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YodaBearInterrupted 25-09-2007 05:30 AM

Please help Jenna! *bitheway*
 
She's not doing well right now at all and I am talking to her over AIM. She's dissociating very badly... and I think she's been "taken over" by some person.. cause she's not the one responding to me. She worries me, partially because the statements she makes about how he wants to hurt her and won't let her go at all till she suffers greatly... could some other people help please? Anything would help here... :sad: :crazy: :crazy: :sad: :cry:


Jenna dear, please come back to us. You are a really good person and I really care for you. You have a lot of people that care for you and would miss you if you did something to yourself. What happened is NOT your fault hun, remember that. *MASSIVE HUGS* You can make it through this Jenna.. you are stronger!

Matt

YodaBearInterrupted 25-09-2007 06:14 AM

Jenna.. please respond to Jolene or me... you are worrying us VERY BADLY Jenna... we both are VERY WORRIED about you... we care for you and want you to be ok...

cry4hlp 25-09-2007 07:11 AM

Yes Jenna Matt and I are very worried...you've never hesitated this long to respond sweetie. *sighs* *GIVE HUGE HUG* Please contact either one of us.
If anyone has heard from Jenna please let me know if she's ok. Matt and I are really worried and had no success in contacting Jenna.
Please be safe Jenna...we are here for you sweetie...you know that

Tig 25-09-2007 12:43 PM

(((Jenna)))

xxx

tonightXweXfall 25-09-2007 03:33 PM

*hugs* Jenna, please keep safe. I'm gonna be worried if you hurt yourself, or let yourself get hurt. don't hessitate to email me or anything.

Gwen

murtagh799 25-09-2007 05:50 PM

WE LOVE YOU JENNA!!!

I think she's going to make it through :D

BekahCook 25-09-2007 06:43 PM

i am very worried about her too. lets just keep talking to her and reasuring her.

The Hierophant 25-09-2007 09:14 PM

Isn't this that Socho person?

cry4hlp 26-09-2007 02:34 AM

Hey everyone...please show support for Jenna...i think she really needs it.. I know i care for her and am worried... any support and hugs would be of great help...thanks
((((JENNA)))) *HOLDS JENNA TIGHTLY*

bleedingdragon 26-09-2007 03:47 AM

Jenna,
Hugs lots, please come on RYL and let us know how you are

Dave

Yesterday's Majic 26-09-2007 10:16 AM

Jenna, please respond to us! Look at all the people who are here for you. We would like very much to know whether or not you are still with us. *hugs*

Dan 26-09-2007 12:32 PM

Yea it is socho.

bitheway 26-09-2007 02:09 PM

first of all thanks for all the support, tho he has won and has taken over....

second of all.....it wasnt your place to say what my other ryl name was.....if i wanted people to know i would have told them.....so please stop......

oceanavenue2311 26-09-2007 04:03 PM

**hugs**

The Hierophant 26-09-2007 06:05 PM

So thats a yes then?

bitheway 26-09-2007 06:34 PM

.(edited)

as for the people who are supporting me.....thank you very much, he has backed down for a little bit to allow me to make this reply.....hopefully he will not come back, but i know he will, so if i seem bitchy right now thats y and im sorry....i just cant deal with people

The Hierophant 26-09-2007 06:38 PM

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craola 26-09-2007 08:14 PM

Can people please not bring up these other issues here, this is a support thread for Jenna. If anyone has any problems you can contact me or one of the other moderators.

bitheway 26-09-2007 10:00 PM

he's coming back *shudders* i need to find a way to fight him.....anyone have any advice.....

cry4hlp 27-09-2007 03:18 AM

Im sorry Bitheway...did i offend you in any way? For using your name? Im sorry...but i really want you to know that i really care...
Lotza luv *HUGS*

Dan 27-09-2007 03:19 AM

Who is he Jenna?

bitheway 27-09-2007 03:29 AM

no it wasnt you cry....dont worry....

he is they guy who abused me this summer when i was inpatient....he is in my mind now

bitheway 27-09-2007 05:43 PM

I have taken over her mind.....She is not strong enough to fight me......she did want to thank you all for all of your support though, i dont know when she will break through and be back, maybe soon, maybe never......

bleedingdragon 27-09-2007 07:56 PM

Jenna please hear us ,
and know that we care about you and support you, you can fight him and come back, we are here for you
Hugs

Dave

bitheway 27-09-2007 11:42 PM

too bad she cant hear u......

bleedingdragon 28-09-2007 12:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bitheway (Post 292208)
too bad she cant hear u......

