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Thanks for the hug Ian! I'm glad you're ok!

it's ok... there are lots of ppl on here and i'm sure it's hard to remember who all u've introduced urself to :) ...

Sole: Your welcome :)

ljmeep: it also doesnt help that i have a terrible memory lol.

*hugs ian, solo and kelly*

Thanks Oliver! How ya doin?

thanks, oliver... *hugs back* :/

*huggles all* Hope everyone is making it through this time of year alright.

For all the new people: Hi! I'm Laura.

That's all for now... for some reason I don't feel like there is much for me to say right now heh *curls up in corner*

Hello, Laura. Nice to meet you... I'm Kelly. :)

I'm sorry you're not great Oliver! *Hugs* I'm not great either.

Hi Laura! I'm Elaine

sorry your not great either Elaine. *hugs*

*hugs kelly and laura*

aww... seems none of us are great ... :( *hugs all who needs hugs*

*plops down in the nearest corner, grumbling to self about how annoying hubby is* >.<

*Sits with Kelly grumbling about how annoying my hubby is too*

thanks for being my grumbling budy, solo. kinda wishing i had something handy to throw at him! Why the hell grump about not being able to hear the tv when it's a DVRed thing. Hello! He can pause it!

*searches for something to throw* >.<

*curls up in corner*
slepy =[

*stops searching for something to throw and grabs HorseRidinBbe07 a blanket and pillow* :)

Here's somethin to throw at him Kelly. Make it count so you can have some peace for a while!

*Gives Heather a cuddly plush animal to snuggle*

There's football on so I don't see that happening unless I aim for the TV and that's just too expensive *sigh.. mentally throws heavy object at hubby's head and wishes it could be real*

AHHHHHHHHHHHH! I'm litterally screaming inside my head! I think I may lock myself in the bathroom and drown out the sound with a nice long hot bath and my book! *shivers... cuz it's cold!*

That sounds perfect Kelly! Go relax n enjoy!

In theory it sounded good :/ but being alone when I'm annoyed like that and have been fightin the urge to cut off and on all day... not so much. :( I lose again. Didn't turn out to be a very long bath either... couldn't make myself relax >.<

I understand. I had apprehension about it based on myself, but didn't want to project onto you.

eh well... u can't win 'em all. to top it off ... now that hubby's done watching his damn football... he suddenly wants some... ugh! So NOT in the mood! :(

Kelly, it sounds like we could switch hubbys and none of us would know the difference. I'm sorry! I feel for ya.

yeah... *blows off steam* I think I may retreat to bed soon... I'm not really that tired, but I can't SI in there (baby sleeps in our room still and all my tools are kept out of there) so no worries there... maybe I can trick myself into sleeping :/ ....

i told hubby i was too tired for sex ... now i have to fake it *sulks a bit*

*Hugs Ian*

*Hugs Helen*

*Hugs Solo*

*Hugs Ljmeep*

*Hugs Heather*

*Hugs Laura*

*Hugs Oliver*

It's been a few hours since anyone last posted , how are you all now? , I'm Sorry about your Husbands Ljmeep and Solo :S

*hugs Mike back and MammaMia* I'm kinda grumy, but I'm not really a monring person... and I'm annoyed cuz hubby said he'd get up with the kids and he's still sleeping while I'm taking care of them :/

*stretches and yawns* such is life... *grabs a pillow and blankey and bunkers down on the nearest couch*

*Hugs Helen* How are you hun?

*Hugs Ljmeep* I'm Mark , not Mike :P

crap! sorry... I'm still really sleepy *hangs head in shame* ;) sorry... please forgive me, Mark... *hugs back*

You know that's really a sad mistake... I have this all saved in my computer so I won't forget who is who... I was just too tired to check :(

*hugs mark, helen, kelly, heather and solo*

Helen congrats on your milestone the other day, sorry can't remember how many months it was, but I remember it was a lot so congrats. how are you?

How are you Mark?

Kelly and solo sorry to hear that your husbands are giving you a hard time

Hi Lindsey *hugs* how are you?

*hugs oliver back* eh... kinda used to the hubby issues by now... how r u today?

Thats Okay Ljmeep , I forget who's who sometimes too , you still get *Hugs* from me :)

*Hugs Oliver* How are you.

*Hugs Lindsay* How are you too?

I am back at my flat tomorrow , I love my parents but living in their house with them makes me remember why I was so desperate to move out , NO privacy , thoughtless comments and general annoyance . I know my family is better than many but still. I feel selfish saying that.

Not selfish, Mark. You have a right to feel the way you do and no one should ever tell you differently.

*Hugs Kelly* I'm sorry too I've missed that your name was in your signature all this time , I've been calling your Ljmeep , oops :S

Hugs back Mark, Oliver and MammaMia. Hugs to everyone else too. We all needem!

Thanks Oliver :) To answer yours & Mark's question, I'm ok. How are you both?

