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MammaMia 03-11-2010 11:09 PM

*cuddles everyone lots* Sorry we're all struggling so much.

Anarchymummy 04-11-2010 12:12 AM

*curls in corner* not been in here in a very long while.....

xxjuliexx 04-11-2010 09:32 AM


Originally Posted by Doikers (Post 2552853)
*Huge Hugs Julie* Thankyou so so much :D It makes me feel nice having friends like you :)

it's coz we love u and we're like a family this ward

Doikers 04-11-2010 11:27 AM

*Hugs Julie*

*Hugs Spikes if okay*

*Hugs Crimson*

*Hugs Kahlia*

*Hugs Sarah*

I just had a visit from Beth , my stand in social worker I think she is , she got me out of bed but I needed to get up anyway heh, I told her all about my birthday and the 9th and she is going to try and organise something to help me , she gave me her phone number :)

Disturbia 04-11-2010 02:28 PM

Hi , Am XSamX though i would say hi

SparkleKitten 04-11-2010 02:35 PM

Hey guys, having another crappy day here, took me 50 minutes to get out of bed and I was almost late. Can't really afford food either but luckily had leftovers from last night. Starting to wish I could just fall asleep and wake up feeling better, slept on the bus today I was so run down >:( x

SoMuchMore 04-11-2010 03:10 PM

Hello Spikes and xSamx! I'm Laura. *offers welcome tea and cookies*

*hugs mark* sounds like beth is pretty awesome! you can get through the 9th, I know you can. and we'll all be here to support you.

*hugs sarah* I'm sorry you haven't been feeling great lately. Let us know if there is anything we can do... sorry I don't have many words of advice at the moment.

*cuddles helen, kahlia, julie, and crimson*

Sorry for my lack of many individuals.
I've been so busy the last few days i've barely been on here for more than a quick read. Thinking of all of you.
Off to class now. Stay safe.

Doikers 04-11-2010 04:16 PM

*Hugs Sarah*

*Hugs Laura*

*Hugs XSamX if okay*

I miss Taz , has anyone heard from her ?

Doikers 04-11-2010 05:15 PM

So I am back from my Group, There was a woman there ,who , with the benefit of hindsight was Drinking alcohol , from a coke bottle :S . The whole group is challenging and as usual afterwards I am Triggered (as I am trying to apply the priciples to my S.I.) and soooooooo could use a drink :S Sorry .

risenfromperdition 04-11-2010 05:27 PM

*squishes mark*
here if need someone to talk to

risenfromperdition 04-11-2010 05:27 PM

ugh i feel so pathetic that im stuck here whilst all my friends from old uni are talking bout getting their senior pictures taken and i should be getting mine taken and meh =[

nicole94 04-11-2010 05:39 PM


Doikers 04-11-2010 05:52 PM

*Hugs Heather* You are NOT pathetic :)<3

*Hugs Nicole* You okay?

nicole94 04-11-2010 05:59 PM

*hugs mark* not really :( i wish people would tell me things!!!! i had my CPA today, and i was expecting it to be me, my mum, julie (my individual therapist) and joan (my care co-ordinator.) but instead there were me, my mum, joan, julie, shani (my new care co-ordinater) elaine (a LSA at college) christine (the student support woman at college) lucy (my connexions worker) and a student psychologist, i panicked SO much, luckily they agreed to let the student stay outside because i was panicking so bad but still, it was AWFUL! :(

Doikers 04-11-2010 06:14 PM

Oh Nicole that must have been really overwhelming and intimidating , I can understand why you paniced *Hugs*

nicole94 04-11-2010 06:29 PM

*hugs* uhuh, it wasnt fair! i wouldnt've gone in if my mum wasnt with me, i moved my chair up right next to hers and stared at the floor for an hour. :(

one_step_closer 04-11-2010 07:02 PM

How did it go otherwise, Nicole?

Disturbia 04-11-2010 07:24 PM

I want to cut , feeling low .

one_step_closer 04-11-2010 07:27 PM

What's getting you down?

Disturbia 04-11-2010 07:29 PM

Flashbacks :-(

Doikers 04-11-2010 07:39 PM

*Hugs Lindsay* How are you ?

*Hugs XSamX*

Louise 04-11-2010 07:49 PM

*hugs everyone*

xxjuliexx 04-11-2010 07:53 PM

*yawns and makes a safe fort for sam lays in the fort to*

PoisonedApple 04-11-2010 08:29 PM

*hugs everyone*
*waves at XsamX* I'm Crimson
Any better Mark? Nicole? Heather?
How are you Lindsay? Julie? Loise?
Want to talk XsamX? Have any distractions?

Doikers 04-11-2010 08:42 PM

*Hugs Crimson* I'm okay , one minute then horrible the next , I injured in a bad moment :( Now I'm numbish.sorry

Louise 04-11-2010 08:47 PM

hugs mark, here if you want to talk.

I'm so so

FlyingNy 04-11-2010 08:47 PM

*Hides in the fort with Julie and Sam.*

*Hugs Mark* Do you know what triggered this? I am sorry you're feeling so low.

