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one_step_closer 02-04-2011 06:20 PM

It didn't sound patronising at all.

How is everyone this evening or whatever time it may be where you are?

Billy! 02-04-2011 07:05 PM


Doikers 02-04-2011 07:25 PM

*Hugs Charlie*

Billy! 02-04-2011 07:31 PM

*Hugs Mark* How are you?

Doikers 02-04-2011 07:37 PM

Better than yesterday Charlie , Hopefully not as good as tomorrow , How are you? *Hugs*

Billy! 02-04-2011 07:43 PM

Well i'm glad you're better than yesterday :)
I'm good thanks. Got my mums presents :) *Hugs*
Need another cup of tea but can't be botherd to go make one XD

Doikers 02-04-2011 08:00 PM

*Sends motivation to make tea to Charlie*

Billy! 02-04-2011 08:02 PM

Lol, Thanks. I will make myself go soon :)

FlyingNy 02-04-2011 08:27 PM

I just made myself some tea :)

*Hugs everyone* Thanks for the birthday wishes :) I had a really awesome day, despite the exam. I have the best drama class in the world <3

Billy! 02-04-2011 08:32 PM

Send me some over? I still haven't made any XD

ˈsäləˌterē 02-04-2011 10:05 PM

~Hugs all you beautiful people!~

FlyingNy 02-04-2011 10:12 PM

*Hugs Solo* How you doing?

ˈsäləˌterē 02-04-2011 10:23 PM

Thanks Lia my dear! I'm hangin honey, just don't let go a me, k?

FlyingNy 02-04-2011 10:51 PM

I'm here Solo. Is there anything you want to talk about?

ˈsäləˌterē 02-04-2011 11:09 PM

I dunno Lia. I've pretty much decided not to do that any more.

FlyingNy 02-04-2011 11:28 PM

Take my word for it, that's not fun. It just...makes stuff worse. And you get into the habit. Just...don't go there.

ˈsäləˌterē 02-04-2011 11:50 PM

That's how I've lived my whole life until all this SI and ED stuff kicked up. All talking about it seems to accomplish is hurting people I care about n messing up friendships.

FlyingNy 02-04-2011 11:57 PM

I know. Those I trust enough to talk about things with I love too much to hurt. And I'm always afraid they will leave me, even if they don't mean to because there are some things no one can predict and even if people do promise to always be there, they don't know how frustrating it it going to be, they can't promise that. But here on the ward and RYL in general, we all support each other. It's what we're here for. And although I'm not always entirely honest with you guys, it all goes in my R/V. No one here's going to judge or abandon you.

ˈsäləˌterē 03-04-2011 12:15 AM

Exactly! I knew you would understand Lia! At first I had decided to only wear the mask, if ya know what I mean, with everyone irl. Then I kept saying the wrong thing here n either triggering someone or making things worse for people I was trying to help. Now I feel like I should just keep to myself like I had always done before, to protect others.

frenchhorn 03-04-2011 12:23 AM

*hugs all*

I have to be up stupidly early tomorrow to get a bus to manchester and then a tram back to bury, which is only a bus ride from where i am, but the buses dont run until 10 and my course starts at 9.30, bloody public transport, I'll still probably be late

FlyingNy 03-04-2011 12:25 AM

I don't recall you ever doing that here. You're a really nice person and only ever try and help people. If you think something you say is going to be triggering, you can put it in a hide box, or if your computer is playing up like mine does sometimes, just put a little warning before your main part. You shouldn't have to keep everything inside you even on here. Or have an R/V, as far as I am aware, there are no rules about what you can and can't write there because it's your space. You don't have to worry about triggering others because hardly anyone else will read it and if they do they should know full well what sort of things may be in there.

Talking to people just plain scares me now.

*Hugs Oliver* That sucks, I have to get up early also for church and I haven't slept in for weeks :( Still, it's my choice to go so y'know.

