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Merc
02-04-2008, 08:07 AM
of th fight w my parents and thedfaglllin gh out' just after Xmas, nod do i wish to explain
I was fine with it. Honestly, i finally sood up to their abuseAND D wolud be more than happy to NEVER have them in my life again.
Unfortuantely, hubby gets cll at work, statinfg." I would have expceted YOU to call" meaning im the bitch of course an the reason he has not called.(ive seen this game playd w my older sister befopre, to the 'T' ) He set thenm VERY straight on THAT score: that we are together in this.
What wont get out of my head is the fact that they feel im the one who did wrong by protecting my daughter and Im now keeping hubby away from them.
I KNOW they did it to hurt..i KNOW this, yet it still does.That your own parents culd feel so little for you as to say these things. i know much of this wont make sense, but they are not worht my time or efort to explain the whioler thing.
I had HOPED they would NEVER call, it wwas looking that way..and now this...
Well. I want NO ctc wm ith the,i will not speak to them, I dread saying this but i hate thm in my life again , for all the hurt over the years. NO i WILL NOT forgive them...they have (in this call) said my daughter lied which we know FOR FACT Isnt true.
I DO NO want them anywhere near me...EVER.
romp

effervescence
02-04-2008, 09:08 AM
*hugs* parents suck

Casper_Fading
02-04-2008, 10:55 AM
Oh honey, that sucks so bad. SCREW THEM! By this I know you're the better person. I'm so happy your hubby stuck by you, you should look at the light of that! And look at the light of your daughter being with you too. YOU don't need them. Unfortunately it hurts so bad that it's hard to look past anything but the pain. But THEY are the pain. You're special honey. Don't forget that. It's to their shame that they don't see it. SCREW THEM!

Jess

blondiebear
02-04-2008, 04:34 PM
I have caller ID and when it shows up Private Caller I worry cause it might be my parents. I hate it when Dad calls. It takes him half and hour to get to the point and he's getting Mom's mean mouth since retirement.

pea soup
02-04-2008, 04:40 PM
im so sorry romp...
i know all too well the pain that parents can cause.
its hard to put them out of your life but sometimes even harder keeping them in your life.
do what you think is best for YOU hunni.
much love.
xxxxxxxxx

Stellata
03-04-2008, 08:35 PM
It sounds like your parents are rather manipulative and abusive towards you. Has it always been this way? Maybe it would help to talk about that fight that happened last year here?
I affirm your firm stand of protection.
Remember that we're on your side.