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Doikers 11-01-2011 07:12 PM

*Hugs Helen* Could you work on your Birthday playlist to take your mind off things , I remember you were quite excited about it last year.

*Hugs Kitty* I reallyreally hope this gets sorted out for you , and soon .

*Hugs Lia* I may have missed a post buty how are you?

SparkleKitten 11-01-2011 07:24 PM

We saw an advert for art therapy today, has anyone in the ward tried it? I can't find any more information on it and I don't want to make a gp appointment just to ask about it because I feel like I'm wasting time but there's so little information about it on the net. I know I'd need to see a doctor for a refferal but I don't want to waste time if it'd be useless or if there's none in the area :/

Doikers 11-01-2011 07:24 PM

I need to get married , How the hell am I supposed to with all my scars? The one woman I'm interested in I swear wants only to be a friend so it's like hey "general chatter" now I'll take off my jacket and freak you out ****! sorry

MammaMia 11-01-2011 07:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IceQueenHasAHeart (Post 2651576)
*Hugs Kitty, Helen and Mark*

*hugs Lia* How are you & stop avoiding the question ;)

Quote:

Originally Posted by PsychoKitty2010 (Post 2651582)
-hugs helen and offers her tissues and teddys-

Thanks Kitty -hugs back and takes tissues & teddy*

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doikers (Post 2651583)
*Hugs Helen* Could you work on your Birthday playlist to take your mind off things , I remember you were quite excited about it last year.

*hugs Mark* Thanks for suggestion, would probably cry if I did. But it's been updated recently. I was very excited, still am, just not right this minute lol..

Doikers 11-01-2011 07:26 PM

Sarah , Could you ask a social worker? I used to do pottery with the local mental health folk so I know it's available in some places , I hope you can get your info . My class was run by the local MIND association , do you have one?

PsychoKitty2010 11-01-2011 07:28 PM

-hugs mark- Thanks. I do, too. I feel like these people are giving me a run around. How you be today?

-hugs sarah- I haven't ever heard of it. I have heard the saying "art can be therapeutic", but never actually heard about art therapy. Sorry I can't be of more help, hun.

PoisonedApple 11-01-2011 07:47 PM

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I need to get married , How the hell am I supposed to with all my scars? The one woman I'm interested in I swear wants only to be a friend so it's like hey "general chatter" now I'll take off my jacket and freak you out ****! sorry
Mark, there is no set time frame for getting married and not every one will freak out. If someone does freak out and can't get past it and love you for who you are then they aren't a person you should be marrying anyway. And have you asked her how she feels? Maybe ask her out on a date and see how it goes? The worst case scenario for asking her on a date is that she'll say she only wants to be friends (which is what you think now so no loss) but the best case scenario is she'll accept and you will have a relationship building. :)

Doikers 11-01-2011 07:55 PM

Crimson, thankyou but you have no idea how much I love her , I met her in the Psych ward so we were thrown together in huge conflict and we bonded . I would do all sorts of stupid love based stuff for her , would I kill myself for her? , I don't know but I would give it serious consideration.

Crimson can I PM you?

nicole94 11-01-2011 07:57 PM

*Curls up*

PoisonedApple 11-01-2011 07:59 PM

Of course you can, Mark. *hugs*

Doikers 11-01-2011 08:00 PM

*Hugs Nicole* whats up hun.

nicole94 11-01-2011 08:03 PM

*Hugs Mark*
I don't know if my friends alive or not!!!! :'( Last night she text me and said she was suicidal and wanted to end it all. She hasn't replied to any of my texts since and hasn't been on facebook and msn. I have no other ways of getting hold of her. I'm so worried :'(

PsychoKitty2010 11-01-2011 08:05 PM

-hugs mark- I'm sorry you feel that way, Mark. I agree with what Crimson says. Ask her on a date or something. The only way you will know for sure is to ask her. And being that you two were in a psych ward together, she already knows about your problems and understands (at least to a certain degree?). And Crimson is also right in saying that if a person freaks out over your scars, they are not right for you anyway. That's how I initially knew I was going to marry my husband. He saw my scars and he didn't freak out. He asked about them. When I told him, he kissed them. That was when we originally met. He had already known I had issues, but I had never told him about my SI until that point for the same reason. I was scared he would freak out. But he didn't. That's one reason I don't want to get a divorce from him, no matter how bad things get between us. Deep down I don't want a divorce. He is the only person who I have allowed to see my scars and didn't freak out, but kissed them. It almost made me cry. He has even held me down when I was holding a knife in my hands wanting to cut instead of freaking out and running away. When you find the right person, she should treat you similarly.

-hugs crimson- How are you doing today?

-hugs nicole- You ok?

MammaMia 11-01-2011 08:06 PM

*hugs Nicole* I hope she's okay sweetheart. I'm sure she will be. Maybe she's ran out of free texts or something?

*hugs everyone*

shadowedsoul 11-01-2011 08:08 PM

hugs everyone,then curls up.

Doikers 11-01-2011 08:09 PM

Kitty , I want to marry your husband :P , just kidding but someone like him would be ideal

FlyingNy 11-01-2011 08:13 PM

Sorry Helen ;) I wasn't avoiding it, just kinda went away...

I was alright, but now...Just...urgh. That will be all.

Doikers 11-01-2011 08:13 PM

You okay Lia?

nicole94 11-01-2011 08:17 PM

*Hugs Helen*
Maybe. I hope so :(
*Hugs Lia*

PsychoKitty2010 11-01-2011 08:21 PM

Hmmm...

-hugs shadowedsoul, helen, mark, nicole, and lia-

Nicole, I hope your friend is ok.

Please excuse me while I go insane. If anyone wants, feel free to add me on fb and/or messenger. I have windows live. If you want to add me to messenger, message me for the email.


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