FlyingNy 03-04-2011 12:28 AM

F**king bol***ing wa***rs. I completely forgot to start my script now I have to write 9 pages tomorrow.

frenchhorn 03-04-2011 12:59 AM

*hugs Lia and Solo*

Cazki 03-04-2011 01:10 AM

Heya :)

*Hugs Lia*

*Hugs Solo*

*Hugs Oliver*

ˈsäləˌterē 03-04-2011 01:18 AM

Thanks Lia! The problems have been on another forum and in private messages. I'll check out the r/v thread. Talking to people just plain scares me now too! I have a friend who keeps wanting me to talk to her but I'm just too afraid to now, after past experiences.

~Hugs Oliver~

ˈsäləˌterē 03-04-2011 01:24 AM

~Hugs Ian~

SoMuchMore 03-04-2011 01:41 AM

*hugs mark, lia, solo, oliver, and ian*

*spies felicia*

misskitty112 03-04-2011 01:42 AM

*hugs everyone*

risenfromperdition 03-04-2011 01:45 AM

hey darling, how'd today go? *snuggle*

ˈsäləˌterē 03-04-2011 02:09 AM

~Hugs Laura, Felicia, and Heather~

risenfromperdition 03-04-2011 02:14 AM

:) <3.

BWchick 03-04-2011 04:46 AM

*Huggles wardies!*

Hellooooo! How is everyone :D

ˈsäləˌterē 03-04-2011 05:06 AM

~Huggles Megs~

~Huggles you too Felicia~

BWchick 03-04-2011 05:48 AM

how are you solo? Felicia?

Kahlia1981 03-04-2011 09:43 AM

*huggles all*

I am home from my trip to hospital. It was an eventful and productive trip, with the bonus of being in a beautiful city that I could explore in my spare time. I am doing so much better now, even though the trip took me to some very dark places.

To everyone I know: *big huggles*
To everyone I don't: Hi, it's Kahlia here and I look forward to meeting you.

I missed you guys so bad. 5 weeks without really being able to get on a computer bites hard!!

*cuddles/hugs/soft furry stuffed animals/safe TLC to all*

Doikers 03-04-2011 10:51 AM

*Hugs Solo*
*Hugs Lia*
*Hugs Oliver*
*Hugs Ian*
*Hugs Laura*
*Hugs Felicia*
*Hugs Heather*
*Hugs Megz*
*Hugs Kahlia* Welcome back Hun!!! :D
*Spots and Hugs Charlie*

Billy! 03-04-2011 10:55 AM

:O I've been spotted :) morning Mark.
*Hugs everyone*
Welcome back Kahlia!!!

Billy! 03-04-2011 11:48 AM

Hmm. The wards empty today.

one_step_closer 03-04-2011 12:59 PM

Welcome back, Kahlia!

FlyingNy 03-04-2011 02:42 PM

Welcome back Kahlia :)

*Hugs Charlie, Lindsey, Mark and Morgana* How are you guys?

Doikers 03-04-2011 02:47 PM

I'm Low , feel alone . Sorry Lia , How are you? *Hugs*

one_step_closer 03-04-2011 03:16 PM

You're not alone here, Mark. *hugs*

I don't know what to do with myself. I need to stay busy to avoid feeling really low but there isn't much to do.

Doikers 03-04-2011 03:30 PM

*Hugs Lindsay* I know that feeling hun . and Thankyou too

Billy! 03-04-2011 04:59 PM

*Hugs Mark, Lia and Lindsay*
I burned my hand on the steam from the potatoes :(

ˈsäləˌterē 03-04-2011 05:26 PM

~Hugs all~ Sorry I missed ya last night Megz!

It's great to have ya back Kahlia! I'm so glad your trip was good for you!

You ok Charlie?

Doikers 03-04-2011 05:28 PM

*Hugs Charlie* Is it burnt badly Hun?

*Hugs Solo* How are you hun?

Billy! 03-04-2011 05:31 PM

*Hugs Solo and Mark*
Yeah it's fine, Just ran it under the cold tap for a bit.

Doikers 03-04-2011 05:39 PM

:S Ouch!

Billy! 03-04-2011 05:50 PM

I'm really hungry. Roasts take so long to cook -.-

ˈsäləˌterē 03-04-2011 05:52 PM

I'm ok. Glad yer hand is ok Charlie!

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