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ˈsäləˌterē 02-04-2011 10:05 PM

~Hugs all you beautiful people!~

FlyingNy 02-04-2011 10:12 PM

*Hugs Solo* How you doing?

ˈsäləˌterē 02-04-2011 10:23 PM

Thanks Lia my dear! I'm hangin honey, just don't let go a me, k?

FlyingNy 02-04-2011 10:51 PM

I'm here Solo. Is there anything you want to talk about?

ˈsäləˌterē 02-04-2011 11:09 PM

I dunno Lia. I've pretty much decided not to do that any more.

FlyingNy 02-04-2011 11:28 PM

Take my word for it, that's not fun. It just...makes stuff worse. And you get into the habit. Just...don't go there.

ˈsäləˌterē 02-04-2011 11:50 PM

That's how I've lived my whole life until all this SI and ED stuff kicked up. All talking about it seems to accomplish is hurting people I care about n messing up friendships.

FlyingNy 02-04-2011 11:57 PM

I know. Those I trust enough to talk about things with I love too much to hurt. And I'm always afraid they will leave me, even if they don't mean to because there are some things no one can predict and even if people do promise to always be there, they don't know how frustrating it it going to be, they can't promise that. But here on the ward and RYL in general, we all support each other. It's what we're here for. And although I'm not always entirely honest with you guys, it all goes in my R/V. No one here's going to judge or abandon you.

ˈsäləˌterē 03-04-2011 12:15 AM

Exactly! I knew you would understand Lia! At first I had decided to only wear the mask, if ya know what I mean, with everyone irl. Then I kept saying the wrong thing here n either triggering someone or making things worse for people I was trying to help. Now I feel like I should just keep to myself like I had always done before, to protect others.

frenchhorn 03-04-2011 12:23 AM

*hugs all*

I have to be up stupidly early tomorrow to get a bus to manchester and then a tram back to bury, which is only a bus ride from where i am, but the buses dont run until 10 and my course starts at 9.30, bloody public transport, I'll still probably be late

FlyingNy 03-04-2011 12:25 AM

I don't recall you ever doing that here. You're a really nice person and only ever try and help people. If you think something you say is going to be triggering, you can put it in a hide box, or if your computer is playing up like mine does sometimes, just put a little warning before your main part. You shouldn't have to keep everything inside you even on here. Or have an R/V, as far as I am aware, there are no rules about what you can and can't write there because it's your space. You don't have to worry about triggering others because hardly anyone else will read it and if they do they should know full well what sort of things may be in there.

Talking to people just plain scares me now.

*Hugs Oliver* That sucks, I have to get up early also for church and I haven't slept in for weeks :( Still, it's my choice to go so y'know.

FlyingNy 03-04-2011 12:28 AM

F**king bol***ing wa***rs. I completely forgot to start my script now I have to write 9 pages tomorrow.

frenchhorn 03-04-2011 12:59 AM

*hugs Lia and Solo*

Cazki 03-04-2011 01:10 AM

Heya :)

*Hugs Lia*

*Hugs Solo*

*Hugs Oliver*

ˈsäləˌterē 03-04-2011 01:18 AM

Thanks Lia! The problems have been on another forum and in private messages. I'll check out the r/v thread. Talking to people just plain scares me now too! I have a friend who keeps wanting me to talk to her but I'm just too afraid to now, after past experiences.

~Hugs Oliver~

ˈsäləˌterē 03-04-2011 01:24 AM

~Hugs Ian~

SoMuchMore 03-04-2011 01:41 AM

*hugs mark, lia, solo, oliver, and ian*

*spies felicia*

misskitty112 03-04-2011 01:42 AM

*hugs everyone*

risenfromperdition 03-04-2011 01:45 AM

hey darling, how'd today go? *snuggle*

ˈsäləˌterē 03-04-2011 02:09 AM

~Hugs Laura, Felicia, and Heather~


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