Support for Helen ( Mammia Mia )
 

I am writing this thread because Helen could do with all our support right now. She is sooo good at supporting others and terrible for asking for support herself.

Helen made a thread herself asking for support and deleted it because she felt that she wasnt worthy. Which is utter nonsense.

Please please can we support her because she is going through hell right now.

Thank you for taking your time reading this thread

Lots of Love Jade xxx

You are more than worthy Helen, please take care and get in touch if you need anything.

Sending Hugs!

Oh sweetheart I am so sorry I didn't know things were this hard for you right now. Sorry I haven't been there for you lately but please do poke me if you need to talk or just want a hug. Keep fighting chick. Love you sweetheart
Kat xxx

Thanks to everyone who's written in here so far. But I really don't deserve this thread. I wish I could express stuff but due to varying reasons I can't.

Kat, sweetie, you've have some major crap to deal with yourself honey and the time differences don't help either xx

You do deserve it. And you know where I am ;) *cuddles*

hey my lil sis hope your okay sweetie i know things are really hard just now babez but things will get easier!! i promise!

love you loads and loads
Your Loving Big Sis Gilz xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Helen, sweets, you are worthy.
I wish I had something more productive to say, but I don't really know what's wrong.
I just want you to know that I'm always here if you need to talk.
Love you loads jellybean. xxx

Thanks honey :)

Awww big sis, you make me cry man lol <3 Can't wait til you come 'home' ;) It's going to be fuuun. Love you lots and lots xxxxx

I'm not worthy but thank you :) I know, it doesn't help when I don't say what's wrong but a lot of it I can't in public, although I can if it's private ;) Love you loads and loads too darling, you've always been here for me and same goes to you xxxx

Helen

(((((((hugs))))))))

You do deserve support here and are worthy.

I want to thank you too for all the support you have given Jade. I'm glad that she has a good friend in you who will give her support when she's feeling down.

If you want to talk about anything please don't hesitate in sending me a PM. I will always listen and do my best to offer support.

Take care and stay safe,

Nathan xoxox

Nathan, you're such a sweetheart. Thank you for the hugs :) Have some back!! I don't deserve support but thank you :) I'm definately not worthy.

You're very welcome and I want to say thank you to you too. I'm glad I have her, she's an amazing best friend to me who's always there (24/7) and I'll always give her the best support I can, which isn't much sometimes but I have a feeling it works ;)

Thank you Nathan for your offer :]

xxxxx

no matter what has happend she needs to know were here for her , i dont know whats happend but realy realy hope shes ok and comes back on so we can be her friend ,friends are important and are hard to find but my heart is with her and so are my prayers xx

Hi Helen
I dont know you but you must be an amazing person to have so many good friends. I hope I get the chance to get to know you. Take care of yourself and sending you hugsxxx

Thanks Marie, I don't know you I don't think but that means a lot to me xx

Hi cystal, I'm not amazintg but thank you :) It'd be nice to get to know you too :)

hugs hun just try and ignore the stuff thats going on and keep saving it
she's a not very nice person, think of the people who love you hun and do belive you there the people that matter.

The people who mind don't matter
and the people who matter don't mind.

and I love you so I matter :)

*Hugs*

You do deserve support, and I'm sorry that things are going so hard for you now

Thanks sweetie <3

*hugs back*

Well, my Helen. I wuvs you loadsa and loads and loads and you are so worthy of this thread...

I do hope things start to get better for you soon..Im always just a phone call/text message/train away, remember.

You are an amaizing person and you always brighten up my day.The world is a much better place with you in it.
Your smile makes me smile and your laugh makes me laugh and i hate to see you sad...

I'm always here for you forever and ever

lots of luffs and hugs from me to you

Meg x

Meggles, thank you honey. I loves you lots and lots too. I'm so not worthy of this thread.

I doubt things will start to get better for me soon but that's not the best attiude to have I guess. Thanks honey, am so going to pop over to see you very soon missy.

I'm not an amazing person but thank you, I'm glad I brighten up your day :) I think the world would be a much better place without me in it lol. Glad my smile makes you smile honey and same for the laugh. I know you hate seeing me sad & I'm sorry that the last two times I have been really down and put on a front for your sake and everyone else's.

I'm always here for you too honey forever && ever :D

Love you so much & huggles in return xD

Helen you are such a lovely person! You deserve support as much as everyone else, don't forget that :-) Stay positive xxx

Hey sweetheart, I'm sorry you're finding things really hard at the moment but I promise you, you do deserve support *hugs* Hope you start feeling better soon xxx

Thank you lovely ladies <3

You SO better had come and see me soon :-p

And you SO are worthy of shis thread!!

:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:

I will, but you need to get some credit too lol ;)

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Aye, let's stop hijacking the thread now lol.

Can I selfishly ask for some huigs and support maybe?

It's just been one of the worst weeks of my life. I am feeling so low, don't think I can go any lower but I keep going lower. Though I'll have moments where I feel a tiny bit ok. They soon go. I just can't do anything right now. I've reverted back to not doing my assignments, I try and do them but I just sit there staring and crying. What's the use of that? I'm tired of accusations that have been thrown around (some being from friends), I'm tired of fighting this endless battle, I'm sick of cutting and struggling not to od and other stuff. There's so much, I can't do it. I just want to curl up and die but I've been told by Jade that I can't. I'm struggling to sleep so much at the moment. Nothing I can do about that until the nightmares pass again, well if they pass :(

*huggles* it will pass and things will get better, and Jade is right :) The battle is not lost even if you are tired of fighting it can still be won as long as you don't give up, take care hun, hugs, Hannah

Helen, this will pass my dearest.I love you.Call me anytime.

*hugs* Thanks for last night :) I know they'll pass, I'm just tired of waiting and fighting. I feel like I have given up, but I can't I guess. I've come this far after all :/

That reminds me of what someone said to me the other week "this horrible week can't last forever" and they were right. Although I've had nothing but bad weeks since then, the weeks never last forever. Although it feels like it sometimes. I love you too.

I've just realised I hugged you but didn't comment on the thread. Helen you are worth of this thread and you can have more virtual hugs if you like.
I'm around if you ever want to pm or anything.
xxx

Thanks sweetheart, I really appericate it :) I definately do need lots of hugs at the moment. It helps.

Dear Helen

Please dont give up the fight, just look for the positives in your life. Your great friends xxx for me included. For your holidays and your new Uni life. xxx

Things have only just begun. I think your a star.
We will keep on fighting together xxx
Love and Hugs

Jade xxx

*many hugs* your a lovely person and deserving of hugs and support! *many more hugs*

Thanks guys.

I am trying to stay strong but things just keep kicking off, hopefully they'll settle down and I'll soon hopefully have more support.

Just dropping off some hugs :)
Helen i'm so sorry to hear you are struggling. Just remember what a great person you are and i really hope things will start looking up for you soon.

Thanks Jo darling *cuddles*

Am feeling very very very low tonight. Got my mental health assessment at 10am, don't deserve it. Don't want to go through all that (and I am going to) to be told the same thing and given help that I can't even ****ing access properly even when I try.

*huggles*

Hey sweetie. You deserve all the love and support anyone can give. I know how scary the assments can be, but you are strong and will make it through. Hang in there, things will get better. I'm just a pm away if ya need. *huggles again*

Thank you sweetie :) That means a lot to me. Had my assessment today.

How was the assessment? hope it went ok x

It was alright, just pushed myself really hard, felt he ignored a thing or two. But is referring me to CBT :)