Jenna we are still here for you please get back to us,

and she might not hear us yet, but she will
we arnt going anywhere
we want to help her she has our support
stay strong jenna

Dave

cry4hlp 28-09-2007 12:57 AM

stay strong Jenna... we are here for you...i know your a strong person and you will fight this...He cant hurt you anymore...you have to be strong swettie... We all care...

lotsa luv *HUGS!*

bitheway 28-09-2007 01:11 AM

her mind is a powerful place.....all she can see now is the night i abused her....over and over again......

strong_and_successful 28-09-2007 01:20 AM

Jenna, come back to us, we care about you. Don't let him hurt you. I know that's easier said than done, but please try for us. Stand up to him, we all know how strong you are. ~*~HUGS~*~ to Jenna and not the creepy guy.

Teagan

bitheway 28-09-2007 05:55 AM

I broke free for now.....im really scared that hell come back though.....im too afraid to sleep so im drinking so much caffiene idk what else to do....i have a feeling that as soon as i go to sleep hell come back.....

i dont remember the last two or so days, i hope i wasnt mean to anyone, if i was im really sorry......

thanks for all the support, it means a lot to me to see that you guys care so much about me, even knowing about him.....

i remember his name now, its Tarek.....so if i refer to myself as Tarek thats y.....

Snow White. 28-09-2007 07:25 AM

If it happens again, can you try and calm yourself down and refocus on yourself, and on physical objects around you at the moment (a desk, a chair) to try and bring you back to reality?

How are you feeling now love?

bitheway 28-09-2007 08:02 AM

Back to being Tarek......

Jenna is too afraid to sleep now, cause all she sees is that night cause i am forcing her to....

and that grounding exercise doesnt work for her.

Yesterday's Majic 28-09-2007 08:28 AM

Jenna is stronger than you T. Jenna will break back through and demolish your memory.

Jenna you can beat him! He is only a weak memory and you are a strong woman.

We are all here supporting you and even when he doesn't want you to know it, you do because you are so strong and you are surrounded by all of our love!

bitheway 28-09-2007 02:25 PM

Jenna is a weakling, she gave up....luckily no one here has noticed the change in her personality so no one knows shes gone.

badbadkitty13 28-09-2007 02:28 PM

whatever, she's hiding and gaining her strength.
Jenna is strong and she'll be back to kick your ass.

FOOL! haven't you ever heard of a possum?

strong_and_successful 28-09-2007 03:15 PM

Jenna, don't let this idiot control you. He's not worth it. Do you have a professional you can talk to? They can help you learn to beat him. I know you're a very strong girl, don't let anybody tell you any different. We all have faith in you that you can beat his creepy ass.

LyricsToMyLife 28-09-2007 04:05 PM

I know what you are going through.. same thing happens to me. its ok, they cant saty in forever...i hope not. HUGS*

tonightXweXfall 28-09-2007 04:11 PM

Jenna, don't let him control you. Remember, you have us, and you can always talk to us. You don't have to let him control you. just think of all of the people who care about you. Please get back to us.

bitheway 28-09-2007 04:37 PM

All of this support is really helping me fight him....It makes me smile when i read the replies to this thread.....Btw thank you Matt for posting it in the first place, that really meant a lot to me....i never knew so many people cared.....*blushes*

Yesterday's Majic 28-09-2007 10:41 PM

Kick T out for good Jenna! Your therapist can help! Ypou are too good and too strong to allow this shit to control you. We all care so much. If you feel him taking over come here and read all the support. Together we can amplify your strength and he will lose!

bleedingdragon 28-09-2007 11:05 PM

Jenna you stay strong and know that you can beat him
we are here for you and will support you Jenna
you can stay in control and please keep finding ways to control him
let people help you please seek professional help.

But please also keep talking to us we want to hear you Jenna ok

Dave

badbadkitty13 29-09-2007 01:04 AM

ha. told him so...

glad to see Jenna back, even if only for a bit.

please keep talking to us.

bitheway 29-09-2007 05:17 AM

Jenna is really triggered right now....she just came back from the movies...it was a wicked good movie though, if only it didnt have that one scene

badbadkitty13 29-09-2007 12:48 PM

what movie was it?

is there anything we could do to lessen the triggered level?

bitheway 29-09-2007 04:55 PM

The Kingdom....there was a car crash.....

badbadkitty13 29-09-2007 07:34 PM

well you said it was wicked good aside from that... how about focusing on part you thought was really awesome instead of that one scene?

whats the main plot about? i dont think i've heard of that one
(Yes, I DO live in a cave.....)

bitheway 29-09-2007 08:55 PM

a terrorist attack in Saudia Arabia (spelling?)

bitheway 29-09-2007 09:52 PM

Help.....he really wants me to cut....he keeps telling me how im a worthless piece of shit, how i dont deserve all of this support.....i just want him out of my head....i want my life back *cries*

badbadkitty13 30-09-2007 01:24 AM

if he doesnt shut up, and takes over again.. he's gonna see the mean bitch Kitty....

You deserve all the support because you are human (not to mention a nice one...).

T on the other hand, doesnt even deserve the time of day, cuz he's just an abusive terrorist asshole.

bitheway 30-09-2007 04:35 AM

gulp....he heard that.....scared.....

Tarek is taking over as im writing this.....panicks.....


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