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airwolf282
19-10-2008, 06:00 AM
sorry i'm back here again wasting space on these boards. i'm being so ****ing selfish. you have every right to tell me to **** off. i'm just a selfish ****ing ******** ****.

i feel like i want to die. my wife got really mad at me for cutting today. i cut my wrist, not extremely deep or anything but bled all over my clothes. i made several fast, agressive cuts but they weren't so deep. it was very impulsive, i didn't think about what i was doing at all. i know that makes me such a ********. i asked her if she could help me patch it up so i would stop bleeding and that's when she got pissed off at me. we had a massive fight about it and i think she hates me or resents me. i just don't know how to communicate with her without us always getting angry at each other. i don't think she can take it anymore and it's clear that she's better off without me. i am a worthless husband to her, she doesn't deserve this **** anymore. i'm sure if she didn't lack self esteem and didn't have depression she would have dumped me years ago. she got put on anti depressants on her 30th birthday for christ sake. it shows how much of a burden i am to her. the only thing i have succeeded in is ****ing up everything and being a failure and a **** husband.

i feel so bad. i had to ask my mum for some money to go see my grandfather at his 80th birthday because we can't afford to pay for all the petrol as he lives 12 hours away (greedy mother****ing oil companies rob everyone in australia and having a crappy 8 year old car with a thirsty v6 engine doesn't help either). i wish we had a smaller car so we could save money there but we just don't have the money to get one. i can't even manage ****ing finances without asking for help, can't get a job, i'm just a total failure. i feel like my life is totally worthless, pointless and a complete failure.

right now i want to od. i have a whole box of antidepressants i can take. i have about half a bottle or so of bourbon i can take them with so hopefully i can just fall asleep and never wake up. it may just be what's needed to rid the world of me. it will relieve my wife so much that she won't have so much weight on her shoulders because that's all i am to her, a dead weight. i won't be able to bother anyone. i worry that it might upset my family though, that's the only thing stopping me. i should maybe think about making it look like an accident, possibly with my vehicle or motorbike. i don't know i just feel so ****ing bad. i can't even figure out a way for me to be gone. i haven't eaten today and i have been awake since 4am, it's now 4pm. i went to have some bourbon to stop me stressing out but i managed to stop myself because my wife will get really mad if i start drinking. i just wished there was a way out but i know there is not. as sure as the sun will rise tomorrow morning, things will never ever get better, only worse.

nathan :crying: :sad:

BoundNoMore
19-10-2008, 06:02 AM
You are not wasting space.
Talk to us... we are here to support you.

Animad
19-10-2008, 10:26 AM
Suicide wouldn't "relieve your wife". I'm sure she doesn't resent you or anything. Maybe you have a low self-esteem and low self-worth to make you feel like that?

Suicide won't solve anything. Yes, you'll be gone, you won't have anything to worry aboutbut think then about your family, your mum, your Grandfather who won't have you around on is 80th Birthday, do you really want that because I'm sure they'll be devastated and left wondering if they are to blame. There are ALWAYS other ways to get through. And you may be going through a hard time right now but that DOESN'T mean you always will be, things change in life and it's the situation right now that you're in that's hard but give a few months time and everything may change. You have no way of knowing. Everything can change. If you kill yourself you will never know and though you will never suffer again, your family will be suffering because of their loss and you will never go through a happy moment again, your chance to improve things will be gone.

I know it's hard but you will be able to get through this. Talk to your mum, your wife, let them know you're having a hard time and explain why. Explain to your wife why you cut yourself and that maybe you weren't in total control of your emotions and that you'd find it easier if she supported you through this rather than just getting at you for cutting or whatever.

I know it is hard, I've been through my fair share of **** situation but I've learnt that if you keep fighting you WILL get through and I feel that is what you should keep in mind, everything is possible one way or another. Do you really want to end it now and not see when things improve?

Kim