*Hugs Nicole* I'm sorry it was so dreadful :( I imagine I would hate that too, only I would never in a million years have my mum at one of them things.

I'm Lia by the way Sam.

I don't really know what to say about myself right now. I'm so worried about my friend. She has had the shittiest day ever, and I am not even kidding. She's been in the school medical room half the day, crying. I have never seen her like that and it scares me what's going on in her life right now. This whole thing is just mad. I thought I knew her, I thought I knew her family.

Doikers 04-11-2010 08:49 PM

Hey Louise :) *Hugs* I just , well am not taking my birthday and the 9th in a heroic fashion .

EDIT , Also My Grandma is sick in hospital and has been for a couple of weeks :( So am worried

Doikers 04-11-2010 08:55 PM

Peaks and Troughs *Sigh*

Doikers 04-11-2010 08:57 PM

*Hugs Lia* You just have to be a friend and be there for your friend :)

xxjuliexx 04-11-2010 08:59 PM

u wanna come in my fort mark

Doikers 04-11-2010 09:01 PM

Yes may I Julie ?

Doikers 04-11-2010 09:08 PM

*Finds a corner in Julies Fort , curls up and tries to snooze*

*Night Night ward mates:)*

FlyingNy 04-11-2010 09:11 PM

*Hugs Mark* We'll all be here to support you on your birthday and you say you have people IRL who can help you through it as well. It won't be the easiest day, but you'll get through it. I know you will. And think of the day you set to commit suicide as an achievment. It shows how far you've come that that is no longer your plan.

I'm trying, it's just I don't know what to do. Her mum, her reliable, efficiant, organised mum is suicidal and thinking of leaving her dad, who she doesn't get on well with. My friend is extremely quiet and shy and I don't think she would cope without her mum. If her mum leaves, she won't come back and my friend's dad is thinking about moving to Egypt, to live with cousins she hates thousands of miles away from everything she knows. And he's blaming her for everything. I found all this out this morning, and so did she. I don't know how to help, I've said I will be there for her, and given her several hugs and a shoulder to cry on, but I don't know how much more I can do but I feel so useless.

MammaMia 04-11-2010 10:25 PM

*hugs ward*

Wow Lia your friend really has had the shittiest day. Has she any other support other than you?

Mark, you'll get through your birthday & the 9th. Try not to think about it if you can.

SoMuchMore 05-11-2010 05:18 AM

*cuddles everyone tight* thinking of all of you.

Useless at the moment.

Doikers 05-11-2010 10:12 AM

*Hugs Laura* you're not useless hun :)

*Hugs Helen* Thankyou :)

*Hugs Lia* Thankyou too :)

MammaMia 05-11-2010 11:28 AM

Laura, you're not useless at all *cuddles tight*

Mark, you're welcome *cuddles*

*hugs ward*

risenfromperdition 05-11-2010 12:45 PM

not useless laura <3

*curls up in corner tiredly*
class... woo ><
just wanna sleep

Doikers 05-11-2010 02:55 PM

Anyone about for a little chat ? even if it is going over old ground . Sorry

Louise 05-11-2010 02:56 PM

I am here.

Doikers 05-11-2010 03:06 PM

Hey Louise :) How are you? I am worried , I cut last night , don't worry I looked after okay , but I am getting more and more anxious over my birthday and the 9th as they approach and I think I am going to be asking for a LOT of support here in the ward butI don't want to ask for too much as I don't want to piss anyone off , I have appoinments at 2pm,2pm,3pm and 4pm on the 9th and my social worker is back at work and visiting me on the 8th and I have the number for a 24 hour mental health helpline for the evening I'm still anxious though , I do have Diaz which I am going to rely on on my birthday I think .

Louise 05-11-2010 03:10 PM

you will not piss anyone off, we want to support you. what is making you anxious about your birthday

Doikers 05-11-2010 03:14 PM

I don't want to come over as monopolising the chat :S
I'm worried about being 30, I probably will want to cut but I'll be at my parents so I can't really . How can I be 30 and my life revolve around , Mental illness , S.I. and alcohol ? when I am 30 I will have been cutting for 16 years ! That scares and overwhelms me.

Louise 05-11-2010 03:41 PM

It's understandable that it scares and overhelms you, but your not alone and maybe in one way it is could that you will be with your parents least you will not be alone. And also you have us.

Doikers 05-11-2010 03:42 PM

*Hugs Louise* Thankyou :)

Louise 05-11-2010 03:45 PM

be gentle with yourself and take things easly.

Doikers 05-11-2010 03:47 PM

Being hard on myself is a trait , my support workers and Nurse have said , does that come over ? I will try and be gentle to myself :)

Doikers 05-11-2010 04:06 PM

*Hugs and spots Crimson* How are you today ?:)

Doikers 05-11-2010 04:16 PM

Well I'm off to my parents for the weekend , I'd better turn off my computor in readyness , Will try and be on on my parents lappy :)

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