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Doikers 25-11-2010 08:32 PM

I'm meeting my friend tomorrow for coffee in the town I live in , I LOVE her but don't know what to do about it , sorry if this is the wrong place to post but I have never had a serious relationship and I don't know how to start one , I've known her for about 18 months , since we were in Psych Hospital together , and after 4 months I told my other hospital friend I wanted to marry her and he just laughed ,I don't know what to do , sorry

one_step_closer 25-11-2010 08:33 PM

*hides under a blanket*

Doikers 25-11-2010 08:40 PM

Whats Up Lindsay? *Hugs*

MammaMia 25-11-2010 08:42 PM

Oh Mark :( I know how difficult it is feeling that way for someone who is a friend & you're scared telling them will ruin everything you have. I don't really have any useful advice other than to tell her perhaps? She might even feel the same way for all you know. I'm sorry your other 'hospital' friend laughed at you for wanting to marry her :( *hugs lots*

Lindsay, do you want to talk?? *hugs*

one_step_closer 25-11-2010 08:43 PM

I'm just cold and lonely. This time last year I was just out of hospital. I wish I could go back and experience being an inpatient again. I need people to take care of me.

one_step_closer 25-11-2010 08:44 PM

Do you have any idea how she feels about you, Mark?

nicole94 25-11-2010 08:49 PM

*hugs everyone*

Doikers 25-11-2010 08:51 PM

She just said she wanted to take it slowly , that was over a year ago , we don't even hold hands . How long until we hold hands? that sounds lame , Sorry:S

Lindsay I sometime wish I was an inpatient , I spent 100 consecutive days on the ward last summer , it's comforting to know you won't come to any harm whilst inpatient , I still crave it , You are not alone in this . PM box is open.

MammaMia 25-11-2010 09:00 PM

Mark, maybe bring it up again with her??

Nicole *hugs tight*

Doikers 25-11-2010 09:06 PM

Thanks Helen:)

MammaMia 25-11-2010 09:11 PM

I haven't done anything :)

Doikers 25-11-2010 09:34 PM

Night Night

FlyingNy 25-11-2010 09:56 PM

Hey Nicole *Hugs* How are you?

Mark, I know how that feels unfortunatley. No one believed that I loved, love, her, but I do. I love her so much. But she never felt the same way. I was only ever just me to her. Never anything more, and just being in the same room as her made everything better. She's gone now and I am more lost than ever. I don't know what to do without her. I miss her so much. So I can understand how hard it is. If she too has been in a psych ward though, she will be able to understand about some of the things you are going through, which must be good for your friendship. I hope you have fun having a coffee tomorrow.

FlyingNy 25-11-2010 09:57 PM

*Hugs Lindsey so she doesn't feel lonely anymore*

MammaMia 25-11-2010 10:15 PM

*hugs everyone then curls up trying not to cry*

nicole94 25-11-2010 10:16 PM

*hugs mark, helen and lia*
are you two ok? i'm pretty stressed cause my tutor has just given me a ton of work back and told me if i havent made all the corrections by tomorrow, then i get kicked outta college :/ and my internet is blocking most of the sites i need to do it, which is making me more stressed so i cant do any of it :( looks like college tomorrow is gonna be 9-7 so i can get all the work done :(
ohoh! *hugs helen* whats up sweetie?

FlyingNy 25-11-2010 10:19 PM

That's a little harsh Nicole, our school are strict but they give us a chance to do the work and won't throw us out over one late piece.

*Hugs Helen* What's the matter lovely?

nicole94 25-11-2010 10:24 PM

i know :( its cause ive done all the work but some was reffered and it all has to be done by tomorrow cause next weeks review week, and if we arent up to date with all our work then they will consder wether we are coping wit the course or not, and will be kicking people out :/ so tomorrows gonna be a long day :(

MammaMia 25-11-2010 10:25 PM

Nicole, that really sucks honey :( Could you try get into college early to finish it with the sites that are blocked for you or explain to your Mum??

nicole94 25-11-2010 10:38 PM

can't get in early cause of issues with anxiety-takes me about an hour to use enough skills to even get out the door in the morning :( i'm just gonna have to stay after college and do it. And i dont think my mum can do anything about it, its the network provider thats blocking it :/


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