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chinahorse 28-08-2019 07:44 AM

I told mum about the good and the evil. She replied goodnight. Didn't say anything else. I don't know. I expected more from her. I expected her at least to acknowledge that it was ok to tell her.

EyelinerAndCigarettes 28-08-2019 09:18 AM

I'm so sorry you didn't get the answer or understanding you needed, that can be so invalidating.

chinahorse 28-08-2019 09:21 AM

It feels like the only people who listen are online. I feel very not heard in person. I am so tired. So exhausted.

EyelinerAndCigarettes 28-08-2019 09:23 AM

I can relate to that feeling, it's very isolating. *big hugs*

tamobhuuta 28-08-2019 10:54 AM

*hugs* sorry your mum wasn't more supportive.

one_step_closer 28-08-2019 03:46 PM

I'm sorry you didn't get what you needed from your Mum and that people offline aren't properly hearing you. I know it's not much but please keep posting here if it helps even a little.

chinahorse 28-08-2019 04:09 PM

Thank you all.

Ive got my assessment tomorrow. Am scared.

one_step_closer 28-08-2019 04:22 PM

I'm glad your assessment is tomorrow, I know you've felt like it has been a long wait. What are you scared of? What is the best way for you to say all the important things that you need to get across to them? I hope it goes well.

chinahorse 28-08-2019 06:41 PM

I don't know what to say to them
If they refuse to help me I don't know how long I've got left to live.
Feel horrible.

EyelinerAndCigarettes 28-08-2019 07:21 PM

Could you perhaps write a list of bullet points about how you've been feeling lately/what's going on currently?

What would help look like to you?

chinahorse 28-08-2019 08:07 PM

I don't deserve help.

chinahorse 28-08-2019 11:35 PM

Mum said maybe people dont help me because 'they took one look at your history and said whats the point'.

tiptoes 29-08-2019 08:29 AM

Wow! I bet that was hard to hear. I 100% disagree with your mum.

I don't have much advice but I hope today goes OK. Do you know what you want to say/ask for?

EyelinerAndCigarettes 29-08-2019 09:29 AM

I also 110% disagree with your mum, what a hurtful comment.

I'll be thinking of you today.


tamobhuuta 29-08-2019 09:58 AM

I hope today goes ok x

nonperson 29-08-2019 10:08 AM

Thinking of you today, Lillie. Wish I knew any helpful advice to give - be honest and tell them exactly how bad things are. Don't use it as a threat but what you said above about not knowing how long you'll have left to live should convey the message.

Also that really wasn't a nice comment from your mum. Try not to take it to heart and read all the many encouraging comments here instead.

chinahorse 29-08-2019 10:08 AM

Thank you all.

Ive been to MIU to get a wound seen as the man was trying to steal the love and let the evil take over and a friend said I shouldnt call the police so I didn't know what else to do.

In Costa waiting for the appointment now.

one_step_closer 29-08-2019 10:22 AM

I hope it goes well Lillie.

Eska 29-08-2019 10:29 AM

Thinking of you, I hope they're able to help

chinahorse 29-08-2019 01:11 PM

Have to wait until middle of next week to hear the outcome of the assessment. Doesn't feel ok

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