan*
*hugs mark*

how are you all?

one_step_closer 06-07-2011 12:36 PM

*hugs everyone*

Doikers 06-07-2011 01:59 PM

*Hugs Laura*

*Hugs Lindsay*

I don't know how I am yet , How are you gals?

one_step_closer 06-07-2011 03:21 PM

I'm still feeling suicidal. I'm going to try and contact the voluntary crisis team tonight but they usually just tell me to watch TV.

Doikers 06-07-2011 03:22 PM

*Squishes Lindsay Heaps*

one_step_closer 06-07-2011 05:00 PM

Thanks, Mark. How are you doing now?

aklx 06-07-2011 05:11 PM


Watching TV is bloody crap advice in a crisis. Is there nobody else you can contact?

one_step_closer 06-07-2011 05:25 PM

I might try and phone my OT tomorrow if they don't help, but she never knows what to do either.

I've decided that I have to kill myself to stop the men in my head from killing my brother. This is for the best. He won't have to die and I won't have to suffer any more.

Doikers 06-07-2011 05:30 PM

*Hugs Lindsay extra hard!*

*Hugs Mrs Pan*

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