I'm feeling okay thanks Oliver , Releived to be goingback to my flat tomorrow , being out of my flat is being out of my comfort zone ,I've lived there over 14 months now .
I'm hoping that the couple of weeks I was REALLY low before Christmas was a blip and won't come back , I really hope this feeling okay isn't an upwards blip :S

*curls into a ball in the corner*

Hey guys. Glad Christmas is all over and done with. Me and my fiance had a row Christmas day in the evening but now everything seems better than ever. I think it was all the festive tension building up. My main Christmas present doesn't actually work so we had to order a different one which won't be here until Friday and I have a lot of cleaning to do this evening so probably won't be about. Hope you're all okay x

*Hugs Sam* Whats up Sam?

*Hugs Sarah* I hope your replacement works okay :) I'm glad it's all over too:)

*Sports and Hugs Crimson* How was your holidays Crimson?

Is it sad and pathetic that I'm glad I have work this morning?

The following content has been hidden - Reason : epic fail holiday weekend

It started good enough... I got to leave early thursday morning and was off friday. Mid day friday B, R and M came over we had a gift exchange, dinner, watched a movie, ate popcorn, chitchatted, etc it was nice til MIL got home since she doesn't like them so immediately asked if they were staying *rolls eyes* Then MIL decided at about 9 or 10 pm she was going to take off to go 75 miles away and not bother coming back till 9 pm Christmas night (after we had gotten her and V -who also went- gifts and stockings and tried to make sure we'd have enough food, etc etc.) even G (who is the most spoiled, snotty, attitude problem filled family member usually) declined to go with MIL and V because "christmas is about being with your family and if you already said you'd be here and they got extra stuff for you it's rude to not bother being there" (the kids think family and friends give you presents and santa fills the stockings so even the animals have stockings that get filled with chew toys and the like... typically you only get a stocking if you're there but they got one since we'd already bought the stuff)
The people down stairs fried their TVs and the fire department came up at 330 am Christmas morning to tell us to unplug everything and that they were turning off the electric till the electric people came to see/fix the problem... It was still cold that night... J came by, then C didn't show up till 6 pm when she said she was spending the day with us, then she brought a friend over (that we've met twice) and them M brought 2 friends we'd never met before... MIL and V get back and V just drops **** in the middle of the floor the kids just cleaned up and so my 8 yr old started yelling at her to move it and MIL goes "do you see the way she talks to me? D and Crimson let all the kids talk to me like that all the time!" (yeah, well you see I taught my kids that respect is a 2 way street years ago... they know to get respect you need to give it so since V, G and MIL treat them like crap they give it back. C and M and J have never been "talked to wrong" by my kids because they treat them like people...) then MIL says "that's it I'm leaving" and C says "to where? a guys house?" and MIL gets offended and starts yelling and screaming at her... C tells her "well every time you abandon your family it's to be with some guy" (when more than half of your 6 children -who hate each other- have voiced this it tends to be the truth, just saying) and so MIL yells at her again and slams the door as she leaves (to go to her ex boyfriends house... see above sentiment). V goes after her after berating C for being honest, then comes back upstairs and spends more than an hour sitting in the middle of the living room floor looking like a beaten dog... at 630 am the next day my 4 yr old started throwing up... she was sick all of yesterday... she was getting upset with everyone being assholes xmas day so I think she got stressed out and thats why she was sick but everyone else thinks it was a virus that magically no one else we know has *rolls eyes* ah yes and T was back on leave from Afghanistan and was supposed to be over with his wife L on Christmas day but didn't come by till yesterday and then only stayed 10 minutes... *sigh*
All in all the day was bad enough D was considering when we move not telling them where our new house is and just inviting B, R and M over xmas eve and J, S and E over xmas day since they won't **** it up for the rest of us... And the reason that's really sad is that it is HIS FAMILY! All of them are -except B, R and M... but they're such close friends they're practically family and are better than the blood family- Our best xmas of our relationship was just me, D, our older 2 and that year we just had us and one present for each kid and a small dinner. I miss being broke and having nothing -to include extra family members polluting my space-
Ah yes and I almost forgot the hour or so C and G argued over if G's clothing was appropriate or just made her a slut, skank or ho depending on the portion of the conversation...

the best part of the weekend was showing the kids 'house fairy' and getting them excited to clean up their room. we went through and got a bag of toys ready to donate and got an entire other bag of trash cleared out then cleaned up and put all the legos and lincoln logs in their bin and everything else tidy including their snow pants (that M said she'd get them 4 months ago) and coats hung up... they want to keep their room clean so they can get a visit and surprise from the house fairy. :)
*sigh* FML

*hugs Hels* you aren't invisible, love :)
*hugs Mark* ...see the humongous post above to answer your question... though after typing it all out I do feel a bit better...
*waves at sam (?)* anything you can do to distract yourself?
*hugs Sarah*
how is everyone?

PS~ I love chocolate covered sunflower seeds! I got myself a big container for 60% off because it was in a Christmas tree shaped bottle!

xXDyingSoulXx, I'm sorry you want to si right now... you're not alone! <3

It's Ok, Mark, I'm ok with either ljmeep or Kelly. :)

MammaMia, promise you are not invisable *hugs*

*hugs solo back*... :) finally got a little of that quiet time I've been beggin' for... wasn't 100% quiet, but it was much more than I expected to get.