*Hugs Mark* That's great about your Grandma :)

*Hugs Heather* Thanks :) I less than three you too <3 How are you?

So quiet...

*hugs ward*

Woo, a person. How are you Nicole? *Hugs*

lol lia, yesh i am a person....at least i think so :/ but you never know with me, i could quite easily be an alien.
sorry, i'm in a weird mood today :/ but i'm happy :D and also kinda bored :/ *hugs* how're you?

*Hugs Lia*

*Hugs Nicole*

Sorry I've offline , we had my Aunt and Uncle up here at my parents.

I am Meeting Hannah L for coffee at 3pm !!!!!!Yey , I so love her , it's the one thing I'm looking forward to these next few days :)

Yay, have fun with that Mark :)

Lol Nicole, well I'm glad you're in a good mood. I don't know what mood I am in, sort of a bit of everything and it's all a little jumbled up. See above post (right at the top) for explanation. But I'm not unhappy as such, and I have a party and a Christmas weekend to look forward to :)

*hugs mark* have fun :D
*hugs lia* lol. heh, i'm just in a random mood, although it is starting to dissappear as my sister has just come in and started having a go at me :/ gah. sorry you're feeling all jumbled up, thats crappy :( but at least you have things to look forward too :D.

:O lia, i was just looking at your FB page, you are actually only 15 days older than me :D lol

Ha. I'm the oldest :P

Sorry, that was inmature. I'm an April fool baby, funny story actually. No one believed my mum when she rung them up to tell them she had had me, my brother and sister because not only were we 3 months early, but it was April fools' day. I've got quite a lot to get done today and should really work on my English essay...oh the joys.

lol, damn it, does that make me the youngest in the ward then? i think it does :/ ahh, fun, i have retail homework to do :/ but i dont think dolores will mind if i dont do it because she knows how much i've been struggling latley.
omfg, i dont know what to do. i wanna hurt myself! i dont wanna be here anymore :( why does he have to do this?

*Hugs Nicole* What's the matter?

*hugs lia*
*TRIGGER SA!*





my step brother (the one that sexually abused me when we were younger) just messaged me on facebook with a load of pictures of girls private parts and then right at the end a picture of him with his trousers round his ankles :'( it really triggerd me
(sorry if this triggers anyone, i dunno how to do a hide box.)

*Holds Nicole tight* I'm so sorry. Can't you block him, or delete him or something? Report him on fb so they ban his account? For now, please try not to give into those urges. I don't know what else to say. I'm sorry.

i'm not friends with him, but i might be able to block his profile, although at the same time i wanna keep an eye on him, i dont want him to hurt anybody else, and there is no way i am reporting him incase it gets out that it was me and it would just cause more trouble with my family :( *hugs* i've deleted the message though.

Do your family know what he did? I know you want to keep an eye, but you're not responsible for him and it's not your fault if he does hurt anyone else. Plus, he's not likely to post it on fb if he does, so I don't think being able to see his profile is going to make a difference. I'm pretty sure you can block people on fb, but I don't know how.

*hugs lia* yeah my family know, but it caused a lot of trouble and we are just starting to re-build a relationship, i dont wanna ruin that. And i know he wouldnt post it on FB, but there might be some signs, i know im not responsible but i cant let him hurt anyone else if i can help it. :(

You can block people on FB, let me know if you decide to and don't know how to do it Nicole. Same goes to everyone else. I've got quite a few people blocked. Nicole, I think Lia's right, if he was to hurt anyone else or give any signs, he wouldn't brag on facebook. I know you feel responsible that he doesn't hurt anyone else, but it's NOT your responsibility sweetheart. It really isn't. *cuddles tight*

*hugs ward*

*hugs helen* i know.... :( just looked at his profile and the pictures that he sent me are also in an album on his profile, he has a picture, of a womans private parts. on his facebook. he is 13. that isnt right. is it? i'm not just being over sensitive am i? :(

*hugs Nicole* You're not being oversensitive. It's against the rules to post those type of photos over facebook anyway. So I'd recommend reporting them if you feel comfortable in doing so. Also he really shouldn't be doing that, at any age, especially at 13!!