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MammaMia 08-06-2010 01:06 AM

*hugs April and Oliver lots*

You don't whine too much :(

I could post about so much right now but I'm holding it all in again :'(

anarchistl0ve 08-06-2010 01:14 AM

*hugs April and Hels*

is it sick and wrong i wish someone I am related to, to miscarry cause im jealous and she dont want the baby anyways AND shes not married. then again i cant be to jealous im married and have a 8mo old

MammaMia 08-06-2010 01:18 AM

How do you even know how heartbreaking a miscarriage is? :'(

PoisonedApple 08-06-2010 01:23 AM

Welcome to my life That describes quite well how I'm doing... but I don't feel like I'm going to burst into tears at the drop of a hat anymore. I think I'll try walking in and requesting the home inspection report. Then go over it with David and see if we think it's doable (I think it is from looking in the windows -since apparently showing the place to me is a waste of time-) and if we think the 200k (the cost of the house itself is 155k) loan will get the place fixed up talk to a lender and see if they'll let me negotiate a VA loan to buy the place as a construction loan. Then when we get the paperwork out of the way walk in and make that asshole eat every last belittling comment he made to me. I may look and sound younger than I am but damn it I am a 28 yr old Army Vet! I deserve some respect when I am trying to do something as simple as look at a damn house and inspection report... I mean really even if simple customer service didn't factor in I myself deserve not to be treated like crap by a sales person on the phone.

*ahem* erm...sorry as you can probably tell by the end I have moved mostly from upset to angry. >.>
Anyhow...

*huggles April* Are you feeling any safer? You don't whine too much... We care about you and want to hear how you're doing.

*hugs Helen* What's up, hun?

*hugs Oliver*

*gives Mark gentle hugs so as not to wake him*

anarchistl0ve 08-06-2010 01:29 AM

Yess i had one two years ago after i got married, when this same person got preggo with her first mind you shes not married at all

Scarletdreamer 08-06-2010 01:32 AM

i'm not feeling any safer, no. :(

want to hurt myself badly. :'(

frenchhorn 08-06-2010 01:32 AM

*curls up in corner*

MammaMia 08-06-2010 01:33 AM

Many mothers aren't married, does that *really* matter??? I'm sorry you've had one. But I think you of all people shouldn't be wishing that on anyone. I understand being jealous and all that, I've been there. Esepically having a miscarriage of my own when I was 14. But I wouldn't even wish a miscarriage on my own worst enemy. I had a friend who I knew would be a bad mother to her child and she really is, I hated her when she got pregnant (we no longer speak anyway) but I wouldn't have wished a miscarriage on her =[

I'm sorry :'(

Scarletdreamer 08-06-2010 01:36 AM

's okay, Hels. *huggles* i understand being jealous too... but, well, i don't want to take sides. because we all should be on each other's side here... i don't know... please let this not escalate into a fullblown argument... :-s

*hides in the warren* :-s

MammaMia 08-06-2010 01:36 AM

*cuddles April tightly*

frenchhorn 08-06-2010 01:38 AM

*hugs April, Helen and Becca*

*hides*

MammaMia 08-06-2010 01:40 AM

*hugs Oliver lots* What's wrong sweet?

anarchistl0ve 08-06-2010 01:44 AM

Shes the sort of person who can look at a naked man get preggo, then thers me i had to fight medically not to lose this one, and still had him 1.5mo early. its just not fair for people like me. i have had a **** life and had to fight, shes lived the silver platter life.

frenchhorn 08-06-2010 01:47 AM

depression hitting me again

Pomegranate 08-06-2010 01:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MammaMia (Post 2340387)
Many mothers aren't married, does that *really* matter??? I'm sorry you've had one. But I think you of all people shouldn't be wishing that on anyone. I understand being jealous and all that, I've been there. Esepically having a miscarriage of my own when I was 14. But I wouldn't even wish a miscarriage on my own worst enemy. I had a friend who I knew would be a bad mother to her child and she really is, I hated her when she got pregnant (we no longer speak anyway) but I wouldn't have wished a miscarriage on her =[

I'm sorry :'(


I agree that mothers don't need to be married in order to be good parents. At the same time I don't think asking if someone even knows what it is like to have a miscarriage is very helpful. People have different views and if someone posted then (most of the time) it is clear they are having issues coming to terms with something. Maybe it would be better to support them rather than attack? Besides...via the internet how can any of us tell whether someone has really gone through something they claim to have or not?

MammaMia 08-06-2010 02:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by anarchistl0ve (Post 2340394)
Shes the sort of person who can look at a naked man get preggo, then thers me i had to fight medically not to lose this one, and still had him 1.5mo early. its just not fair for people like me. i have had a **** life and had to fight, shes lived the silver platter life.

If she wants to do that, then it's her choice. You shouldn't let her affect you so much. I know how hard it must, I really do. I'm sorry you had to fight medically not to lose your child and still had him early. Aswell as the miscarriage. I've not had the best of lives either (as many here who have had miscarriages) and yes we've had all had to fight and there's people like her who haven't. Please try not to let her affect you so. I'm not attacking you with this post and I apologise if my other posts have felt attacking towards you, that wasn't my intention.

Oliver, I'm sorry depression's hitting you again. *cuddles*

anarchistl0ve 08-06-2010 02:06 AM

Thanks. I will chalk the others up to simple misunderstanding. Here is really my only safe place to say my real feelings

MammaMia 08-06-2010 02:11 AM

I'm glad you feel it's a safe place to share your real feelings. Feel free to continue to do so. Just sometimes people may be upset and seem like they're attacking you with their replies, but they're usually not :)

Anyway I really should head to bed, got a migraine coming on and can't see the screen very well.

anarchistl0ve 08-06-2010 02:13 AM

Bleh migraines suck. Rest well

risenfromperdition 08-06-2010 02:17 AM

april- yeh i got money, but he said he wouldnt lemme use laptop [is his] 'less did it.


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